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Girls, a practical 12Q survey about your first-time anal sex experience?

Girls, a practical 12Q survey about your first-time anal sex experience?
1. At what age did you first have anal sex?
2. Why did you decide to have anal?
3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance?
4. What position did you use for your first time?
5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud?
6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected?
7. At any point did you regret what you were doing?
8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum?
9. Did he cum inside you? How did you decide to push it out of your body?
10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last?
11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time?
12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it?

There is plenty of advice available about having anal sex for the first time. While a lot of the info is good, much of it is also totally impractical. For many girls, anal sex occurs at a young age and is largely spontaneous. Sure there may be some discussion, but with the exception of lube and the insertion of a finger it’s usually a pretty quick decision. That’s just the reality of it.

Also anal sex is no longer taboo and is quickly moving mainstream. Many girls find anal to be a relatively easy decision with fewer potential consequences and risks. That explains the popularity of anal sex with girls between 15 and 18 years old, even though they are generally restricted from asking questions here. This survey is meant to provide a little practical peer group information.
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  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex? - 19

    2. Why did you decide to have anal? - I was curious about it so I started playing with my ass and using toys during masturbation. By the time I had actual anal sex with I guy I already had a lot of experience with toys so it was no big deal.

    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance? - I usually just go to the bathroom before sex and stick a finger in there to see if it is clear. That's really it.

    4. What position did you use for your first time? - First time was doggy but we also do it missionary a lot now too, and sometimes cowgirl.

    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud? - No, he took it slow and was gentle.

    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected? - As I mentioned, I already had gotten myself used to having something in there and knew how to relax myself, so it was fine.

    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing? - No

    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum? - The first time it was probably about 3-4 minutes because he was so excited. But he lasts a lot longer now.

    9. Did he cum inside you? How did you decide to push it out of your body? - Yes he always cums in me when we do anal. I go to the toilet afterward and it comes out them, although sometimes I just fall asleep and it stays there until morning.

    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last? - I'm sometimes a little sore afterward for a day or so depending on how long we go and how rough it is, but usually it's not a problem.

    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time? - About a week or so. We do it 1- 2 times a week now.

    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it? - Yes I would based on my experience. I enjoy it a lot and I get stronger orgasms during anal. But I would strongly recommend you get used to it with toys before trying the real thing, and learn to enjoy the feeling and have orgasms first. That's just the way I did it and it worked out well for me. I was doing anal play while masturbating regularly for more than a year before I actually had real anal sex.

    • Something I meant to mention is that I can't orgasm from penetration alone, either vaginal or anal. I always have to rub my clit in order to reach orgasm. But it is just more intense feeling during anal. It's hard to explain but I climax sooner and harder during anal.

    • Is this part of your sex life now? Does anal orgasm exist? How big was the guy?

    • @AlinaJanowska18 Wow, it's been a while since I wrote that, lol. But yeah I'm happy to answer any question. Yes, it's still part of my sex life. I'm with a different guy now than I was when I wrote that. Yes, anal orgasms are a thing, although I rarely have one without some clit stimulation at the same time. That has happened for me twice, but I was extremely aroused both times. But if I rub my clit or use a small vibe, I usually have one or maybe two orgasms. They feel different during anal sex or anal play. For me they are more intense but seem to not last quite as long. And after I orgasm I need him to stop for a minute or two because it feels too intense. But then he can go again. The first guy I did it with I think was probably average size. The guy I was with when I wrote the stuff above was a little bigger, so it was an adjustment. The guy I'm with now is bigger (longer and thicker) than either of the others. It was ouch for a while but not so much now, except sometimes right at the beginning.

