A guy I’m currently sleeping with wants me to have a threesome with him and one of his friends. Why would he want this?

I’ve been sleeping with this guy for 3.5 years. He said he wants me to have a threesome with him and one of his male friends. He also said him and this male friend use to have threesomes in the past as well so it’s not new to them. Why would he want me to do this? I get it if it was 2 girls and him but 2 guys and a girl….
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  • Maybe he's bi, either bi-curious or bi-sexual? I mean, having an MMF threeway is a pretty good way of figuring out his sexuality and sexual preferences. Ask him what he's thinking would go down during the threeway, that way you have an idea of what he's looking for.

    When I got invited for my first MMF, I was the third to my two friends. It was clear once we started that he (the other guy, since I'm a guy) had several ideas of things he wanted to do with me and his girlfriend. Mostly having her give him and I head at the same time and then us spit roasting her. We'd all seen each other naked before, and her and I used to sleep together regularly before they started dating, so we were familiar with each other that way. But I hadn't ever been that close to his body, or seen him performing during sex. I ended up pushing the envelope with him when I asked if I could suck his dick. He agreed, and my mouth was the first guy's his cock had ever been in. We hooked up several times pretty regularly after that too.

    So maybe your guy is looking to expand his own sexuality? There's nothing wrong with that, by the way - think of it this way: you'll have double the amount of cock to play with, either inside of you together, or one at a time, whatever you choose! Have fun!

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  • Ask a ton of questions and find out more. Having been in a threesome, im guessing 3 reasons…its arousing to see you with another guy (some guys like that), he wants to worship you with another guy, or he wants to explore new sex acts, maybe bi ones. I have a buddy like that who wanted a threesome with my girlfriend and I. We eventually said yes and had a great time. It turned out he had a thing for both of us.

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  • Some guys are into weird shit!

  • He’s gay. He craves a penis in all of his openings. Stay away from IT.

  • I think he just loves the thought of seeing you get fucked by outher guys too

    And i think he might b wanting to show you how amazing it can be

    There r lot of possibilities... I can keep going 😋😋

  • His motivation dosen't really matter. The question is are you open to trying it. If you're not then just say no

  • Maybe he’s bi or he want to see you getting fucked by two guy’s

  • Because he doesn’t respect you. That’s why he wants it.

  • Sometimes that turns on guys.

  • Tell him the only way is if you get to watch them doing each other. If he goes for it then you know he likes guys more than girls.

  • Some guys are crazy.. thats a big red flag in my opinion

  • He wants to share u

    • Why would he want to share me? That doesn’t sound like a compliment though

    • Maybe he wants to see another guy have sex with u

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