1. Clean Your Room!!
If you can't even keep your own room, a small square space a few metres by a few metres clean & organised how are you going to organise success in your life.
2. Goals
Set goals for yourself. Start off with small goals and build them into bigger & bigger goals. Retry or change your goals of they fail or don't work out.
3. Hit it Hard
No matter what you do, hitting the gym hitting the books, hitting the club's, hitting the pussy you gotta hit it hard. If your not improving yourself, building a better lifestyle for yourself, laughing, having making a point about learning about life making a point to have a better sense of humour but you are just sitting there and not being proactive& putting in the effort then what do think is going to happen.
4. Educate yourself
I'm not just talking about school or college but learn anything that mat be useful to you in the future. Don't rely on schools or colleges to teach you what you need to know as more & more schools are becoming more like state run day care for teens & colleges more like degree mills churning out debt laden graduates who can't get a job outside minimum wage jobs in the service industry. If you do go to college be sure there is a career at the end of the rainbow. I recommend considering trades or stems.
5. Learn to Fight
One day you may have to defend yourself from assault. You might not like fighting and may not become Chuck Norris but knowing enough to fend off an attack or neutralise an attacker giving you a chance to run or put your attacker down. Street fights can be particularly brutal because when you go down attackers will keep kicking you the end result being hospitalization or death.
6. Learn to Dance
Women love to Dance. If you want to get with a woman chances are they are going to want to Dance. Women always open the gates for a man that can dance so learn to ballroom dance, to line dance, shuffle dance whatever.
6. Dress well
Learn to dress well if you want to be taken seriously by women and by employers. You should own at least one suit. If your low on funds thrift shops will generally have anything you need. Develop your own style. Dress for the job you want, dress to attract the kind of woman you want. Remember if you dress like a thug society will treat you like you like a thug just like they will if you dress like a slob or a sex predator.
7. Role models
One great thing that helped me was great success role models but what also helped was failure role models. I study failure very carefully, I want to learn from my failures. Understand that nobody is doing anything you can't do and when people offer advice or help consider it.
8. Personal Responsibility
Accept complete responsibility for yourself and your failures in life. Act like a victim in life and you will be one. Today's victim culture tells people that they can't succeed because of their sex, race, sexuality, religion or socioeconomic status. That sort of thinking is self defeating. Maybe thats true outside of the western world. If you live in the first world you are not oppressed.
9. Confidence
Self confidence is something some seem born with but it can be learned and developed with practice. Cowering away in your bedroom because you are an impotent "introvert", " incel", "MGTOW" doesn't benefit you or change anything. Women are attracted to confidence, employers are attracted to confident men and people are less likely to f*ck with you if you have an auroa of confidence. Sometimes you gotta grab life by the pussy.
10. Learn to Tear that P*ssy up
Learning to please a woman sexually is important for the up& coming gentleman as it creates a reputation for yourself with other women so read up on, it practice it, communicate with sexual partners etc. You may actually find that like me a lot promiscuous women don't know what they like sexually despite their experience because they never learned and are too backward to communicate their desires so they can be grateful for the learning experience especially if she finally gets that big O. A sexual reputation spreads with word of mouth, women are always interested in sampling what other women have or had.STDs are a serious business so glove up on any casual encounter.
11. Learn basic Life Skills
This is rather simple, basically learn to look after yourself and be self reliant. So driving, cooking, cleaning, laundry, home maintenance, car maintenance, managing money, sewing, basic first aid and so. So many today lack the most basic life skills.
12. Never Show Weakness
Human beings are not too far removed from the animal kingdom and our primate cousins, we are all just one bad day from beating our chests and throwing our shit at each other. Showing weakness in real life whether it be some punk in the street, a work colleague or a bad neighbour invites attack. Bullies don't bully the strong, muggers don't mug somebody that can handle themselves, burglars don't rob a guy with an AR15( least not successfully), wolves attack the weakest in the herd. Even the most feminist woman deep down despises a weak man.
13. Accept life isn't fair
Life is not fair, nobody is going to hand you anything just because you want it, life doesn't always work out how you hoped & shit happens stop whining about it. You might have a sports scholarship in college and set to go pro but blow out your knee well tough, thats life. You may be engaged to the most wonderful woman in the world with a bright future ahead of you both but she dies in her sleep, tough. You may watch your mother suffering as she dies a painful death from cancer, well that's too bad. The world keeps turning with or without you & doesn't stop just because your life has collapsed. Shit rains from the sky on the good & bad alike. Also just because that cute girl you like rejects you & goes off with a football player well thats no reason to shoot the school up the next day to show her how wrong she was.
14. Learn to shoot
Learning to shoot in my opinion is a necessity for every young man whether for hunting, plink shooting, serving your country or for home defence. I've had to defend my home before, I was ok but the intruders were not. Criminals don't care if you are anti gun.
15. Marry a good woman but play the field until you find her
I wrote a comprehensive myTake on this. Things A High Quality Man Should Look For & Out For When Choosing A Wife!😍
15. Patriotic
Serve in the military, serve your community, serve among first responders, do charity work, represent your country in sports or academics there are many ways. Support your country & believe in it, do your part as a citizen.
What Girls & Guys Said
15 47I think thats brilliant. I'd second every single thing in there except the shooting part. (Altho as a kid I learned to shoot and of course there was a phase of blowing things up... both we'll gloss past that)... great advice. I did a trade and its served me well. Great my take 🙂👍👍👍👌
Thanks for the advice
An important thing I think which has been left out, is not to care so much about what others think. Listen to reason, but don't let others change your views easily.
And what do we say?
Begone thot!
