Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Unarguable fact: women get sex way easier than men. So casual sex is a choice, not something that is worked for. Woman: "I feel like sex tonight", and she will get it. She knows she has friends that will do her, or if not, a nice trip to the bar will do it, or even easier: online dating. There is a sea of men willing. She just needs to state her intention. Additionally, Any woman can get her fantasy met at a request. Hell, many women could charge shitloads for sex and they do.
Most men don't have this luxury at all. There are books, media, online material etc that make up a multimillion dollar industry to help men attract women. Frankly, most men don't have what it is that attracts women on the same level that woman attract men. Men have to have conditions of entry to just start being attractive: looks, money, some mastered talent, cocky funny humour (aloof humour goes nowhere) or a dominant "alpha" personality (and anyone who disagrees with alpha and what it stands for needs to go to grammar school). Woman charge for sex, and men pay for it through time or money (usually both). Unless you are an extrovert, this time takes a toll too (going out all the time)
So there is something interesting about the two adages : "if something works, don't fix it" and "prostitution is the oldest profession in the world" they both compliment each other, why?
1) It saves men time.
Getting laid means going out, chatting, chasing, escalating, getting dates, getting rejected etc. Many powerful men get prostitutes for this exact reason. They can cut all the bull shit and get to the end goal. Chasing women will come at a cost of not doing something else (working on talents or skills).
2) It often saves money.
Barring the fact that time is money, again all the above groundwork a guy needs to do to get laid costs money. And the return on investment is not in favour of a guy. Again, powerful men use escorts because they know their time is valuable.
3) A guy can be himself and get laid
Too short? Introvert? You not a social butterfly? Academics got you more into the books than woman? Nice guy? Everyone of you can have casual sex thanks to escorts. You can do the most hardest task a human can do and change your personality to be that what woman want, but it's a long road. In the meantime, you can still have fun.
4) You can explore sexually.
Again, why many men pay for sex (including powerful men) is that you can pay for your fantasies. You have to pay woman to do porn, strip and other wild things (would be an awesome world if they did that shit for fun with males). Think Hugh Hefner would get any woman without money? Additionally, it's quicker (and for most men, the only way) to pay for a threesome, for example. That's why again, many powerful men pay for this. It's a task getting one women back to your apartment, imagine 2 😳. I even read about a group of college students from a powerful college pay to have a gangbang. Again, they had to pay. But fantasy bucket list ticked. That's all that matters.
5) You don't have to deal with woman's shit (before, during or after)
What some guys do to get laid is mind blowing. But it's only mind blowing in the context of how easy it is for women and a handful of guys. Every guy has some crazy story of what he did to get laid. Most men even glorify the tragic fact that "they got lucky". With a prostitute, you can be yourself, you don't have to worry about rules and judgements, you can have fun without consequences (provided you wear a condom lol), you can save yourself from any drama and although we all know they are not attracted to their clients, they still give you positive scripts and experiences unlike the woman who give guys the cold shoulder and negative experiences.
So yeah. Very simple and easy. They should legalise it worldwide, embrace and protect this oldest profession. Will help many men and protect many women.
What Girls & Guys Said
46 92men who pay women for sex are so pathetic
What about woman who require a man to pay them for sex? Time, dinner dates, flowers, chocolate, jewellery, shoes? Just cause it's done under love doesn't mean it's hidden absolutely, kinda need to be open minded in this situation
So are women that do it.
@LifeChoices these women are not any better and just because i didn't include women you don't have to that conclusion when no one even asked or said anything about it? i'm sorry but i gave my opinion on men paying for sex.
@bobbyxx exactly.
Opinions mean shit in the face of logic. Please tell me where my 5 assertions are wrong? Women think it's pathetic because it's a problem they don't have. It's the equivalent of a man saying woman fighting for equal work rights is pathetic. we don't have that problem so it's not a big deal for us.
what do you mean we don't have that problem? i can also crave sex and won't go to a prostitute to make me feel better or save myself from a heartbreak and time, it's just wrong and disgusting.
