A mother's battle scares; stretch marks & C section scars How do you feel about it? Men do you give it much thought? Women do you still feel sexy?
meetkitty123Guru
WOMEN DO YOU STILL FEEL SEXUALLY APPEALING AND CONFIDENT AFTER PREGNANCY? Does it affect your sex life?For the most part I come off sexy and confident but I figured I'd share something. I don't much care for my stomach. I've had two pregnancies. I've lost quite a bit of weight. There's a touch of stretch marks or slight loose skin. Both pregnancies had to be c-sections. Of course they never cut in the same spot though they say they will. So I have two scars.
I did not stay with the father of my children. so when I entered the dating world it was very difficult for me. I was afraid the men would find it unattractive because they were not the ones who made me pregnant.2 C-SECTION SCARSMy man was very sweet. He's never complain about the marks and he's even kissed them for me. However I still feel self-conscious when he runs his hands on my stomach. I don't like being touched above the panty line and between the navel. Of course sometimes the c-section scars are still sensitive even after all this time.
I sometimes wonder how other men feel about the marks or do they feel indifferent as well? Especially if they're dating a woman who's had children prior to them coming together. I've posted a few more examples I found online.
Yes still sexy! Carry those pregnant battle scars with pride!
Vote A
Sexy only when covered up.
Vote B
Struggling to find it sexy
Vote C
I'm in different.
Vote D
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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+1 y
I would love it if you share your story or experiences please.
Women are sexy regardless but I know some women wear Pantyhose to hide stretch marks
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CountlickerXper 2
+1 y
A+ be proud of you tiger stripes. they mean that you have brought life into the world.
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JerreMaster
+1 y
I voted A. They don’t bother me a bit.
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Guardian45Guru
+1 y
As for me, being a former paramedic means these type of scars are seen all the time; however, speaking as an ALMOST PERFECT SPECIMEN OF A REAL MAN with a hardly noticeable knife scar, I can say I think your C-section scars are trivial and beautiful, a testament to the wonderful mother you are! BRAVO!
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PeterCharie1991Xper 6
+1 y
doesn't really bother me tbh my ex had stretch marks didn't stop me giving her one
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TstrbrainerGuru
+1 y
I haven't thought about it much. So it might be awkward, but if it's my woman, I'll find her sexy
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mrgspoterYoda
+1 y
I never thought about it too much, I see them n think how much they go through compared to men
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lookn4funXper 1
+1 y
Only an idoit would say something about them. And no stretch marks and C section scar doesn't bother me. She is still a sexy momma regardless!😊
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krin_mGuru
+1 y
During the intimate moments, my eyes are focused on the woman's face while my hands and other parts are focused on her erogenous zones. The sexy aspect of those never changes regardless of c-section scars or stretch marks. May be I'm a simple person and so be it. :-)
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tonycarXper 5
+1 y
I feel that every woman should be proud of them selfs, if they feel sexy or not should matter. If a woman has had a baby, that is one of the most beautiful things in the world, and evey man should be lucky to be with one. That my short opinion on the matter
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gandolph3Yoda
+1 y
every one has scars, some you see, some you can't. scars change us, some make us stronger, some never really heal. yet we go on. the only people that belittle us for our scars, haven't had any. some one that sees the real you, won't see or care about your physical scars, take care, you are sexy
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DRLover96Xper 5
+1 y
Idc no ones perfecf
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SalGent62Xper 2
+1 y
You're beautiful babe! Those marks make you sexier. You're a fantastic mother and should be proud of your accomplishments.
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meetkitty123
+1 y
Thanks hun.
Anonymous
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Perfectly fine. - Skin marks do not (or hardly) matter, whether c-sec, stretchmarks, cellulite or other. Other women have stripper-tits with big scars and still feature in jerk-off movies - so there cannot be too many men that object... XD
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Anonymous
+1 y
No, I Never Give It Thought, It Is A Part Of Who She Is And With Good Reason...
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Anonymous
+1 y
I don’t know about how other women feel about it, but I had to have a surgery recently in that area. It’s not what you may think, nothing was cut off, just a male problem that some of us get. Anyway, I’m a little concerned about what a girl will think when she sees it.
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meetkitty123
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Awe hopefully it will heal well I had a freak work injury slid under a bus partially one leg under one leg over the bumper I cut my inner fold area real bad its been 6 years the scar is fading lucky they. Did a good job with the stitching and I got most feeling back just a one spots is numb one spot painful one annoying ticklish but the rest is fine and functionable looks fine too i was just very self conscious about it
Opinion Owner
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Thanks, I can’t imagine how much you hurt after that accident. Glad it’s fading
meetkitty123
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Damn injury retired me It was neck spine shoulder rotator cuff concussion and permanent nerve damage injury Much better now after 6 year but retired
Anonymous
+1 y
I think it’s sad that too many women opt for the C-section instead of just having the baby the way they’re supposed to. c-section should only be used in absolute peril of the mother or baby, not as a quick fix delivery.