Also get a girl dumber than you. I've noticed these couples are super happy when the man is smarter.
~Mr Bails Extraordinaire
Agreed. Women only want a man that is smarter or richer than them.
enfatizar eso
Dont get married
I agree with most things, of course expet your views on women
My views of treating women equally?
Spot on sir
Advice to Young men: Forget distractions of any kind. Period. Do not go for any of the above choices, Study hard, keep good morals, be a good human being. After studies, get a good job, and out of those earning, earmark some portion to entertainment and save the rest ! Build up a Bank balance, marry, have kids! (All in that Order)
why only men
what about women?
don't be sexist 😒
What kind of a stupid question is that? He's a guy, so obviously he'll have advice for guys.
humor on point... I hope
@_my_fukking_anarchy don't worry I will write advice for young women, I'm sure young will applaud it
@AdithyaR Yes it is also for women, you can do engineering, I know lots of successful women engineers. RULE mathematics, physics, and chem, you earn the same men. Ladies, please do not study to be beautician, you must be independent so if your marriage falls apart you will be able to leave with your own financial security.
I ment I thought she was making a joke of some sort
@_my_fukking_anarchy I am just trying to help, you need to earn enough so you CAN just walk away, I know too many women held hostage because does not have the money to leave a bad situation. They never tell you they are suffering, etc. I am a qualified counselor, so I have witnessed this several times. Not all men are good loving husbands, some BASTARDS. I choose not to be involved in counseling, it is too hard. Please Listen to a father of 2 daughters
Thanks for the advice
Bearing in mind that No. 14 is Learn to Shoot, shouldn't No. 5 be Carry a Gun?
Depends where you live. I have a carry permitt but rarely carry.
UK here. We're not allowed.
Lol hilarious
Good mytake
Good stuff
ok-from a woman's point of view this is not bad advice. I might have a little problem with one or two of the above, but as a whole, if guys can master the above... Id be interested :)
Much better than I thought the post would be.
Some good advice here. But the recommendation to not masturbate is complete nonsense, as is learning to shoot. I own several guns and do a lot of shooting myself, but it's a personal preference and has zero correlation with whether a young man will be successful.
And what will women give in return? Nothing , marriage means stealing the mans money anyways , I'm living how I like , not how women expect me to live because I dont give a shit what they expect, they aren't worth time.
Things A High Quality Man Should Look For & Out For When Choosing A Wife!😍 ↗
Well there are women who want career. So like. I don't know. You just sound a bit sexist and incel to me xd. If you expect a woman to bring you money then the woman has right for her expectations as well.
@_Jay_ nobody is stopping women from having z career. Many women choose to stay at home with their kids, many women are devastated that they actually have to go back to work after a child because they need the money. Women have their own expectations, if you dont meet them then she likely won't marry you in the first place. Incel "Involuntary Celibate". A frustrated virgin who feels as if the world owes them sex. A self-described 'incel' is highly likely to blame their virginity on the other 6,999,999,999 people on the planet rather than consider that maybe the problem lies inward. "Mark's started calling himself an 'incel', because he can't get laid."
Yea but i dont think you really read what the other guy said. Because i said my comment to him. Also i know what incel is, thank reddit for that, and this guy kinda felt like one. Normal people know that relationship consists of two equals, both give, but in different ways. After all a man is not a woman and a woman is not a man. We're different but equal. Onto ecplaining why this guy just seems to be incel. First of all the way he simply expects something in return. One does not expect money in a relationship. That is not the point. Of course you should choose partner with similar income, but this is simply ridiculous. Secondly, women dont actually expect any more things than men. Many men have that image that women want a superman in their life, but i would say it's false. Of course, my knowledge about women might not be the most accurate, but at the same time, whose is? Thirdly, saying that women aren't worth his time. That goes towards nice guy already, but most nice guys are incels. This leaves us with 3 points that prove this man to be an incel. Im waiting for your next argument. :) by the way this smiley face is sincere and non sarcastic xd
@_Jay_ things are changing, men are applying the same rules women uses to when dating and getting married. They want a woman who brings something to table, modern women have a lot of debts.
Well men have debts too. If a woman would have views like this on a man, youd call her names. Also it is interesting that you base your opinions on things said by some women, yet think that wkmen should not deem all men rapists? I apologise if it is a bizarre comparison, but im all for that stuff.
@_Jay_ women make up 55% of college students but hold 2/3 of all college debt, women choose careers that earn them less, Women are the majority buyers of consumer products, Women are the majority holders of credit card debt. This is stuff any man in the 2020s who is thinking of marrying you will consider. I know women who wanted careers but choose to stay at home because day care was expensive and women who simply had choose to work to help support their family despite it being the opposite of what they wanted to do. I know stay at home fathers too.
Statistics please? Also that may be in USA. But i live in Estonia. So our views may be different.
@_Jay_ I dont know a lot about Estonia or eastern Europe but I imagine there's less credit card debt and less student loan debt in general, I also imagine colleges in estonia don't opperate like businesses allowing students that aren't academic to take a bullshit degree they can't pass or won't do well in all so the college can make more money. Also from what I hear Estonian women are more in line with what I wrote than most American women.
firstly, N O R T H E R N Europe. secondly, i agree with many of your points, but i heavily dislike the way you say it. you often talk as if you're the onky one who knows it. thirdly, i dont see links.
@_Jay_ I'm not an incel since I'm not virgin and I can get girls easily , but it's not worth all of these efford , girls will still like bad boys who treat them like dirt.
@_Jay_ and no one wants a girls money , I want to find a decent girl to be worth it not a cheating hoe.
Please reread what you said before.