Woman crave sex and get it. Men dont. We have to "get lucky" or I can be sure and pay? Very simple concept.
if women crave sex and get yet men don't who are the women having sex with? joking aside I think you are just trying to justify what you want and are extremely bitter from being rejected. you like prostitutes because they will do what you say and you have no respect for females which is the reason you were rejected in the first place. you see females objects to fuck. you have many issues but I'm not being paid to help you and I doubt you would listen
@runchickenrun because bright spark, any person with brains knows that women are getting sex from a handful of guys and it's not spread out evenly. So 10 women would fuck John and tell the rest of the guys to piss off. John gets all the women and is the stud, the woman all get laid and the rest of us go back to the pub. It's very funny when you actually see a player at a party. Each guy has had one or two girls. That player has had the whole party. That means the girl has at least been with her guy and that guy.
that was the joke!! he is trying to compare all females to sex workers. you having problems getting girls at parties isn't my problem sorry chap.
@LifeChoices that was the joke!! he is trying to compare all females to sex workers. you having problems getting girls at parties isn't my problem sorry chap.
@runchickenrun I didn't compare anything. I gave a real life hypothetical to describe how the sex game works out in real life. and you assume so much about me lol. Fight the assertions, not me. You using a timeless classic argumentive flaw: poisoning the well. You attacking me and not what I said. Wrong.
The Comments that girls left were disgusting and showed how they are jealous of hookers. They said "guys who go for prostitutes are ugly loosers... they are grosss... they are dusgusting pigs. They are piece of shit. They have no self esteem". These comments got the most upvotes from girls. And guys who said they prefer sluts got the most UPVOTES from girls too. It is obvious that if this take was "5 Unarguable Reasons Why Prostitutes are A Good Option for the Average Guy" it would get the nicest comments from girls.
@gukikip well it's okay for me to disgust you because i know i'm right
The only way for you to be right op is to argue the 5 assertions. If you can't. You are wrong regardless of who we men are.
No need to disgust me because I have never slept with a slut. Prostitues are cleaner than sluts
The only thing that bothers me about this is that it implies men don't find pleasure in female pleasure. Sex should be erotic and full of *mutual* lust and prostitutes are impersonal and are doing it for money.
I know, it's the only short fall. All men find pleasure in getting women off. But many men would never know, hence prostitution exists. An unnatractive man (which can be physical or mental or both) is not going to turn a woman on irrespective.
Women are turned on by actions more than looks although its a factor.
And that's reassuring 😄
Hence I put both physical or mental. The actions one is what makes it so hard for a man. If it was physical looks, all a man need do is hit the gym and problem solved. But it doesn't work that way does it? A man has to do the hard thing of changing his entire personality. But that reinforces his insecurities: that who he is , is not worthy of a woman's attraction. So either way it's a mess. Hence the beauty of prostitution. An introvert for example, or shy nice guy can be promiscuous like his jock counterparts. And the nice guy wins because he can get sex while still being himself and not breaking a woman's heart.
I don't blame a lot of guys for using prostitutes. They aren't hurting anyone. Could be my libertarian side coming out. It's dumb how girls categorize all of these guys as losers who use call girls. Girls often come with a lot of drama and if you are a 5/10 guy then you usually aren't having that much casual sex. Everyone has needs.
Just look how sloots responded to guys who like this take. Sluts hate that guys prefer prostitutes over them. You can do whatever you want sexually with a hooker but with a sloot you have to please her as you are the one who asked her for sex. And sloots are ugly women who use promiscuity as a way of getting attention
"Unarguable fact: women get sex way easier than men." from men below them. most decent looking healthy guys can easily get a fat chick in bed. stop it, women have just as many problems as guys regarding getting who they want. its stupid, it's meaningless garbage sex, it doesn't make you feel good about who you are. i advocate for prostitution for health reasons, & to diminish rape. health reasons like being able to be checked for disease frequently.
Well it's true!.. But let's just say!.. It's more fun to play the game of love!
Like Taylor Swift said 'Boys only want love if it's torture (she didn't ment torture she ment the chase and the trail of hunting)'
And she also said 'love is a game, which is good until both the sides are playing fair and with rules'..
Understand it and play safe!..
If i started dating a guy and found out he had paid for sex... I don't know that might be a deal breaker
If you get girls drinks and pay for dinners etc. Don't you also pay for sex but not pay more?
