8 Amazing Oral Sex Tips You Should Try On Your Man

[Elarra]

I know, most of us ladies don’t really like giving head. Lord knows I don’t. Absolutely hate it. However, it’s very possible to give head and it not be all that bad. And why not? If your man likes it, treats you right, and just wants head a couple times a week, then you should do it for him, especially if he goes down on you. But, and this may be just me, I’ve noticed on this site and in my personal life that there is one major reason women don’t like giving head. Sometimes it’s the smell, other times it’s the idea of it being in our mouths and making us feel like sluts, but the biggest reason? We don’t know if we’re any good at it. And men, this is partially your fault because very rarely do you give any indication that it’s awesome.

So I took it upon myself to look at various questions asked on G@G, by my friends, and did a bit of research. Here’s what I found.

1. Don’t Use Your Teeth

Honestly, I’m a little annoyed I even have to say this, but I guess this is mostly for beginners or women who have never done it before. Please…I beg you…if your man doesn’t ask you to use your teeth, DO NOT USE YOUR TEETH. Shit hurts. I saw one girl on here complain that it's impossible for her to give head without her teeth. That is a LIE. You’re sucking a man’s penis, not eating a carrot. It is 100% possible to not use teeth. Do you have to open your mouth wider than it usually is? Yes. But…get over it.

2. It’s Not All About Sucking

Yeah, you look at porn and you see women slurp and suck and go in and out for 10 or 15 minutes. Truth time: Women in porn do not give good head because they’re putting on a SHOW. And, I don’t know about you all, but…I’m not doing that. My jaw starts to hurt, I get bored, and frankly, so does he. That’s lame. Make it entertaining. Suck on the tip. Kiss the shaft. Give him a handy while going down. Lick it from the underside starting at the nut sack to the tip really fast and start sucking again. Rub it on your boobs. But you really, honestly, do not have to just suck on it.

Also, when you do suck on it, use your neck, not your head. Using your neck gives it an S or wave like motion that makes it easier to fit more in your mouth without the gag reflex, but also moves his penis around without too much assistance from the hand.

3. His Dick Has Two Other Friends

This one varies from guy to guy, so you may want to check with yours to make sure it’s something he wants, but don’t forget the nut sack. While you’re giving head, play with them gently. Roll them around in your hand. Or, if your jaw is cramping, put them in your mouth one at a time while giving him a hand job simultaneously. Unlike his penis, the testicles aren’t going to require you to open your mouth as wide as you can.

4. Slow Down There, Speedy Gonzales

Just like sex, giving head doesn’t always have to be done at a fast, quick pace. Change speeds. Go fast. Then go really, really, REALLLLLLY slow. Then moderate. Then fast again. Then moderate. Then slow. Then fast. Then slow. Then…well, you get the picture.

5. Look Him In The Eye And Talk To Him

Ladies, one thing we have mastered are our eyes. Look him in the eye. If your jaw gets tired, give him a handy and ask him what he likes. Tell him it tastes good (Yes, I know, it probably doesn’t, but say it anyway). Tell him you like how it feels. Even when it’s in your mouth, eye contact is everything. Unless it’s dark in the room, which it isn’t always, you should look him in the eye sometimes.

6. Hold Your Breath And Deep Throat

I was horrible at deep throat once before and couldn’t figure out why. I gagged all the time. It was a turn off and it was annoying. Then I went down on my boyfriend when I had a stuffy nose and it was fine. You know why? BECAUSE I STOPPED BREATHING. It was an epiphany. So if you struggle with deep throat, try holding your breath when you do it. Don’t breathe through your nose!

Oh, and while we’re on the subject of deep throating, when you do it, hold it in your mouth for 2-4 seconds right there. Don’t move. Just leave it there.

7. Look Like You’re Enjoying It

Unless your guy is a jerk who only cares about himself, if he can tell you aren’t enjoying it, he’s not going to enjoy it, either. Well, not as much. No DECENT man likes making a woman do a sexual act she isn’t comfortable doing. And in the end, it can possibly make you both feel a bit dirty and awkward. There’s different ways of accomplishing this. The easiest for us is to moan like we enjoy it. When you take it out of your mouth to give your jaw a rest, smile and bite you bottom lip while looking him in the eye. Put on your girlie voice when you talk to him. However you choose to do it, make sure you let him know in a sexual feminine way that you are enjoying giving him pleasure.

8. Giving Head Isn’t About You

You shouldn’t give your man head if you really just don’t want to or it goes against your morals in some way. Seriously. Can’t guarantee that he’ll stay with you, but if you want on your resume ‘no head’, then keep to it and don’t let him pressure you.

But if you do give your man head, especially if you don’t enjoy it, at least remember it’s not about you. It really is about him, and a lot of times during sex, guys are doing most of the work. The least you can do is give him head and let him relax for 10 or 15 minutes. Seriously, ask him what likes. Ask him what he doesn’t like.

That’s it. Not everything on this list applies to every guy, but I promise there’s at least one or two things on it your man should like. And there’s other techniques out there as well. Feel free to look them up and experiment. But overall, just relax about it. When you’re relax, he’s relaxed, and you’ll both enjoy it that much more.

[Flurr]

You are one amazing woman

[Is8719]

Woman say they don't want to but when there turned on they change there mind? I really thought they enjoyed from the look I saw on there face?

[Adigelunar]

çGood post

[blythely]

#5 is so hot

[james1344]

Excellent write-up, especially the sections on playing with the balls and holding the deep throat. Nicely done!

[relaxrelax]

my kinda girl lol
good take

[sexcrazy12]

love the my take, well done. wish many girls see it like this as well.

[Elarra]

According to the female commenters, they already do it and this is beginner stuff but the male commenters make it sound like women never do this lol

[sexcrazy12]

lol. many use teeth.

[doodlecake]

I don't think deep throating is necessary, you can just use you tongue and your cheek and it'll be fine.

[Elarra]

I think guys just like the visual more than the actual feel, but I'm not a guy, so I wouldn't know.

[zorro2209]

Men like it when you let them come in your mouth.

[pureboy]

yeah all of them are true ;)

[Anonymous]

Great take. That first picture by the way, omg that is hot.

[Anonymous]

Great myTake until 7 & 8. Don't *look* like you're enjoying it, *actually* enjoy it. And if you don't, don't bother. At least with me. I'll get off just fine without it. As for it not being about you, it certainly should be. I just wrote this somewhere else but it bears repeating: The most important sex organ is the brain. When I go down on a woman, I am *totally* getting off on it, and a big part of that is that *she's* getting off on it.

[Anonymous]

Good advice. Your boyfriend sounds like a lucky man!

[Anonymous]

I'm surprised by this. I wouldn't ask a vegetarian how to cook a steak. But for someone who hates oral, you've got the main points down.

[Elarra]

You can hate something and still be able to do it properly lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, but it's uncommon.

[Anonymous]

Why didn't you use a girl with an actual cock in her mouth for the first pic or at least a dildo in her mouth?

I mean if your going to discuss BJ might as well have something related closely to the topic. From the pic, it seems more like this take was about diets just from looking at pics.

[Elarra]

A little something called site rules? lol

[Anonymous]

This may be the best use ever of that Kate Upton pic! Was that your OP, or the editors?

[Elarra]

I put it in there, so far no one has come in and edited my post.

[Opinion Owner]

Freaking awesome! So hot!

[Anonymous]

You must have so much experience with oral sex