A threesome? Is this normal?

There is this guy that I have been seeing for a few months and every time he wants to talk about having sex he says he wants to see me have sex with another man in front of him with him watching. I thought it was just a fantasy of his until one day he put on a video of a cuckhold while we were trying to have sex. I have never experienced this before with my ex and now am unsure of what to do.
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  • Is it normal? No, I don't think a threesome is normal, its not crazy either, but I would imagine only a small percentage of people ever try this.

    I don't think a guy wanting a another guy to finish inside his current girlfriend is normal.

    Isn't this how pimps start out luring young girls into prostitution, pretend to be her boyfriend and the beg her to sleep with his friends and then she is trapped!! I would advise you to be careful and don't entertain stuff like that unless you trust your partner and the other guy is tested.

    • I just think it is weird too since he says he wants to be serious and that he loves me. He also asks questions about my family. I am wanting to settle down in the next year or so and don’t know how much of a future I could have with someone who is into this. I thought it was just a phase although seems more than that now

    • Yeah I understand you wanting to settle down and maybe start a family, but a threesome would have to be something you are into too, not just doing to satisfy his needs. I'm probably not best place to advise, as I'm not into mad kinky stuff. But definitely be careful, usually a person who loves you won't want to share you.

    • Well thank you this has really helped me. It is is just weird too since he is really intense with the texting some times then there are days where I don’t hear from him at all

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  • It is a common fantasy for many of us. I want to watch my lady friend fuck with a prior man friend, with me hiding in a nearby free standing closet. The hot part of it is seeing another guy with his penis in you while I jack off while watching, possibly shooting at the same time he shoots his wad in you.

    Since he knows how your vagina feels, tightness, wetness, warmth, he then knows what the other guys penis is feeling and that just makes it even hotter. Also seeing the other guys erect penis, before he goes in you, how long, how thick it is.

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  • if you have an opportunity to try, just go for it.
    the only risk for you is to become a fan of it.

    • True, she might like being watched, because her boyfriend may be standing by, jacking-off, which may really be a turn on for her.

    • I already had some doubters. Oh well !

  • That doesn't even sound like a threesome lol he just wants to watch you have sex with another guy 😂

    • A fantasy for a lot of guys, me too, and she may like doing it.

    • @Bricealan I really don't think a lot of guys fantasize about watching their girl have sex with another man

    • They just don't talk about it.

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  • Only you can make this decision. Do you want to have sex with another guy? Who gets to pick the lucky guy? Will your boyfriend want to join you during sex with the "new" guy?

    How is your sex life with him right now?

    • The sex with him is not bad it is not amazing just like somewhere in the middle. I really just think of this as a fantasy and not something I would actually want to do. Just confused why he has this fantasy since he is average sized and not small.

    • Do you think he sees that stuff on porn videos and wants to try it? How often are you two having sex?

    • We have sex twice a week. He told me that he wants the other guy to finish in me then he wants to eat it out of me. And he saw this in a porno and I thought it was just a fantasy although he talks about it a lot

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  • He doesn't seem mentally normal to me

  • Not normal in my opinion.

  • Sounds like a fetish. Just find out if you would be willing to, and if not, he should respect that.

  • I'm not into that

  • It's not normal at all. To most men that's entirely revolting. He's got some kind of fucked up fetish. It screams weakness in my opinion.

    What you should do: Decide if for some fucked up reason you actually want to enable his fetish. Then either stay "with" him as you fuck other men, or leave him and fuck a man who doesn't hate themselves so hard that they want to cucked. The end result isn't that different really.

  • It's not for everyone but you have some guys definitely like it