A life without love or without sex?

One where you have sex with people but can't feel love. The other you don't have a penis or vagina, like a Kent doll but you have someone who loves you unconditionally and you love them the same. It's 1 or the other.
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  • Oh definitely sex without love is preferable. First, love is illusory-at least the old fashioned I'm with you forever variety. I have been single 4 years after decades married. I have had 2 LTRs since. "Love" is merely hormones. Modern women have hugely entitled attitudes, want contradictory things and expect value when offering nothing. Most relationships are good for the initial phase but after about 6 months couples begin to note the faults in the other. Its also true that at about the 6 month mark sexual boredom begins to set in-not that they are bored but it is no longer new and exciting. Further, once a woman feels she has secured you her focus turns from trying to please and be attractive to you to focus on how you are falling short of her "ideal". Its the same for men too. After my marriage ended I initially wanted to get married again eventually but after seeing whats out there its sex without commitment from now on!

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  • gone without sex or love form another person for nearly 3 years now.
    will most likely continue down this path of loneliness and self love.
    unless some girl happens to walk in front of my path and shows interest in me.
    done chasing girls who have no interest in me and only get turned down.

    • I feel it's something that just happens and you rarely find it if you look

    • doesn't help that with modern hookup culture and one night stand culture. it has become harder to find someone to be exclusive with.

    • Yeah you're kinda right. Still, giving up shouldn't be an option

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    • You obviously have a hormone imbalance and suffer from excessive estrogen. Better see an endrocrinologist fast-

    • @dmgstarfleet

      Thanks for unwanted advice. I hope you had checked my opinion. I have recommended how to love your partner without sex. Sex is part of relationship but there are thousands of another ways to make love. Check out my another take also.

      Importance of Sex In Your Relationship ↗

    • regarding unwanted advice I could say the same for your pansy ass opinions. Get some testosterone injections-you emote like a female

  • I can love, but am forced to have problems with sex, due to circumcision damage. It wasn't my choice, and no solution exists.

    It is a frustrating existence, and most people either mock or make derogatory statements if they find out.

    Living without love would be worse, I think, because loneliness and depression feel worse than a constant sensation of someone stabbing my penis.

  • I would say love. I don't need to be loved or told someone loves me and if i can't have it i can show it in many different ways

  • Going for the sex and the fact I get to keep my penis lol

  • I dream of a life where I can have sex without love. Unfortunately, it's very hard for me to disconnect my passion, lust, and romantic instincts from the sex. Sounds like a dream come true.

    • That's deep

    • Yeah I have to have love with sex. I never really felt comfortable with just sex and it always made Me feel guilty or empty for some reason. I guess that's kind of rare for a man.

    • @jkm1864 I never felt empty or uncomfortable with casual sex, but it most certainly is somewhat less satisfying than sex that includes passion and feelings.

  • Well for guys sex actually releases dopamine and testosterone which boosts mood for about a week so technically if a guy is getting laid regularly He can live a happy life on sex alone. Now I'm single and I'd say I miss love the most and just wished I had someone to spend time with but I'm sorry no sex is not an option because there is nothing more depressing and frustrating than loving a woman and never being able to express that love.

  • Shoot me now please

    • Did a bullet came there?

    • @usr_963 what does that even mean

  • Love would be way easier to do without, especially if the premise is you have all the sex you want. It would be a lot easier to enjoy that if you didn't have to deal with the emotional attachment and the downsides that brings.

    • Good point

  • Love. No contest.

  • I will survive in a world whit no sex.

  • Without sex I guess..

  • How would we reproduce then. I want children...
    Anyways probably love. But if I couldn't have kids, I would choose sex

  • A life without love

  • It's not one or the other, though. Worthless hypothetical is a worthless hypothetical.

  • Post-divorce? I want sex over love.

  • I'd rather choose sex, I wouldn't be able to go without it 🤭

  • I choose love

  • Sex without love

  • Love is more important.

  • Kind of like an arranged marriage, they have sex to have children but no love. Also reminds me of that movie “Ghost in the Shell” and “Alita”, they loved but had no sex organs, not sure which way I would go

    • Interesting

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