9/10, men who have whatever issues with women, choose their women incorrectly. Agree or disagree?

For me, this is the main thing I say whenever I hear some of my dudes having issues with women.

Choose your women correctly, not some bimbo or bitch who sucks your dick kind of good and you decided to get with her because you have nothing else going on in your life.

Or the girl that looks nice in those leggings at the club and talks like a Cali valley girl, goes to bachelorette parties, loves drinking, etc.

I swear men choose the most crap women and then complain when they get cheated on, when she acts up crazy, etc.
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When I see these women, they’re the most average women you can imagine. If you’re going to tolerate craziness and bullshit, at least tolerate it from a more attractive woman….. Make it somewhat worth it.
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  • You have pretty much covered on the reasons a lot of people end up with the wrong person for them, often it’s not that the other person is bad, just not compatible.

    yes at times you end up with a nightmare, humans are like that.

    The reason, from what you said you go by first appearances.

    quote - Or the girl that looks nice in those leggings at the club and talks like a Cali valley girl, goes to bachelorette parties, loves drinking, etc.

    When I see these women, they’re the most average women you can imagine.

    unquote.

    that’s all about first appearances, that is where so many people go wrong.

    They see someone have an initial view which is hard to shake.

    Never judge a book by its cover, always have a good read first.

    You need to understand the other person at an emotional level, to find out if you are compatible.

    We have a saying here about young guys in the military ‘getting cunt struck’, basically guy from the sticks goes to big city and meets a pretty girl, gets married in 6 months and divorced in 2 years. The reason is at times simply down to him going off ‘she looks hot’.

    I learned as a teen never judge a person on how they look, what a girl wears, if she has tattoos, piercings, wears a certain fashion, those are just layers you need to peel back to see the real person.
    it’s the same the other way around, a girl sees a guy with tattoos, piercings or wearing a certain fashion, she avoids him, then sees him later helping some old lady etc, doing something out of character with what image they show.

    There is also the level of attention a couple give each other, how much they are together, the atmosphere, the quick to judge, those comments about others etc, all can cause one to become unhappy. A relationship is something you do 24/7, and you are constantly reading that book, as something will show some new information about them.

    From when I was a teen, my usual bar type is rock, goth, grunge type bars, where people don’t give a shit what you are wearing and you can relax, where you know it’s not what a person wears that defines them.

    i think that movie pretty woman was along those lines.

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  • Agreed.
    Further agreed that those other 1/10 are usually either the stable and sane ones who end up getting hit hard by life's woes and falling down and their guy unfortunately won't (or can't) deal with it effectively enough to help or it's the guy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes to your question. No to some of your examples as if you're putting all women under those context as "crap women" when all our interests, locations (i. e "California" ), or voice is not what determined the potential nor factors of what makes someone a bad choice. Some people look past red flags and get hurt. Some people just have bad luck in romance. Some people just get manipulated thinking someone is a good person. It's all gender.

  • It's usually more that people don't see the issues they have themselves and instead blames it on their choice of partner or anything else in their life, really, rather than taking responsibility for their own actions. Their choice of partner is usually a consequence of their lack of emotional understanding and recognising what healthy traits are in both themselves and others.

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  • It's not just men, and this phenomenon isn't limited to the area of romance. Most people create their own misery. Period.

    • Ya think?

  • No. I think problems in relationships have more to do with lack of communication.

  • Some women start acting crazy BECAUSE the guy treats her like shit. I've had it happen to me. I've seen it happen to other people. Not saying it's always the case but it definitely happens a lot. Being manipulated changes your personality so much, it turns you into the nastiest version of yourself.

  • You are totally right. Everyone must judge his choices first.

  • Yes but it goes both ways. It is a matter of choosing the right or wrong people.

  • Some girls know how to act like a good girl too.
    They've taken many an unsuspecting man through hell.
    If this shit was easy I would have always been happy and lawyers wouldn't be rich... but here we are...🙄

  • Nope. False.

    We don't need to have personal experience. We just look at other people and learn from their failures.

    It's women who think every person of the opposite gender is Jesus and then they find out the hard way and start hating men afterwards.

  • Preach

    • I guess this is why I've always acted crazy 😳 wiggle room

  • Women have poor judgment. Its a fact that they choose men who will abuse them.

  • I agree and that's coming from a guy who has issues. I gravitate towards them I can't help it

  • Well if she's choosing men like you guys then thats also an issue

    • How is that an issue exactly?

    • Well you're judging these women too harshly who cares if she wears leggings and drinks wine? and enjoys sex most of the time its two people that causes issues in a relationship not just the women.

    • Who cares….. everyone judges We’re not the bad men. These women are trash lmao.