A girl called me a beta male. what does it mean. why does someone call a guy a beta?

[Kevin202020]

[MrOracle]

An "alpha male" is a take-charge, make-it-happen, risk-taker, don't-take-crap-from-anyone type of guy. Morals usually less important than winning, and alphas prioritize themselves over all else. They are usually successful in most conventional senses of the word - they are often good-looking, tend to be financially successful, and they are confident and good with women. They're the type of men that women want. Think: James Bond. They're bad boys (cheaters/players), and often REALLY bad boys (criminals).

A "beta male" is a guy who is a follower, an employee, a risk-avoider, passive, perhaps even submissive. He's often reliable, predictable, and often moral, but from most women's perspective, that also means "boring and uninteresting."

[Kevin202020]

But alpha sounds selfish

[MrOracle]

Absolutely. But most women will ignore, look past it, excuse it, rationalize it, or are in complete denial about it. Not all women, but most. Most women chase guys who give them "the feels", even if the guys they chase are terrible people and do all the things they say they hate about men. If the guy gives her butterflies in her stomach and makes her panties wet, they can be rapists or murderers or child traffickers, and a lot of women will still want them.

Let me introduce you to "hot felon" Jeremy Meeks, a Crip gang member with multiple serious violent offences. This is his mugshot:



Because of his good looks, he was glorified when his mugshot was posted on Facebook, leading to him getting a modeling contract (working for Tommy Hilfiger and Carolina Lemke, a sunglasses brand partially owned by Bar Refaeli). He got married to a hot LA chick, and after divorcing her, he's now dating Chloe Green, the daughter of a very wealthy businessman. His violent past was completely ignored, because he was hot.

That's how the world actually works.

[Kevin202020]

That's sick these girls are stupid. If a guy is hot even if he kills someone they will say awww. They shudnt be our judging standards

[MrOracle]

Many serial killers get married in prison to women who only "met" them after their trials. That's farther than most women will go, but mob bosses and gang leaders are never short of women.

[Dchrls78104]

It means that she's a disrespectful little thot that any man with the tiniest bit of sense or self respect should do better not to have around him and you should probably be thankful showed her true nature early enough for you to take warning and avoid her.

[Anonymous]

Not domineering. It’s just the way some guys are.

[Kevin202020]

So how do I dominate like in what aspect

[Opinion Owner]

Eg Taking charge. Making decision.

[Kevin202020]

Like she will listen to me😂

[Anonymous]

It means she was angry and trying to insult you. Nothing more

[Kevin202020]

Actually she wasn't angry v were chating see just casulay said

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not trying to insult you man. But you don't even realize she insulted you. Just because a woman is angry doesn't mean she always shows it. She's mind f***ing you. No decent woman says that to a guy. It's an attack on your very gender. It's like as if you were to tell her she's not very feminine. There's no way that's NOT an insult.

[Kevin202020]

Oh okk didn't know that. That's good yes I would never say she is not feminine

[Opinion Owner]

There is another possibility. She could be just socially stupid. But given your age I assume she's near the same. And while I would expect that kind of comment out of a young teenager most women know that's an insult to a guy by your age.