Accidentally slept with my roommate?

So yesterday I went out to drink and had a little too much , I got separated from my friends and I saw my roommate there when I started to panic , basically we went back home and we slept together. And I went back to my room after that , but I regret for a little bit because he used to like me and I can't date him for some reasons. It's pretty awkward now and I m outside the house all the time to avoid him but is there a way I can deal with it?
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Okay when I say accidentally, used the wrong word , def intentionally at the moment but regret when sober
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Just Do you want to have sex with him again? find a moment to be alone with him and talk about it. It is ok to talk about sex after all. How was the sex with him anyway... has he said anything to you?

    • I was out since morning and haven't seen him. Nope I don't want to have sex with him again. I am scared he ll get attached emotionally and feel that he owns me , maybe should apologize to him and admit it's a bad choice

    • Don't burst his bubble too bad. I am assuming it was consensual for both of you. Hopefully you each got to enjoy some great orgasms! Maybe tell him that you had fun but that you just want to remain roommates and noting more. Your thoughts? Did you spend the whole night with him or just some time for sex?

    • Oh yeah it's def consensual , more afraid of hurting him and leading him on. I slept in his room for 2 hours and went back to my room when I woke up. Yeah that's good idea !

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  • Asker here my advice talk with your roommate don't avoid the topic be honest ya know you made a mistake we all do just talk with him font lead him on cause that's how he might feel

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope! Just let it go over your head into the past. It might follow you, though. The demon drink fiascos are hard to shake off!

    • Thank you for MHO!

  • Unless you were asleep during it, there is no such thing as accidentally.
    Talk to the guy and own it.

    • I might have used the wrong word but I wouldn't have had sex with him if I wasn't that drunk , really bad ide

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  • Yea, you need to deal with it head on. Speak to him about it.

  • You have to talk to him about it. Have you changed your mind about dating him

  • Talk to him about your feelings

  • drunk fucks are like that.

  • This is not accidentaly you want to make sex than happen.

  • then what he done with you

  • Oof thats awkward. Maybe he knows it was meaningless too

  • There is no such thing as "accidentally". smh

    • Yea I've gotta agree there no such thinga as accidentally even if she was drunk. there had to be some attraction whether that be sexually or romantically

    • I must dreaming, a guy actually agreeing with a woman!

    • why wouldn't I agree your right lol😂😂😂

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