That's what 90% of guys go on dates for, sex
I've dated extremely religious women before. And when I got tired of boning them I would bring up all the prostitutes I've been with. Instead of getting grossed out and dumping me right away, everyone of them got aroused at the idea. Everyone!
@yucel_eden --Prostitutes are 100 times cheaper than conventional dating.
@yucel_eden so you are owed sex if you pay for dinner?
@Rissyanne --Not "owed." but I usually get at least a bj in the car after paying for a first date dinner. It's the least a girl can do.
Marriage and long term relationships are legalised prostitution. When your girlfriend ends the marriage/relationship you lose have your resources, you have to pay alimony, court fees, child support and not to mention the costs in the relationship/marriage.
@Regulatus well I have went out with several men... never gave sex or a bj. I think that is childish. You better stick to hookers.
@Mrwoo99 --Exactly! No one has ever been with a prostitute and then had a court order him to continue paying her for 20 years so that she can live in the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed.
@Mrwoo99 if you really hate women that much. Then you can be with men as long as you say... no homo. Which I think is so stupid. But it fits you perfectly
@Regulatus No offense, but you strike me as the sort of man who cannot get any woman. Everyone is a tough guy on the internet but few are legit. Legitimate players are not that vehemently opposed to women, divorce and the like. Only the extremely bitter and/or incompetent types are.
@JRICHARDS1996 great comment...
@Rissyanne well first correction, women don't owe me sex if I pay for the dinner. But in the current world it is pretty much common. Secondly marriage isn't prostitution either. I don't agree with that. But I would disagree with the negative stigma towards escorting. If it's not agreed, not cheating and safe what's the problem?
@yucel_eden i would never be with a guy who went to hookers... a lot of women feel that way. So go back to your hookers
@yucel_eden It destroys the traditional family unit, that same destruction ironically being responsible for so many of the gripes that you neckbeards have with women today.
@Rissyanne I have never used an escort, for the record. I'm just twisting the argument.
@JRICHARDS1996 --My world is shattered now. An internet douchbag mangina doesn't like me.
@yucel_eden behave
@Rissyanne you sound like my mother
The same applies to women who have been pros in the past.
@pooper89 it depends. If we talk about numbers and our sexual past, if you said you had a lot of guys, I will tell you. If you more conservative, I won't. The point of all this Is choice. Woman can choose and men can't. Men have to pay.
I don't know where the guys on this site are getting that notion. There are lots of guys who get women to sleep with them without paying them. It is a load of horseshit. Obviously you men here are bitter. Anyone can see that when you make such claims. I fuck my boyfriend but he no money. Should i just stop fucking him cuz he hasn't paid for my meals in awhile? Fuck you people.
@yucel_eden I dont know.. ask your dad.
Chill your tits.
@Rissyanne well more like my grandmother, that's how old you are
@yucel_eden If I were you... I wouldn't be throwing insults. Especially when you are defending a bunch loser guys going to hookers.
@Rissyanne tell me what type of guy you think would get a prostitute?
I really dont give a damn... I am sick of this. Go be with your hookers and leave me out of this.
If your ONLY desire is to touch a naked woman these reasons may be OK.
If you want to like her and be liked...
Lol... Whether you friendshipzoned material or get a prozzie, ( usually a commonality there) you not liked that way by women in any event.
I'd prefer to be in the friend zone of of a girl I like over being in the bed of a prostitute.
Well 9/10 that's exactly how it roles anyway. You are in the friend zone of the girl you like (never touching her body) so when she goes home with the other guy, what do you do? You could not touch any body or you can go have fun with a pro.
'fun' ? I doubt it. I preferred to move on. Girls enough.
everything was spot on.
Yeah but there is a serious risk of STI's. STI's areally rampant even with your average girl these days. I can't imagine what the risk wold be with high risk partners.
May I direct you to Australia stats? You have more chance of contracting an sti from the general population than a sex worker. Regulation and proper/professional Condom use, works wonders.
Not average but I suppose if your disabled disregard or obese or a virgin at 30 for what ever reason and your insecure about it, other wise just deal with the dry spell and try not to have unrealistic standards.
No, people like this should not have to lower their standards at all. You are ignorant and bigoted. And I noticed you have to go anon, what you say has less conviction when you go anon.
@bobbyxx I don't think going anon or not makes that much difference hear most of us are fairly close to anon anyway!
