Advice for a good blowjob?

I'm dating a fuckboy and only had 1 sexpartner before and the one I'm dating already licked my pussy a few times and never said anything but I'd love to give him a blowjob but I know he had girls with experience and I'm a bit insecure (dont wanna talk to him about this) Can you give me any advice what I should do?
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  • How much experience do you have?

    Do you know if you have a strong or weak gag reflex yet?

    For me a lot of the thrill Is i dont exactly know what she's gonna do

    Is she gonna lick the tip?

    Just wrap her lips around the edge of my dick head?

    Is She gonna make suction then pull away making that sexy cute "pop" sound?

    Maybe she'll get straight into moving up and down, sucking most of my dick?

    Maybe she stops at some point and comes up for a kiss?

    Maybe she stops, gives me a playful stare and disappears out of sight to lick and suck my balls why she slowing strokes my dick with her hand?

    Maybe she uses her hand to play with by balls while sucking my dick?

    Maybe she surprises me by deepthroating me at some point? Like she just takes my entire dick into her mouth pressing her nose against me.

    Maybe she'll play with and flick my dickhole with her tongue?

    Maybe she will just suck hard on my head and jerk my shaft with her hand?

    Now it might be too much if you try to work all that into one blowjob, you seem like your trying too hard, might as well safe something new for text time right?

    Its suppose to be fun for both of us so just have fun and do what you rhink is fun. Try making slight changes as you go and pay attention for signs from him, like if you speed up or slow down and notice him tense up, well you may have just found the perfect speed for him.

    Just have fun and dont take it too serious, you can't really mess it up and if you do who cares, you can always try again.

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  • Put it in as far as you can and hum your favorite song. And when he's really close then swallow over and over again

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  • I will try to answer your question from a different angle, in case you may find it interesting and useful. I am a gay man; I love giving blowjobs and sucked the cocks of countless men. Here are some tips that often work for me. Chances are you already know some of those, but I’ll mention them all for completeness:

    1) When you suck your boyfriend, make sure you refrain from using your teeth, such that the entire contact is made by your lips only. Feeling teeth over their dick irritate men, understandably.
    2) Supporting your lips’ movement with your tongue along the way would help.
    3) Interrupting the sucking from time to time to kiss the sides of his shaft, as well as to show some interest on his balls, would provide extra pleasure.
    4) If you can accommodate it, taking his entire organ in with the tip going down your throat (deep throating) would also increase his pleasure, both physically and mentally. But, that’s a skill learned over time. So, don’t worry if you cannot pull it off at the beginning.
    5) Looking at your man in the eyes, while you are doing any of the above would provide further usual stimulation to him.
    6) Last, but not least, swallowing his load at the end would complete the whole act. You can tell your man is about to cum from his breathing and pelvic movements, so get ready for it. Again, this is not something everyone can pull off from day-1. But, it is to be enjoyed by women as well. I do enjoy it, and recommend that you give it a try, as that could be part of your daily protein intake.

    Feel free to write back if you need. Good luck!

  • Just go in there and don't be shy. Alternate between aggressive and being a tease. It will leave him wanting more.

    • How will I reach the point that he wants more?

    • You just gotta practice. Find your way of doing it that you are comfortable with.

  • Focus on the last 1-2 inches... you don't have to deep throat like they do in porn movies. No teeth obviously. Decide ahead of time with him whether you will swallow or let him shoot elsewhere. Maybe start out by giving him a handjob first... guys love them! Taste a bit of his cum first so you will know if you like it if you give him a bj eventually. Your thoughts?

  • Tutorials on pornhub

  • Check out my friend Amanda's post - @amandayvr

    I can't link from my crappy old computer... lol

  • The best way to learn is by doing and asking what he likes simply put

    • Well I will.. but what do you like? What turns you on?

    • My girl tends to lick the head will sometimes play with the balls and when trying to make me finish jerk me off whilst licking

    • Just under the head of the penis, on the underside, is an area that is the most sensitive. Watch the video I posted and she can explain it better than me.

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  • Actually suck, don't just put your mouth on it. Provide ample stimulation and use your hands as well. And don't bite.
    And perhaps do it with a guy you actually like rather than an FB, who will leave you for dead when he's done with you.

  • They're getting easier by the day boys.

  • Find someone that you can open up to and tell him that you want to practice on him.

  • dm me and ill send u an awesome video on it. are u more excited or nervous to do it lol?

  • - eye contact
    - lots of tongue
    - deepthroat
    - swallow cum
    - say thank you

  • The head is the most sensitive part.
    Lick and suck the head, fondle his balls, and moan deeply.
    Not may guys can stand that.

  • You want to tell him and build up the tension. Tell him in his ear that you gonna suck him and you are worried since he is quite experienced in that area. He may give you some ideas. It's double win for you.

    • Read some blow job stories or better watch at least two short videos and try not to masturbate while watching. 😉

    • Heather Harmon is whom I love most. Deep throat queen. You don't have to deep throat though. Find out if he is in face fucking. You don't have gag reflex, do you? Double innuendo 😉

  • Just be honest. Tell him just like you wrote. " There's something I want to do for you but I'm not sure how and will you please help mme learn?

  • lick the head swirl it

  • Keep sucking when he cums

  • buy a dildo
    download some good tutorials from Porn hub (NOT porn TUTORIAL)
    practise everything you saw on tutorials on the dildo

    • The best way of learning if you do it right I will guarantee he will love it