60yr old male with a 23yr old female?

Question

What are your thoughts on a 60yr old guy persuing a 23yr old girl? The girl looks about 18, the guy definitely looks 60.

fnfnfnfn · Accepted Answer

Their choice... She's probably getting something. And he is too. Out of it.
But is it sustainable?
Perhaps they don't care...
(PS: My uncle fell for his neice, in her late teens. They had six kids. She left him... he died alone. She was depressed by 40. But I'm sure he took good care of her and gave her all she wanted while they were together. Problem was that his wife, like quite a few long time wives, was treating him pretty bad. Who's to blame? I really don't know...)

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

There are lots of guys who like younger girls. But the girl has to be okay with the relationship for it to be going on. If both of them are happy, then my best to both of them.
There are negatives. Different likes and experiences. Can't last too long as he is much closer to a death date. Obviously there are positives since they are enjoying the relationship.
More power to them. I wish them the best.

Jusin · Answer

Ew too old to be with a girl that young that looks even younger. They say age is just a number but it has a cutoff. when he's old enough to be her grandpa it's gross.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am 66, my absolute lowest limit would be 45, and - realistically - I do not expect to find a partner younger than 55. My current girlfriend is 57 years old and we are a good match.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Depends on the pursuing bit, that sounds stalker to creepy and that she does not really want the attention.

Also depends if any emotional pressure applied etc.

If both ‘normal’ and she is fully aware of age and has no mental health issues etc, then no problem really, it’s just between them.

It’s when people take advantage it becomes problem, weird and wrong.

Avicenna · Answer

Unusual, but not unheard of. I assume she isn't interested.

Bricealan · Answer

Jeeze. If she is 23, she is an adult? Her choice I think, as she is an adult unless she is not competent to make good decisions for some reason?

Dargil · Answer

Repulsive.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Living the dream!

hasdrubal164 · Answer

if he treats her well and they can communicate well

Janet03 · Answer

they're both adults so whats the issue

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Gold digger

Andres77 · Answer

What? No pics?

genericname85 · Answer

meh. to each their own. i neither get why one would like a girl that much younger, nor do i get why the girl would like such a grandpa... but it's not my life so not my business.

AmeerX · Answer

I don't think I would judge them. It is love

Born-for-sex · Answer

I mean is she encouraging him? I find that disgusting and I find him to be a pervert. But if she is encouraging him then I guess it is just weird... haha!