A bad time to be horny?

[Anonymous]

This is stupid but I think I'm developing a crush on a teacher. I'm an adult and so is he. He's single but I'm not (relationship but not yet engaged because of jon issues atm). My current boyfriend and i have been together a long time but once i saw his message where he replied to a girls pic on Facebook calling her gorgeous, i don't know ehat he wanted to get out from that! Anyway, since then it's like I've been seeking my own hidden vengeance. I don't want to leave him because i know deep down he loves me and i him.

So this teacher taught us one day and i don't know how but he identified my number. Messaged me saying i can ask him for guidance about anything and the next day sent me a Instagram request. I didn't respond to the request because I'm embarrassed of my profile lol and think he might judge me but I responded pretty late to his WhatsApp message and didn't respond that great tbh cuz i found it weird. The issue is i have a huge exam in a few months. I need to focus on my exam, I've wasted so many weeks just sleeping, and daydreaming about this stupid crush. need to get over everything. Was he interested maybe? Anyway my mind plays this dumb guessing game even though it won't matter if he does because i have an exam and a boyfriend. Ugh!! Why do I get emotionally invested with everyone 😭😭😭

Also I belong to a very conservative family and am religious so we do the deed after marriage. I'm always thinking about sex, men, everything about men turns me on everyday, and am aware of the attention i get (I'm pretty good-looking) and multiple men have tried hitting on me. It just frustrates me how i have to wait for the love of my life whilst rejecting every guy. I'm always horny even though i try to relieve myself a couple of days a week. I have these fantasies and I'm not able to concentrate on my exam because of this constant daydreaming.

Help guys 😭

[Anonymous]

Welcome to being conservative!

My roomate and I both help each other relieve ourselves waiting!

Wanting sex so bad it is just a struggle. For me the right toy helps and keeps my virginity intact.

Your dumb boyfriend what revenge are you doing?

For us the best way is to make stories together write them and save them for ourselves and relieving the constant build up

[Opinion Owner]

Dreaming of what might happen with teachers well my dream was to be the health example for my teach. But so just a story made up

[Asker]

Why would anyone call a random girl gorgeous? On WhatsApp? And then add "?" when she wasn't answering m? Like what was he looking to get out of it? I think that's why I'm falling for other people

[Opinion Owner]

Cause he got bored of you and wanted attention! Like really he is so dumb thinking he won't be cause! My ex did that 3 times and I ended it

[Asker]

:( but we've been together for years and we're going to get married soon. We love each other and we had our first kiss a few days ago :( Ughhhh

[Opinion Owner]

Awww well maybe he just wanted more it is so awful when he won't tell you his needs! After your ready really ask him! Give him the we need to talk. Do you really want him now? Sounds like you want who ever will be exciting

[Asker]

Nah we've been together forever. Also it's a LDR. I'm waiting for him to settle down then we'll get married. That means i have to and am currently rejecting all possible suitors even though there's still no certainty of his job yet. He's trying but... That whole replying to another girl and complimenting her really pissed me off. I have talked to him about it. But i don't know what to do... I've just tried to get it out of my mind and pretend it never happened although who knows what he would have done or maybe has done had she replied. Anyways we can never knoe can we? That's why I'm still with himmmm :( Ughh life.

[Opinion Owner]

You can't know and do you know that is the only one? Being long distance is so hard especially when you don't trust them! Seen so many end from one comment or message Have faith that if he is not the one someone else it and just relieve your needs when you can. Do you have any toys to help?

[WhitneySnow]

I feel you girl. Try and focus on your exam and put off daydreaming about your crush all the time until after the exam is over. Maybe relieve yourself a little bit more often than usual if you need to and it helps you focus.

[Asker]

True. Am trying. Thanks :)

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome 😌

[WhitneySnow]

Thanks for MHO

[B4851]

The feeling is normal, and so is being horny. But it's something we all have to learn to control.

[Asker]

Was the teacher just being nice or was he maybe interested

[B4851]

He may have been interested, but as long as you are in a relationship, leave it alone.

[Asker]

One more thing, is it okay to stay in this relationship even if my trust was broken? I've talked to him about this several times. Why would he say gorgeous and then? if she doesn't reply like was he looking to cheat ot what? I guess it's because of this I've been losing interest, I for one would never have done that, but because he did it now i feel like doing something, not necessarily doing it more like just ughh i don't know how to say it. Hope you get what i mean

[B4851]

Thanks for the mho

[Anonymous]

Do you just rub your clit to masturbate? It might not be enough anymore

[jahaims]

Just get out of the relationship.

[Asker]

and why?

[Luckycharms12]

We can all fine some attractive doesn't mean you will Act on it

[Anonymous]

Fuck you whore! Your partner deserves better bitch

[Asker]

Honestly fuck you, weirdo. I haven't cheated on him or anything, and why was he the first one to reach out to someone and call a random girl gorgeous on her picture on WhatsApp? Was he willing to cheat? It's just a crush i have, so shut it

[Opinion Owner]

People can compliment its normal weirdo

[Asker]

You didn't see the convo so f off weirdo

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck off bitch. You don't fully love your partner

[Asker]

Hahaha sure you know better, bitch. Now piss off :)

[Opinion Owner]

I do know coward

[Opinion Owner]

If you've got guts then show your post to your partner and talk to him about it