You could say that sex is an art that is perfected over time. The more you know, the better you can perform doing the deed and the happier your partner will be! These pointers are loosely based on experiences I've had that were mainly done by inexperienced men, who just needed a little more knowledge to get it right.
#1 Don't ignore the clitoris
The clitoris is the most sensitive part and is often the main part which provides the most pleasure. Whatever you do, whether it's oral or penetration, always get the clitoris involved!
#2 Don't be rough with the clitoris
The clitoris is the same as the end of the penis - and is just as sensitive! If you wouldn't like someone slapping/flicking/biting the end of your penis, don't do it to a woman because the clitoris can be extremely painful when injured or played with roughly.
#3 Don't stop a woman from pleasuring herself
When a woman wants to pleasure herself during sex, some guys don't like it as they assume it's because they are unable to pleasure the woman and some will totally prevent it by moving her hand away. However, some women can only orgasm through the clitoris, so surely you'd want her to help herself get to orgasm, whilst enjoying the intimacy and act of sex? It doesn't mean you're bad in bed, it just means the woman isn't as sensitive and needs a helping hand (her own hand) to get things going.
#4 Don't think the woman didn't enjoy it because she didn't orgasm
It's a fact that women don't orgasm as often as men during sex. Men will orgasm almost every single time they have sex, whilst it's much less likely for women. Women still enjoy sex, even if they don't orgasm. They enjoy seeing you satisfied and appreciating her body. They love the intimacy and being in the moment with you. An orgasm isn't the make or break of a sexual experience, but that doesn't mean you can give up trying to bring her to orgasm.
#5 Don't stop learning
Even if you think you're a sex God (no-one is anyway), there's still something new to learn. As I said before, the more you know, the better you can please in the bedroom. Ask your partner what she wants and what she prefers in bed. Let her be honest about what you do in bed, that she doesn't like, without you getting offended. Take it as an opportunity to grow and change. The better the communication, the better the sex for you both!
What Girls & Guys Said
23 47Good take.
Keep teaching them, they need such lessons
Some girls like the clit roughly rubbed.
Some. You have to check first.
Im not gonna lie I don't know why but i thought this was a list of things not to do while just in bed with a woman... as in not having sex lol
I was fully expecting to see "dont fart"
My innocent mind is a beautiful thing 😇
Haha, it's perfectly fine to fart in bed with a girl, just be ready for a bigger one.
Lololol
Oh disgusting.
@Proof_Striker55 dont worry one day you'll find a girl you love so much that you won't mind when she out farts you
Exactly :P
I think my biggest problem with my female lover, is that she doesn't let herself go, and let herself enjoy herself. It some odd idea that in our society, its ok for a man to love sex, and be treated as a stud if he can do great things in sex. But a woman is tagged as a slut if she loves sex, or can make a guy blow his mind. I mean I want a woman who is free, mind and body, who can not only enjoy the peasure i give her, but can not only blow my load, by blow my mind as well. Where we can both be laying on the bed, wondering if we are still alive. lol
How about he can do what he wants?
what if she says "you suck" after its all said and done
She's not a very nice person who cares about how you feel.
Haha i said that before but it was half way a joke.
I said I'd get a second opinion.
I am ready now. 😏✌
Ladies are u ready for the Sci-fi journey
Why are women's bodies so weird?
I wish they were simpler.
We all do 😆
Lmao implying they ever getting laid
Don't trust an orgasm
Hannah591 I agree on number 1,2,3 and 5. But number 3 is a unrespectful behaviour against man I think. I already know that clitoris is very important for women. As you said " If you wouldn't like someone slapping/flicking/biting the end of your penis, don't do it to a woman because the clitoris can be extremely painful when injured or played with roughly. ". I definitely agree on this. But number 3 is not true. İf a girl do this during the sex I would be angry and unhappy. Probably wouldn't have sex with her again.
Oh sorry I mixed the numbers. I agree 1,2,4 and 5. The wrong one is 3. At the beginning I said wrong.
I wasn't aware for #4 ... i made it my mission to make her cum (and almost everytime i do) but when i don't i feel like shit and sometimes apologize to her xD man i feel stupid now
I find this is a really common feelings but most of the time, we just enjoy the whole situation. :)
But it's nice to show her you care about her pleasure afterwards and apologise but it honestly, doesn't bother us that much.
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This is so... Inappropriate.
Of course, you're young and innocent.
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Lmao you're thirteen what are you doing on a site like this? Get off the internet child.
@99percentangel yeah I'm thirteen so? Your a teenager aswell. Why don't you get off the internet too?
I think you mean you're* and there's a huge difference between seventeen and thirteen. I'll be turning a legal adult soon, eighteen. You are thirteen, you're barely even a teenager.
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Youths... smh
@MakeShiftThug lol
#1 Don't ignore the clitoris!
Love it!
who is being in bed with a woman? I never had a girlfriend. Girls dont like me.
i can do it probably.
No problem at all. Your 5 points are correct, but there are a lot more. Look at the face of your girl and you will find the right way.