@bobbyxx Also i'm not saying this as in its morally wrong or anything self righteous but you are risking your health and its not exactly a cheep option if your in the wrong country it's also illegal. A healthy relation ship is better even if your both find each other ugly, you can do all sorts to hide that in the bed room if your open.
Lmao ok fine leave the regular chicks for me then. Have fun with your prostitutes.
Don't worry bro, the chicks are with you anyways over most guys like me. Whether I get a pro or not.
I will never understand why anyone would want to be with someone who does not want to be with you, and even less when you consider the fact that a lot of prostitutes are miserable or forced into selling their bodies.
In my opinion, guys who visit prostitutes are pathetic and pretty much the lowest quality of men out there.
This whole "she is a prostitute therefore she is forced/miserable/human trafficking crap is tiresome. I'm busy getting my research to reply back to all of you on this. Yes some are. Many are not. But that said, men that are soft, introvert, "not alpha" etc are not attractive to women anyway. At least there is an option for these guys to be promiscuous. For you to deny them this makes you a) ingnorant or b) selfish.
Men who use prostitutes by themselves are so pathetic and sad
Although I personally wouldn't use a prostitute, maybe this will put it into perspective...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_BPt18sbyQ
As opposed to a woman who's definition of a loser male is a kind nice guy? Introvert? A guy who focused on academics? A guy who may not be that fun? Please!!! What defines loser in this world is not a guy who also wants that which women get so easy.
The Comments that girls left were disgusting and showed how they are jealous of hookers. They said "guys who go for prostitutes are ugly loosers... they are grosss... they are dusgusting pigs. They are piece of shit. They have no self esteem". These comments got the most upvotes from girls. And guys who said they prefer sluts got the most UPVOTES from girls too. It is obvious that if this take was "5 Unarguable Reasons Why Prostitutes are A Good Option for the Average Guy" it would get the nicest comments from girls.
Interesting take, even more interesting how you were 100% about your points being unarguable, all the women responding aren't explaining why they find prostitutes so horrible. Well done OP.
Because many are forced into it. Women and children. You will never know which one enjoys being paid for sex and which one is getting forced by a pimp. It happens a lot more than you think.
@BuchitaBuchys tell me. Why the demand for prostitutes? Why do 15% of Ozzie men use sex workers (that's one stat I have) why do celebrities use them, sports stars, normal people, business men... married men etc? Why this demand (illegal or non-illegal). Surely there can't be THAT many pathetic guys? It's just because you cannot disprove those facts that I mentioned. The other thing with all of this, is that it wouldn't be bad if everyone had these struggles. But woman don't. That's what this is all about. If a woman wants anything sexual, she will get it. You have the choice. The only one that effects us all is a good long term partner. But sex? Woman have pussy power and men have financial power. That's it.
It doesn't save time and money when you are an underdog, pathetic, horny sex ADDICT.
Life's short? so what? Get laid every night with some hookers and after you got older you have nobody to care about you and you feel like a void sex addict and you will make out with prostitutes for the rest of your pathetic life.
by the way i wanted to mention that not only men who pay for sex are pathetic but also women who get paid for it. Its all the same and in my opinion its totally mutual.
i don't think you understand what sex addiction is.
Just be because somebody uses a pro, doesn't make him an addict. Silly.
Lot's of butthurt females, who do not understand the extremely wild urges for men to have sex.
But even I do think, that paying for sex is only for the realest losers. I would never pay for sex and I would never fall victim into such a ridiculous exploitation.
And no, it NEVER saves money. You still pay a freaking load of money for once instance of sex. It's the fastest way to get you broke.
Women can have urges to have sex as well, but we don't always put our fannies first. Lol. But I agree with you on the rest.
@Shorty1991 Oh well, I didn't expect that ;) Surprise, surprise. Glad I'm not the only one thinking like that :D
Prostitutes are a lot more expensive, are more likely to have STDs and are a temporary fix for horniness.
So you fucked a girl, great but what about companionship?
That's what a girlfriend is for.
You're totally wrong, dude. Let's talk about money. How many dates takes till a girl is willing to spread her legs for you? How much money you have to spend? Prostitutes are way cheaper. Plus, with a girl there's no guarantee and you can finish in "friends zone" Wanna companionship? That's what's girlfriend's for, right. But what in the case you wanna try something in sex and your girlfriend don't? You can give up and wanking with fantasy in your head, or get a prostitute and try it.