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  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex?
    I was 15

    2. Why did you decide to have anal?
    Lol. We both wanted to "stay virgins"

    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance?
    Just lube and fingers the first time

    4. What position did you use for your first time?
    Basically doggy style

    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud?
    Nothing loud really

    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected?
    I really didn't know what to expect

    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing?
    I did not have any regrets

    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum?
    It wasn't long. He came pretty fast

    9. Did he cum inside you? How did you decide to push it out of your body?
    He used a condom so there was no cum to push out

    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last?
    Only a little sore and it lasted a day

    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time?
    The second time was three or four days later

    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it?
    Yes I would

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  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex? 12. (The boy was the same age)
    2. Why did you decide to have anal? The boy wanted to try it and I was curious too.
    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance? Other than the obvious lube, I had practiced beforehand with a finger and a small toy.
    4. What position did you use for your first time? Doggie-style
    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud? Not really
    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected? No. It shouldn’t hurt if it goes in slow.
    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing? Not at all.
    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum? 1st round: About 7 or 8 minutes. 2nd round: maybe 10 -12 minutes.
    9. Did he cum inside you? Yes, both times.
    How did you decide to push it out of your body? I didn't really think about that. I had a bath about an hour later, though.
    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last? I wasn't really sore at all.
    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time? The following weekend.
    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it? Probably

    I never understood why anal sex was so taboo in western countries. It probably is because of the influence of the western religions, where their "missionary style" is the only position they approve of. 🙄🙄

    • Where are you from? Do you not regret that you started so early? Have you been doing it regularly since then?

  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex?
    just before I turned 14
    2. Why did you decide to have anal?
    Heard a lot about it from other girls and curiosity got the better of me.
    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance?
    Not much really, just took the general advice to lube up well that everyone knows.
    4. What position did you use for your first time? Missionary with pillow under hips
    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud?
    A low groan a bit like when you stump your toe rather than a scream
    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected?
    I didn't really know what to expect because I heard mixed reports. Wasn't particularly comfortable but I wouldn't call it a proper pain.
    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing?
    No not really.
    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum?
    Less than 10mins at a slow speed
    9. Did he cum inside you? How did you decide to push it out of your body? Yes. Wasn't so much a decision to push it out, nature kinda took care of it.
    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last?
    Soreness was about the same as when you've has an enormous poo. It didn't last very long
    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time?
    The next day then a few weeks later
    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it?
    Yes. Everyone should try at least once

    • Do you not regret that you did it so early? Is 16 a good age to try?

  • 1. 15

    2. He was on top and I was face down and he "wrong holed" me and kept going

    3. None

    4. Laying on my stomach

    5. Yes

    6. Less

    7. Yes

    8. About 10 minutes

    9. Yes... in the bathroom

    10. Very sore until the next day

    11. He woke me up a few hours later with anal sex

    12. Be ready and relaxed for it and use lube

  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex? 16
    2. Why did you decide to have anal? Curious and he wanted to
    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance? Just a lot of lube on him and in me.
    4. What position did you use for the first time? Doggy
    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud? No as he went slow and we used a lot of lube
    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected? No
    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing? No
    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum? Probably five minutes they he came
    9. Did he cum inside you? How did you decide to push it out of your body? Yes and Yes
    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last? I wasn't sore
    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time? A week
    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it? Definitely!

  • 1. At what age did you first have anal sex? 17
    2. Why did you decide to have anal? I wanted more with him but want ready for PIV
    3. Other than lube and perhaps a finger, what kind of prep did you perform in advance? Oral, fingers and lube on both him and me
    4. What position did you use for your first time? Missionary
    5. When he first entered you, did you yell, scream, cry out, or otherwise get loud? Screamed
    6. Was the pain/discomfort more or less than you expected? More, I expected some but not like that
    7. At any point did you regret what you were doing? No but I did think about stopping
    8. For how long did he thrust inside your rectum? I don't know maybe 2-3 mins but it felt longer
    9. Did he cum inside you? Yes How did you decide to push it out of your body? Some leaked the rest in some tissues
    10. How sore were you afterward and how long did that last? I was sore and it lasted a day I think
    11. How long was it before you had anal sex a second time? Two weeks
    12. Would you recommend anal sex to a friend who asked you about it? Yea it’s worth it but the first time hurts and is uncomfortable. Also have privacy, we tried and it didn’t work out so well

    • did you enjoy it?

    • @nicole21k first time, NO

    • What happened , why it didn't work well?

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