A guy cheated on his pregnant girlfriend for me...what do I do?

Me and him were friends with benefits for a like two months. Then on Thursday I found out that he had a girlfriend. And we had done some stuff on Friday and Saturday. He told me that the only reason that him and his girlfriend were only together because she was pregnant. And they've been in a relationship for a while. But I had no idea of any of this. And they've been dating for a while. I feel bad even though I had no idea he was dating her. What do I do?!?!?!?! Do I tell her? She already hates me for dating him before...ugh. Help!
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WHEN I SAY WE DID STUFF FRIDAY AND SATURDAY I MEAN THE SATURDAY AND FRIDAY BEFORE I FOUND OUT HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND! I'M NOT A COMPLETE WHORE.
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And we didn't have actual sex... we just had oral. I'm still a virgin.
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  • Whatever you do... DO NOT tell her. If you're feeling guilty about it, don't. You said you didn't even know that he had a girlfriend, and even if you did it isn't really your responsibility to keep him from cheating.

    This is all on him. The fact that you're even thinking about telling her makes me think that you're feeling guilty for the sake of your guy friend. Remember: You didn't have sex, and you really don't know what the situation is between them.

    For the answer, just ask yourself: What would telling her accomplish?

    Her hurt and angry at him

    Him hurt and angry at you

    A worse situation between them than what already exists

    He would/will find somebody to have sex with in the future regardless. This is between him and her. Try not to feel guilty about it. She'll end up finding out about his infidelity somehow anyway after one of his future endeavors.

  • You're "not a complete whore" yet you entered a FWB situation for two months. A tad contradictory but that aside; I say cut all ties with that bastard, he used you and you let him do so.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think you have sort of answered your own question. How would you feel if you were at home pregnant, and your boyfriend was sleeping with another woman? It might be that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with his pregnant girlfriend anymore, and that it will eventually end, but that does not give him the right to break her trust. Now that you know the situation you should step away and let him make a decision in what he wants. If he is only staying with her because of the baby then the relationship is doomed to begin with, but he needs to take care of his business first.

  • If you feel bad about it "DO" not talk to him ever again. Do not tell her anything...you don't owe her anything you didn't know that is the dudes fault he should be the one doing something. But honestly if you still have any orientation with him, its stupid...obviously if he didn't tell you that his girlfriend was pregnant and you dind't know he was dating someone else...what makes you think that if you and him were in a relationship if this issue blew over and say yal got together...what makes you think you would be any different then that girl.

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  • You just a booty call for a player, sista.