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meetkitty123
+1 y
I don't know too many women who want to go for that in fact doctors don't allow it it's not like choosing a hairstyle it's only done for emergencies or your insurance won't cover it
meetkitty123
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I took a major fall with my first and she turn breech. My second was to be natural but then some stupid temporary doctor who was filling in for the night shift ignored my doctors instructions and guilt tripped me into having a second. I was so pissed especially after it was done and she casually shrugs and said oops I guess it could have gone naturally when she found my son was small and in perfect position. She was lucky I was strapped down numb and currently cut open. I never wanted to yank someone's hair out as much as I did when she said that... but then I was passed my baby and I let it be...
Anonymous
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My wife had 2 c-sections. I never found her less sexy because of them. I think it fucked up her nerves, though. After each of them healed, she said sex felt differently. It took a couple years before her sensations went back to normal. She never looked healthier than when she was breastfeeding our babies.
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3 40Women are sexy regardless but I know some women wear Pantyhose to hide stretch marks
A+ be proud of you tiger stripes. they mean that you have brought life into the world.
I voted A. They don’t bother me a bit.
As for me, being a former paramedic means these type of scars are seen all the time; however, speaking as an ALMOST PERFECT SPECIMEN OF A REAL MAN with a hardly noticeable knife scar, I can say I think your C-section scars are trivial and beautiful, a testament to the wonderful mother you are! BRAVO!
doesn't really bother me tbh my ex had stretch marks didn't stop me giving her one
I haven't thought about it much.
So it might be awkward, but if it's my woman, I'll find her sexy
I never thought about it too much, I see them n think how much they go through compared to men
Only an idoit would say something about them. And no stretch marks and C section scar doesn't bother me. She is still a sexy momma regardless!😊
During the intimate moments, my eyes are focused on the woman's face while my hands and other parts are focused on her erogenous zones. The sexy aspect of those never changes regardless of c-section scars or stretch marks. May be I'm a simple person and so be it. :-)
I feel that every woman should be proud of them selfs, if they feel sexy or not should matter. If a woman has had a baby, that is one of the most beautiful things in the world, and evey man should be lucky to be with one. That my short opinion on the matter
every one has scars, some you see, some you can't. scars change us, some make us stronger, some never really heal. yet we go on. the only people that belittle us for our scars, haven't had any. some one that sees the real you, won't see or care about your physical scars, take care, you are sexy
Idc no ones perfecf
You're beautiful babe! Those marks make you sexier.
You're a fantastic mother and should be proud of your accomplishments.
Thanks hun.
Perfectly fine. - Skin marks do not (or hardly) matter, whether c-sec, stretchmarks, cellulite or other.
Other women have stripper-tits with big scars and still feature in jerk-off movies - so there cannot be too many men that object... XD
No, I Never Give It Thought, It Is A Part Of Who She Is And With Good Reason...
I don’t know about how other women feel about it, but I had to have a surgery recently in that area. It’s not what you may think, nothing was cut off, just a male problem that some of us get. Anyway, I’m a little concerned about what a girl will think when she sees it.
Awe hopefully it will heal well I had a freak work injury slid under a bus partially one leg under one leg over the bumper I cut my inner fold area real bad its been 6 years the scar is fading lucky they. Did a good job with the stitching and I got most feeling back just a one spots is numb one spot painful one annoying ticklish but the rest is fine and functionable looks fine too i was just very self conscious about it
Thanks, I can’t imagine how much you hurt after that accident. Glad it’s fading
Damn injury retired me It was neck spine shoulder rotator cuff concussion and permanent nerve damage injury Much better now after 6 year but retired
I think it’s sad that too many women opt for the C-section instead of just having the baby the way they’re supposed to.
c-section should only be used in absolute peril of the mother or baby, not as a quick fix delivery.
I don't know too many women who want to go for that in fact doctors don't allow it it's not like choosing a hairstyle it's only done for emergencies or your insurance won't cover it
I took a major fall with my first and she turn breech. My second was to be natural but then some stupid temporary doctor who was filling in for the night shift ignored my doctors instructions and guilt tripped me into having a second. I was so pissed especially after it was done and she casually shrugs and said oops I guess it could have gone naturally when she found my son was small and in perfect position. She was lucky I was strapped down numb and currently cut open. I never wanted to yank someone's hair out as much as I did when she said that... but then I was passed my baby and I let it be...
My wife had 2 c-sections. I never found her less sexy because of them. I think it fucked up her nerves, though. After each of them healed, she said sex felt differently. It took a couple years before her sensations went back to normal. She never looked healthier than when she was breastfeeding our babies.
You are sexy no matter what