@goldfinch23 What is the cost of an average prostitute? About $200 - $600 Let's use the cheaper value $200/hour. Assuming you aren't a total moron and the girl likes you too the average amount of dates till sex is 3. First date - coffee. The cost of coffee and something to eat for both of you would total at about $20. Second date-movie. The average movie ticket costs $8.70. The highest sales tax rate in the US is 7% (wow lucky them) and then you buy snacks too so say $25 for both of you. Third date-dinner. Let's say you spend $50 on both of you. Let's tally that up 20+25+50 =$95. Now your concern is that she may not be compatible with you sexually. If sex is the only thing you care about then get a hooker. If you don't know what love is and don't want to know by all means get a hooker. But if somewhere deep down there's a part of you that wants to be cared for not just sexually but emotionally by a woman and to care for her as well then you'll risk it and try and get a girlfriend.
Well, originally I'm from Czech Republic. On average date you'll spend approx 500 czk it's about $20. Prostitutes cost exactly the same amount. So you'll spend 3x 20 just to get under her panties. If you're lucky. About sex, it's not the only thing I care about. But I can't believe how many gag girls consider even oral sex as gross. That's why prostitutes will always have many costumers. A lot of guys want to try let's say pissing. For most of the girls it's gross. I can understand that. But once again. If guy knows it's big turn off for his girlfriend, he can either wank and running fantasies in his head or get a hooker.
there's is a guarantee that the guy will most definitely seal the deal. What kind of Cost Benefit Analysis is this anyway. What about Gas or Uber, or both. Wardrobe (I usually get kray fresh for the first and second) 3 dates, that sounds like a week, week and a half of time spent talking/texting, more than likely controlling the flow of the conversation (time being immeasurably more valuable than money. I know I'll be paid next week. I could die any minute. It's an exaggeration, but I'm trying to make a point) And if you can fuck on the third, you could have fucked on the first lol.
@goldfinch23 @NoFcks2Give I'm writing a myTake to respond to this one. I will tag you guys so you can read it.
Dogs also make good companions. I'm ta liking casual sex.
Check out my myTake response
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29829-an-honest-look-at-whether-or-not-a-person-should-pay-for-sex
Prostitutes, or if you want, escorts are the least likely to have stds, primarily because they ALWAYS without exception use a condom during their working hours.
@Gag1220 Condoms break and even professionals make mistakes. There's no gurantee the woman you're with is even clean. The prostitutes are supposed to get check ups once a month but there's no system in place in most countries to make sure they get a check up at all.
In Australia the Std rates are lower in the prostitute population. Not just because measures are in place (for example sexual health clinics support sex worker checkups, you can request a sexual health certificate etc) but when you work as a pro, you are more aware of stds. So you make sure you use a condom. They do body scans to make sure you don't have anything funny. And if the condom breaks (vary rarely), they know to get PEP (post HIV medicine).
That's why I support legalized prostitution. The issue is with illegal prostitution is there are a lot of issues like lack of regulations.
I don't like the whining undertone of "Women are so mean, they are so cruel to men."
That being said, there are some decent points being made: fantasy achievement, saving time (money argument is a little trite) for busy professionals who don't have time for a relationship, and access to sex for people who have less sexual opportunities.
What else can a woman offer me besides sex? If you want companionship also then escorts offer that too. All women are prostitutes anyway, it's just that some use a different currency other than just money so there is alwas an echange for a woman's body. Sex is never free for guys...
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gxyySRgrYsUhttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QBtF3I7fDfU... this is how easy and free women have it.
One of my friends tends to speak about prostitutes like they are more honest women. Basically he is splitting women in 2 categories less honest (get paid for sex intirectly time, effort money and all on long run but deceiving you about it at start) and more honest the prostitutes (get paid for sex with money and is not trying to deceive you about that). By the way he is 54 years old having doughter and all (but divorced)... No, ex wife didn't take anything from him to be one of raging guys about "gold digging bitches"...
That's where woman are going wrong. They think it's loser guys with nothing that get prostitutes. It's normal men.