A guy saying “That was good” After a BJ truly a good thing?

[Anonymous]

Hi,

so I have a guy a BJ one night and after it was finished he said “that was good” but I’m just paranoid and overthinking that he only said that, so it wasn’t awkward afterwards? Honestly I was too drunk and inexperienced to even know if he came either.

I did do my best and even deep throated him and he moaned “fuck” twice. I can’t even remember how long it lasted bc my nerves on preforming ok was through the roof while trying to remain relaxed and into it. (I mean I enjoyed giving it, I just worried whether he was enjoying it or not too).

would you tell a girl it was good if it wasn’t to not make her feel bad? Or would you only say that bc you genuinely meant it?

[scentoflavender]

Men usually have a post cum mind clarity thing. If that was all he could manage to say, you might have done so ood he couldn't form any other sentences. And even if he was in your throat, past your taste buds, you'd still know if he finished. The throbing is the give away. More importantly, if he enjoyed it, and you enjoyed it, then everything else is trivial.

[Asker]

Ah yeah I heard a lot about the post clarity thing! it’s interesting. Thanks!

[knottywriter]

It's been a while since I have had the pleasure of a BJ... bad or good... but I am pretty sure when it's bad you will know from their reactions whether they say it was good or not. If he is moaning "fuck" a couple times then I can safely bet that you indeed did a good job and he enjoyed your mouth.

[Asker]

That is a bit relieving to hear. Thanks! I guess I just got worried and over think things. I truly wanted him to enjoy it and was hoping I did my best in something I wasn’t too knowledgeable about.

[knottywriter]

We all overthink things sometimes. And it speaks volumes about you because it shows you truly want to please your partner and make them happen even in just one small area of pleasure. So keep up the good work and you'll become more knowledgeable. Just pay attention to how someone responds. If you need to make an adjustment, don't be afraid to ask what would make it better for them. They can teach you the best at how to please them. I say that to anyone too... whether it's giving a BJ or eating out a lady, be open to learning because they can teach you the best. But truly just pay attention to their response and you'll know you are doing a great job. So go you for taking care of him even when you weren't too knowledgeable.

[Asker]

Thanks! I’ll definitely keep all of that in mind. Yeah should never be ashamed to ask and to learn!!

[knottywriter]

Absolutely welcome! Be confident for sure! Never be ashamed!

[Dargil]

More than once, I have said: "That was very nice. Thank you!' I think that's a good thing.

[Asker]

I love the fact you said Thank you. I feel not many people do.

[Dargil]

Just like preparing an excellent dinner. It took a lot of work an I enjoyed it.

[Woodchuck411]

If he gave you a positive compliment afterwards he must have enjoyed it himself

[Asker]

Hopefully 🤞

[Woodchuck411]

Most guys definitely enjoy it. You probably did an excellent job from. He will be back

[Wise4myage]

Yes of course, because it means he really enjoyed it. From now on, don't be drunk when you give head, and you will remember if he shot his load or not.

[Asker]

That’s is some good advice on the drunk part haha. Definitely.

[Wise4myage]

Cool. And try not to overthink things either. I'm guessing you did just fine. :)

[MasterKS]

It may be apple polish!

[Asker]

I don’t get it?

[MasterKS]

whatever guys say after sex or during sex might not be true.