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A little advice on why my boyfriend closes his eyes on hand jobs/blow jobs?

Hey guys! So I’m in need of some advice here. Whenever i seem to give my boyfriend a handjob/blow job he always closes his eyes. Is it because he thinks of images of other females to help him cum n stay hard? Or to concentrate on the feeling? Im not really tripping just wanna know what y’all think. Do all guys do this? And do all guys use other women fantasies in their head to help cum during sex and hand n blow jobs?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • (Is it) to concentrate on the feeling?
    *That's why I do it. I close my eyes, in part to avoid distractions... ceiling fan, pictures on the wall, etc. to concentrate on "climbing the stairs" to orgasm.
    Is it because he thinks of images of other females to help him cum n stay hard?
    *When I am in the final stretch and need a little push, I stream graphic erotic images, but they are of no particular person, but rather on things done to and by lady parts.
    Watching POV can be good but the angle is awkward. I just want to lay back flat and soak up pleasure.

  • I instinctively close my eyes too. And it's really just to focus on the sensation to me, don't worry ^^

    If that still bother you you can always tell him that you like it when he sometime looks at you while you're doing it, it is quite exciting too

Most Helpful Girls

  • LOL are you seriously giving him a blow job and believe that he is thinking about other women?
    probably the dude likes it and that's his way of enjoying it. like some people close their eyes when they kiss and some they don't.
    is scary that you are so insecure. just relax and go with the flow :)

  • Usually men are creatures of habit and he sounds like someone who needs a visual to get off. Try wearing something sexy (not naked) to interest him towards you or if you're like me and parents are around 🙄 give him the ol side boob!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Omg ahahahahahahahah🤣 it means you are doing a good job lol would it be more normal for him to death stare at you as you do it

  • Don't over think it. He's just enjoying it a lot. Nothing more. But just ask him if you want to know for sure. He also might be concentrating on not orgasming too soon... because it feels so good.

  • He is praying the gay away

  • I think he's concentrating on the feelings.

  • He's enjoying himself and blocking out external feedback. It allows him to concentrate better on how it feels. Honestly this should be obvious.

  • It means you're doing a great job. Closing the eyes ist most relaxing and helps not to cum too fast.

  • he is just enjoying it

  • So he can imagine his sister jerking him off instead of you

  • He is enjoying it that's why

  • One or both.

  • he's really enjoying it... yes i do it aswell

  • he is feeling shy to see you.

  • He is enjoying

  • If I close my eyes it's to imagine someone else giving me pleasure. I do that during sex too.

  • Maybe. Why not ask him.

  • i close my eyes so i can imagime the girl thats sucking my dick is getting her pussy licked by her best friend

  • He’s enjoying it and letting his mind go!

  • For pleasure

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