Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
What did that title just say?!?!
What??! Men can't have multiple orgasms, that's just silly!
The truth is, we can. It's just a matter of knowing the technique. Now, most people had no idea that this can actually happen. In fact, did you know that men can have exactly the same orgasms as women? Yes, us men can even have different TYPES of orgasms!
Now, be forewarned, this will take some practice. And one of the types of orgasms is VERY taboo and probably won't be explored by many. Whatever floats your boat I assume.
Now, let's start with the basics.
Guys, all your penis is, is a male clitoris. When you're a fetus, testosterone starts churning through you body and turns your clit into a penis. Shocking stuff. That's why the male ejaculatory orgasm feels just like a woman's clitoral orgasm. In which the feelings of pleasure are genital based and can usually be felt by the surrounding areas.
Now, I want you to realize, EJACULATION AND ORGASM ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS. Don't believe me? Then how can a pre-pubescent boy have an orgasm without ejaculation? Exactly. If you can learn to control ejaculation, then you can learn to have multiple penile orgasms.
- First step, familiarize yourself with your "point of no return". This is the point where you've stimulated your penis to the point where orgasm is inevitable. Once you know when this is, begin PC exercises. Your PC muscle is the muscle that triggers ejaculation. It's the muscle that, when your peeing, makes you stop peeing when you flex it. You can actually feel this muscle in your perineum area.
- Now, next time you masturbate, keep going to your point of no return, then when your almost there, stop all stimulation and slam on you PC muscle. This will stop the buildup from ejaculation. Wait about 20 seconds and repeat. This is also a great way to workout this muscle.
- Once you have mastered that, keep pushing farther and farther to you point of no return and slamming the PC muscle. Once you get good enough, you will experience orgasm without ejaculation and WITHOUT the refractory period. So you will not lose any arousal and you will be able to have another one immediately! This is the way to have the penile multiple orgasms!
- Next, is the prostate. Ohh, touchy subject. Why is it touchy? Because the only way to stimulate this is through your ass. Too taboo for you yet? Good. Because this is this is the male equivalent of the G-Spot. And I'm sure you can picture how much pleasure you can get just from witnessing women stimulate their G-Spot. I recommend getting a prostate massager for this kind of play.
- Basically you're going to stick your finger up there from between your legs, palm up and make a come hither motion with your finger. You should feel a walnut sized lump. This is the prostate. If you stimulate this long enough, you can have multiple, FULL-BODIED orgasms without ejaculation. Sound good to you yet? I would recommend getting an aneros. Though if you have no patience, this will never work for you.
There you have it. As you can see, the male and female orgasms are basically the same. The Only real difference is brain activity in which some parts of the female brain shut down during orgasm and some parts of the male brain turn on (eg, the insula becomes active in the male brain which is a primitive part of the brain).
Performing any of these actions does not make you homosexual at all. It's simply getting in touch with yourself and seeing what feels good.
So, what are you waiting for? Go try it!
What Girls & Guys Said
6 19Thns for the info! great thing I've dropped here.
Ok so this is kind of weird but did you know that a guy's g spot is in their anus. That's why the reciever during gay sex may also orgasm. So looks like being gay isn't so unnatural if our bodies were made that way. But that is a whole other topic.
@ lovesexpassion:
shhh! its true! we don't need girls (never did in fact) -- only for pesky offspring.
otherwise a hole's a hole, & a mouth is a mouth! once you get past all the mental baggage society (& specifically religious morons) impart on you, you're good to go!
when it comes to pleasure, males know males & no girl can even come CLOSE to giving a BJ, like a guy can! (except for maybe a toothless career hooker who's been blowing guys guys for 20+ years)