Advice on how to perform BJ's with an extremely small mouth, large tongue and sensitive gag reflex?

[IngloriousBetch]

I feel awful.
My husband is very "giving" in the bed when we're lucky enough to have a day off together. The problem is me. I'd love to be able to give my husband good head but I have the terrible trifecta of a very small mouth (so small i have only 19 teeth, the rest had to be pulled because there wasn't room when i was a teen), a long tongue that leaves little room for him and a pretty sensitive gag reflex. I have to open my mouth about as wide as I can to try to

(my photo to get attention for my question and to maybe help show the small area of my mouth area 🤷‍♀️)

not get teeth on him, which makes my jaw tire out VERY fast and the gag reflex is pretty self explanatory.
I've tried those numbing sprays and they did nothing. I really want to be able to do this for him. I have no aversion to doing it but because of the combo above and I broke a molar which left a sharp tooth back there I have been to afraid to do it for about 2 years or so. He's never complained or brought it up once, which actually makes me feel worse.
Does anyone have advice? Has anyone else had these issues and how did you solve them? Is a really small mouth an issue common to very small women ( 4'11)? No one I know has this issue, or at least won't admit it.
Apologies for any grammatical errors. I suck at typing.

[Dargil]

You might try this out. You can practice on the knuckle of your bent second finger because it is a good size.

*Form your lips into a puckered, kissing mouth.
*Draw the head of his penis into your mouth with your teeth parted just enough to let it come through between them.
*"Suckle" (Num-num-num) on it like an infant with a pacifier.
*Use your dominant hand (right?) to rapidly stroke his shaft and the other to massage his scrotum or finger him anally if he wants that.
*Having your hand near your mouth will also prevent him from driving deep and choking/gagging you. If he does, just grip his penis firmly with your hand in contact with your lips.
*Ask him to signal you when he is about to ejaculate. That way, you can position your tongue to deflect the stream so it doesn't go down your throat and gag you.
*When he starts to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion and straight-suck only, literally kissing the very top of his penis. Continue stroking a little more slowly until his contractions end.

Good luck

[IngloriousBetch]

Thank you!

[bowenw]

Don't try to fit it all in your mouth. Focus on the first few of inches or whatever you can manage. Give a lot of attention to the frenulum. Us your lips and tongue on it while stroking the shaft with one hand while bobbing your head. Hold the skin tight with the other hand at the base of the shaft. Occasionally lick up and down the shaft. Give some attention to the balls by caressing and licking them. If your jaw gets sore, take a break and just use your hands with the tip of the dick against your lips. Another technique that works well is holding one hand against your mouth to give the impression the dick is going deeper into your mouth than it is while still giving the same sensation. Please feel free to PM if you wish.

[DonkeyDan]

Focus on the tip, that is where all the sensitive stuff is don't neglect his balls either.

[Iron_Man]

Get the book the joy of sex

[IngloriousBetch]

I've actually read that and it didn't have any tips for my specific situation, unfortunately. Our sex is good when we have the time, I just want to do this particular thing for him.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, just focus on the tip.

[Stevefiveo]

I think you willingness and enthusiasm should work well. Ask him what he wants. Maybe you can use a combo of your mouth and hands. Good luck.

[IngloriousBetch]

Well, he's very understanding so he doesn't ever mention it or bring it up. I'm hoping to try and surprise him one day but if I can't figure it out on my own I'll definitely just try and see what we can work out together. I just want to give him a mind blowing night as a surprise hopefully.

[Stevefiveo]

Some extra things that I like is when she wears lipstick. Eye contact while on her knees. Keeping it in her mouth after I cum until I go soft in her. Good luck. Looking forward to an update.

[notwoke]

if my wife is going to swallow, I don't care at all if most of the action comes from her hands, sometimes I actually prefer this. there's something sexy about getting a handjob but knowing she is going to make the effort to gobble up my cum. Also, if you are up for it, some men like me hit ceiling with a rimjob, especially if he knows ahead of time you are coming for the swallow as he finishes, nut I know that is not for everyone.

[Sangrilam]

Sounds difficult

[IngloriousBetch]

Yeah. But I figure I'm not the only person with this issue so someone HAD to figure out ways around it.

[Sangrilam]

Okay You can take a Banana and start Practicing with that and Gradually increase its size... taking Big size is not easy !

[IngloriousBetch]

It's definitely not but I figure there's gotta be a trick to it I can use.

[Sangrilam]

Hmmmmm

[Sangrilam]

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[PL2022]

Difficult. Large tongue helps a lot to be very active licking.

[Anonymous]

Look up Sasha Foxx giving a teasing blowjob. The way she uses her lips and tongue on the head while using her hands, too. I had a girlfriend once who loved to give head like that. HIGHLY recommend.

[IngloriousBetch]

Thank you. I'll do that