A guy that cums fast from a hand job?

If a guy cums fast during a hand job, does that mean he doesn't have sex often?
We haven't gotten to sex penetration yet. Just heavy kissing, carressing each other and pleasure down there with his fingers & my hand.. And he cums.

If I hear him grunting or softly moan, should I stop the hand job?
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So if he has sex often, a hand job won't make him cum fast?
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  • Could be a number of reasons.

    1. Excitement (he's a guy, for so long he's been using his own hands, it's great to have someone else do it, thus over-excites himself and doesn't last long.
    = the more you do it, the more he'll get used to it and the longer he'll begin to last.

    2. How tightly are you gripping him? Firmer grips equals more pressure on nerves, thus over stimulation and quicker climaxes
    = ease up on the death grip

    3. Are you focusing on just the head? If a guy is uncircumcised then hand stroking will cause the skin to stimulate the head (the most sensitive part)
    = focus on other areas, don't neglect the balls
    = pulling all foreskin back and then stroking him may work better, still have the hand movement but less stimulation on the head.

  • "If a guy cums fast during a hand job, does that mean he doesn't have sex often? "
    Not necessarily. It may mean that you are good it it.
    "If I hear him grunting or softly moan, should I stop the hand job?"
    Before he cums? Speed up.
    After he cums? Stop.
    "So if he has sex often, a hand job won't make him cum fast?"
    If he is horny and you are skilled, he will cum fast regardless of how active he is.

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  • What's you're secret?
    Asking for a friend 😂

  • not at all but that sucks

  • its normal... a penis is meant to orgasm fast...
    it could mean he's just really aroused...

    if you want to stop... and let him reset a little then go again... sure.. thats up to you

  • nooooooo... let the poor guy finish

  • It means he doesn't masturbate that often.

  • if ylu hear him moaning it usually means he is going to cum
    you could edge him, by slowing down or stop all together and do something else for like 30 secs to a min

    • Do men like that? When you stop and start? Prolong the orgasm?

    • yeah tho it doesn't always work youve gotta learn the signs of whem to stop or he may cum anywau if you leave it too late

    • What are the signs to look or hear out for?

  • Cums fast: YOU TURN HIM ON!

  • you must be so good at it! Keep doing what you’re doing

  • Very truly said.