A guy said my vagina looked like pastrami?

I know all woman’s vaginas look different… but was mine so hideous that he had to make such a nasty comment about it. It genuinely hurt my feelings. I’m not one to ever be insecure but this triggered something in me that had me searching up labiaplasty at 4 am in the morning. And the worst part is that he didn’t tell it to me directly, he told his friends who told me. I’ve never felt so belittled and embarrassed.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Forget that guy. He or anyone that negs you, especially for things you can’t control, can take a long walk off a short pier.


    I had a long-standing girlfriend who was blessed with sizable and complex labia. She fell off for several months then showed up post-procedure. I communicate that it was her body and her choice but that it was something I found uniquely sexy about her and ask why she did it. It was because her ex husband belittled her. F*ck that her ex and guy who said that too. You know that sex wasn’t as pleasurable for her after the procedure. Of course, mileage varies but why let some guy unfit for you shape your body and sexy pleasure for you and future partners.

  • At least he did not say it looked like bologna, chopped ham or souse. Pastrami is higher class, better grade meat.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Aw hun, I’m sorry, that’s so wrong to say. I get that people have preferences of how they want vaginas to look… But you can’t control how it looks. It’s genetic. It’s not worth the thousands of dollars to change. You just need to find someone who finds it sexy for the way it is. I understand the embarrassment, but please don’t beat yourself up for it. He just said something disgusting to make himself feel better.

  • Wow, if I were you I would consider breaking up with him, it doesn't sound like he has any regard for your feelings.

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  • Maybe he meant good enough to eat?

  • He sounds immature and doesn't deserve to be anywhere near your vagina.

  • He is an idiot! There are many variations to how those lips look. That is part of what makes them so special. And many of us really prefer what you have! There is no way a guy should be telling others what you have there. Get rid of him now, and choose your guys better in the future. You have a treasure between your legs that only good guys deserve!

  • The vagina is inside the body.

    • I think you know what she meant 🙄

    • @StrawberryShake I believe so do you. (No eyeroll)

    • ? Um

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  • What a strange comment to make.. he doesn’t deserve to ever have access to you again for that comment. That’s no pussy behaviour in my opinion lol don’t listen to him he sounds like a nasty man

  • I wouldn't think too much of it, he was more than likely just trying to be funny in front of his friends. I'm sure it doesn't look like that at all.

  • Ignore him. Most guys like pussy, period. As long as you have one and it's clean, most guys will love it. 😺

    • Haha thank you mark 💕

    • You're welcome 😘

  • Wow. He's such an ass. Your vagina is fine. He is stupid.

  • I never once met a guy who thought a vagina was ugly, so he's just an ignorant loser.

  • I'm really sorry this happened. There's no excuse for making such a thoughtless, hurtful and ignorant comment. And the comment shouldn't have been passed along to you. There's nothing wrong with your labia. But there are a lot of people ignorant about normal female genital anatomy.

  • not all dicks are perfect. he doesn't have to eat your pastrami but he might just be insecure

    • Don't turn this around to make him look better

    • @StrawberryShake i'm definitely not. but i'm trying to give you the guy mentality. he could be insecure about his dick

  • He sounds like a very immature and disrespectful idiot that never deserved to be pleasured by your amazing pussy. Guys like all pussy's and if you happen to have large labia that is just a bonus. Ignore the jerk and please forget about getting any costly and unrequited surgery. You're perfect just as you are.

  • usually it is the girl telling the guy his dick looks like a pastrami.

  • Why do you care what he thinks?

  • He sounds like an idiot that you don’t want to be around. What a jerk!

  • The beef flappy kind?

    I doubt it's that bad, I've only seen one chic with super flappy lips but she was somewhat overweight too.

    • It’s not the lips it’s the labia

    • Most dudes don't care about this, you're going way overboard

  • He's just being a Jerk. F%$# him. Similar thing happened to a friend of mine and it really made her loose confidence she now grows her pubic hair to hide it.

  • Seriously unless there is a medical problem with your vagina don't let what this guy said affect you. I know it's easier said than done but try.

  • People have different preferences. You have confidence issues if a comment about your pussy makes you spiral this hard.

  • did you ask him if he liked your vagina as i think that more the question here?

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