Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I was reading this article yesterday, so i thought it might be interesting for someone.
1. Mental Foreplay AKA Building Sexual Tension
- Start With A Goodbye – The next time you are saying goodbye to your man, tell him that you will have a big surprise for him the next time you see him and say it with a sly grin on your face so he knows it’s something naughty. You could say this in the morning when he’s leaving for work and then give him ‘the surprise’ later in the evening. Or it could be in a few days time. To key is to keep him wondering, thinking about what’s in store.
- Suggestive Dirty Text Messages – When you are not around your man, try sending him some dirty text messages, suggesting what might be happening later. For example:
Can’t wait for later, so horny right now! x
Just getting ready to blow your mind later!
So glad my roommate isn’t going to be around when you get over…I’ve got something naughty planned for you!
I’m getting wet just thinking about what I have scheduled for this evening 😉
2. You
Guys are visual.
That’s an obvious statement, but it often needs to be repeated…why do you think pornography is a multi-billion dollar business after all?
With this in mind, what you wear plays a massive role in turning your man on and making him eager for sex.
- Your Clothes – I’m not trying to suggest that you go out to Victoria’s Secret and splurge on a whole new wardrobe of lingerie, but what I am suggesting is that you have 1 or 2 things in your closet that you can wear when you really want to turn on your man.
- Your Hair – As well as dressing sexy, don’t forget about your hair and makeup too. Do you look sexier with your hair down or in a ponytail or in a bun or in a different style altogether
- Your Make Up – Does a certain lipstick make your lips look more enticing or does a particular eye shadow make your eyes glimmer.
3. Public Foreplay
Here are a few things that you can do with your man during public foreplay to amp up the sexual tension:
- Rub and caress the inside of his leg.
- Pinch his bum.
- Kiss him, but not too much (leave him wanting more).
- Talk dirty to him (let him know a few details of what you’re planning for later).
- Put your arm around him. ‘Accidentally’ graze or touch his crotch every once in a while.
- Grab his hand and put it on your legs.
Remember the whole purpose of this foreplay idea is not to actually start having sex in public. It’s to build sexual tension.
4. Pinching, Grabbing, Groping & Touching
Most guys enjoy being with someone who is sometimes an aggressor and sometimes more submissive and receptive to them.
There are so many different ways to touch your man that give him a range of different sensations.
- You can softly wrap your hands around his neck and pull him in to kiss him.
- You can put your hands under his shirt and run your nails up and down his back.
- You can grab his ass outside his trousers and pinch it.
- You can massage his back, neck, and shoulders.
- You can teasingly run your fingers along the inside of his leg, right up to his crotch.
- You can run your fingers through his scalp to massage it.
- When he’s not expecting it, you can even tickle him to keep things exciting.
5. Secret Shower
Surprising your man in the shower can make for some really hot foreplay…and sex!
A really simple foreplay game is to be really flirty with him and tease him before you are both about to go to bed together. Then before you do jump into bed, ask your man to have a shower first and tell him that you’ll dry him off afterward.
When your man hops in the shower follow him in a minute later and start washing him. But don’t think about giving him a hand job or blow job while in there. Wait until after the shower! He’ll practically be begging for it.
Pro Tip: Washing his private parts with soap and water will feel extra intense thanks to the texture of the soapy water on his genitals.
Oh, and don’t forget to dry him off afterwards!
6. Put on a Self Pleasure Show
Men find it incredibly hot seeing their girl getting off. So the next time you are in bed with him ask him if he’d like you to put on a little show for him. He won’t say no!
There are a number of ways that you can make your ‘self-pleasure’ show hotter:
- Tell him that he can only watch until you finish, that you enjoy teasing him and want to see him watching, but not touching. This kind of teasing will make him jump you when you finally give him permission to get involved.
- Let your man join in with you. He can focus on your neck and breasts while you rub your clit. Or he can finger you while you rub your clit.
- Try starting off with a striptease and then moving on to a ‘self-pleasure’ show.
- Don’t forget to tell him how much you’re enjoying yourself. Talking in explicit detail about how much fun you’re having is going to make him extra horny.
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