A girl-friend of mine asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend? I told her no, and she said that's weird. Is it really weird?

I told her that I am straight and I don't sleep with girls and she told me even straight girls sleep with girls. That it's a straight girls thing to experiment with other girls. Is it strange that I don't want to experiment with girls?
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  • Well I think you did the right move because somewhere down the road it would end up ruining your relationship with her because sooner or later if you did it they would get into a big fight your name would come up and it would just turn into a big mess I think you did the right thing whether you're straight or you're not to be honest I had one one time one girl she was my friend and it went to her friends I used to have fantasies about threesomes my name is nothing like my fantasy at all as matter fact I learned that I would rather just be with one girl at a time cuz every time I would get one of them hot and bothered The Other Woman pulled me off of her and that just has no way to do it so that's cool I would be proud of myself if I was you Ricky had cuz most people would not even think about it just do it and then somewhere down the road it would be chaos

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  • 1. I hate the use of the word "experiment." It means that someone wants to disavow responsibility and consequences for their actions. "I'm experimenting with getting my pussy licked by another girl, but I'm not really bisexual or lesbian." Right! An experiment is when the people in white lab coats do controlled manipulations of some variables and measurements of other variables and form conclusions that add to our body of knowledge.

    2. No, most girls are NOT lesbian or bisexual and do not engage in threesomes. The girls who do these things tend to talk about it (like little teen boys who talk nonstop about loving huge boobs) and girls who are heterosexual don't talk much about being straight so you might get the impression that it is more common than it actually is.

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  • Some of us do experiment, but it's not weird if you don't. And even if you were curious about a girl, doesn't mean you want to jump into bed as a threesome.

    • But what's heterosexual about that? As a straight girl I wouldn't be interested in messing around with another girl

    • What is heterosexual about what? I didn't say anything about heterosexual. I think there are different levels of sexuality from straight, curious, Bi, Gay, Pan, whatever... I agreed with you that it's not weird to not want to do things if you are 100% straight.

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  • No, it's not strange. It's true that around 1/3 of women have at least a "phase" where they are "bi-curious" - which is quite a lot, if you think about it - but that still means that 2/3 of women are straight and have no desire to do anything with other women. And even if they did, that doesn't necessarily mean they want a threesome.

    You are allowed to like what you like, and this choice is not at all unreasonable.

  • You do you. Other people have their turn ons.

  • No, ”she” didn’t tell you that.

  • Jane it is your choice and you have sex with only those you want to.

  • Yeah again your friend is obviously bi or lesbian.

  • No, it's not at all weird. That's was a weird thing for her to say.

  • time to break off the relationship. before long she'll start making passes at you too. My own mother was like this. Heh she ended up quite the train wreck in the end. All her friends stopped talking to her and my dad left her. You are right to have your standards and no one should pressure you into doing shit like that. Women are more agreeable to peer pressure than men. Listen, dont go for it. Dont stop being who you are for someone, especially someone without your own best interests at heart.

  • No that's not weird. I wouldn't have done it either.

  • No it’s messed up. I wouldn’t do it. You’re getting in the middle of their relationship. That is the last thing you wanna do. Plus if the energy is not right it can really really mess things up. You should not feel bad at all. Her saying “weird” sounds like psychological projection to me. Like a defense mechanism. Just forget it and walk on. You don’t need to add more bodies to the count and potentially mess up your future pair bonding ability

  • She's sick and depraved. And figure she'll blow up her primary relationship in the process.
    Group sex is never what people think or hope it will be. Usually it's from viewing too much porn - all that fake-sex bullshit.

    No, you did right. She's not really a friend - she's desperate. And she'll use anyone she can to further her depravity.

  • No it's not strange that you are straight, lesbians are always trying to recruit.

  • It's absolutely nothing strange. Some girls like to enjoy 3some with another girl. My ex was such an open girl.

  • Not weird and she made the mistake assuming you would say yes.

  • Go for it 😊

  • No it's not strange. It's true most girls like to experiment but it's usually one on one with nobody around. I don't think it's strange she might want experiment with a girl but you might already know your sexuality and only attracted to guys and don't need to experiment.

  • No honey you are fine. Today’s society thinks that all girls are half lesbian and that just isn’t true. There are plenty of girls just like you that do not have sex with other girls. That being said you don’t have to touch each other. Obviously she wanted to and that would ruin that but guys do threesomes without touching each other all the time. I’m sure if you wanted to do a threesome you could wiggle that to your liking.

  • Not strange at all.

  • No. A lot of people assume threesomes are common and all you need is to find a third person. They're rare and find the third person isn't easy

  • My true opinion, no sexual choices are weird, one should never be judged for their personal choices as long as they are not committing a crime.

  • No I think of you don't like it then it will be fine and there's nothing weird about not wanting to have 2 partners

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