A guy I like wants me to grab his dick when we’re alone, how can I bring up the courage to do it?

I’m really tempted to do it, but I’m too nervous too, part of me things he won’t like it or it’ll make him uncomfortable, how can i bring up to courage to do it? I really want to
0 2

AI Bot Choice

Superb Opinion
  • What he really wants is for you to touch and caress his dick not grab it. I'm assuming you both are virgins and/or new to sex?
    He probably wants a handjob.. guys love them... if you want get him to show you how he does it... guys are experts with their penis. As you probably know 99% of younger guys masturbate frequently but most will never admit it. What are your thoughts?

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you making out or just sitting together start by placing your hands and rubbing his inner thigh. Look for signs from there. If you get a good response ease into it. It will show how comfortable he is and it will help you ease into the mood where it doesn't seem forced on your part.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Think about this…
    You like him, but he asked you to grab his dick. So, he doesn’t like you the way you like him. My dude is horny af and wants pussy. Do not give it to him, if you want a chance at dating him.

    • No I don’t like him like that, I like him in a sexual way, I don’t want to date him

    • Ooooh…LOL I misunderstood. My apologies. 💜

    • No worries :) thanks for the advice

  • Don't grab and choke his chicken as it might spit in your eye. That might piss you off enough to break it's neck, crack it's two eggs, and set it's nest on fire.

    A guy I like wants me to grab his dick when we’re alone, how can I bring up the courage to do it?
    • Nicely put.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

4 37
  • I think I would start out with some gentle kisses first. See if you both have a strong attraction to that physical gesture. Since you will be alone and the kisses feel secure, I would then think you have a great opening to reach over and caress his dick.

    Just grabbing his dick out of the blue without some other physical connection kinda implies the best you might get is a one night stand. I you are hoping for more than that, go with kisses first.

  • If he said he wants you to do it, it won’t make him up comfortable. I think you just have to do it quickly and do it while you two are doing something I suppose. Watching a movie? Kissing?

    • uncomfortable *

    • Well you look horny

    • @Terioskid Far from it. Sorry that you got the wrong observation lol.

    • Show All
  • Tell him you get a little nervous. Just put your mind at ease and do what you want and like😌(with consent). Take action, he first needs to put you at ease and help build up your confidence to do it.

    • yup. communication is the key

  • When he wants to do it then he won't feel awkward at all , he would definitely going to like it.

  • What are you worried about if he wants you to do it! Just go for it and have fun with it! He will like it too

  • If he asked you to do it why would it make him uncomfortable?

    • I’m just big on consent and making sure people don’t feel uncomfortable

    • But he told you he wanted it, so what you are saying makes no sense.

  • Lose whatever is keeping you from doing it. The guy will like it, i mean he asked for you to do it, and you wanna do it, so do it!
    Best luck to you lol

  • Err, trust me he isn't going to feel uncomfortable and he will like it, no question. Is there anything else that is making you nervous?

  • If you really want to do it and he asked you to do it you should just go for it.

    Whenever I'm nervous about something, I just count to 3 either out loud or in ky head and go for it. It's sorta a way I commit myself to something.

    I'm sure once you finally get it over with, you'll end up enjoying yourself

  • If you are making out, just place your hand there and rub gently.

  • Just do it with a gental touch and he will probably enjoy the feeling.

  • No offense if you are nervous to grab a dick then your are too immature and wait until you become of age and sorry I feel your not age 18-24 but maybe like age 13 -17 If I am wrong please accept my apologies by all means

  • Practice on a hot dog.

  • Reach into his pocket for some loose change and grab whatever else you feel.

  • Maybe ask him to put your hand where he'd most like it to be.

    Or - offer him your hand and TELL him to place it somewhere - - -

  • Trust me, he'll like it. And the only part that may be uncomfortable for him is his boner in his pants.

  • Don’t do it At all move on if you don’t like it

    • I do like it

  • Just take a deep breath and go for it, lol.

  • Just know he will like it. Do it when you guys are cuddling or kissing

  • Just start off slow with massaging his bulge and then kiss him and whisper to him if that feels nice.

  • Show More (21)