A guy I had sex with waited a whole week to contact me and I told him to fuck off. I did good?

Not even a single text or call or any sign of acknowledgment that I exist after such a intimate night, for a whole week.
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  • I dont know if you did good or not. I think it is fucked up that it took so long to get back to you. But I would at least give him the chance to explain why it took so long. If you have the chance I would text him to hear his excuse. Just text him. If it is bad you can just tell him you guys are done.

    But lets say he was protesting and was in jail. Or his parents were sick or he was in the hospital? I at least would give him a chance.

  • I think you may have jumped the gun a bit, but we need a little more context. Was it a date, one night stand with phone numbers exchanged, a long period of flirting between friends etc? He might be trying to find out how he feels about a possible relationship and you kinda sprayed that with a Gatling gun?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well why did you have sex with him? You wanted sex. He wanted sex. How you treat other people's how you get treated back. Without respecting yourself you won't get that same respect in return. You hooked up that's it you're a hook up. It's free game with premarital sex.

  • Would I be right in assuming that you had not made any attempt either to contact him during this period?

    • I texted him the day after that night, I suggested to watch one movie that I like next time, and he said "sure, talk to you soon". His "soon" was 7 days later...

    • In that case you certainly put him in his place, good for you. x

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  • Did you try and get in touch with him before if not then neither of you where all that smart and your perfect for each other.
    If you did try and get in touch then short of a good excuse then you did good!

    • I texted him the day after that night, I suggested to watch one movie that I like next time, and he said "sure, talk to you soon". His "soon" was 7 days later...

    • It was just a little too late for me...

    • Yeh soon to me means messaging back later the same day or next day 2 days at the most if he needed longer he should have got in touch sooner to say he needed more time

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  • Lol up to you I guess. I got some girls.. like the Mexican told me that we can just talk when we want to fuck. So different strokes for different folk.

  • Yeah that guy was an asshole

  • Yeah he only want sex and nothing else

  • A week isn't a very long time...

  • Related: A girl posted a really dumb question today on GaG. You're an idiot?

  • yeah you did good. He doesn't need a toxic bitch in his life.

  • Hmmm yeah... good job😁

  • Yea you did good, only fuck someone if you love them and they love you back 👌🏻

  • :D :D :D :D

  • Wow that was rude. Not even just to say hi and how was your night? Dang

  • shows what you meant to him. You know there is a lot of old wisdom out there warning women about what NOT to do sexually, and modern women just go out disregarding it completely, then wonder why they end up emotionally distraught.

  • you do you

  • Was it a one night stand?

  • You would have been better off if you didn't sleep with him in the first place.

  • Too demanding
    Why you think everyone should be around your time. You should have told him to call you in few days. dam.

  • did you try to contact him? I'd say if you did and he didn't answer then you definitely did right. But if you didn't and have no idea why he wouldn't reply without asking you may be jumping the gun. Guys are not like girls, they don't need or usually even want contact every day and most of us go multiple days without even contacting our best of friends.

  • Yes you did good