Afraid of being eaten out? Girls, how was your first experience?

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How did it go? Did it feel strange, awkward? Did you orgasm?

I'm kind of nervous and anxious and just... what if he doesn't like how I look there? I personally think I have a nice kitty cat but one can never know for sure. Should I ask him to do it or will he do it automatically? Is the smell really that bad even if the woman's clean?

And back to girls, is it really that mind-blowing?

I guess I may be thinking too hard and I should just yolo it but for some reason I am scared that I will be disappointed, that it's actually going to be a terrible instead of a terrific experience.

And for guys, do you actually like to eat pussy? Or do you do it just because you have to? Do guys get some sort of pleasure out of it too?

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

The first thing is this: relax. A big part of sex is letting go of reason and reveling in feeling; to, as the Four Postmen so eloquently put it, "loose the brain and find the heart". That's not going to happen if you get too anxious about it.

Now, anxiety about sex is very reasonable; it's a big deal, after all, but it's rarely fantastic out of the gate: learning how both you and your partner like to be touched and stimulated takes time and practice- not that it's not fun or enjoyable from the start, but the really blind-blowing stuff takes work. If you build up an incredible idea in your head and your first experiences don't match that, it's very important to not let disappointment overwhelm you; okay, that didn't work out, let's try something else. That's the key. First time wasn't great? Okay- think about what went wrong and how it can be done differently.

If you're concerned about how he'll react, it's okay to start with another form of stimulation- say, fingering. That's usually a little less unnerving for women, and he can better see and feel what he's doing, and how you react (so it's also a bonus for him, if he's new at this). And that, from the giver's perspective, is a big part of the appeal: we don't get direct sensory sexual pleasure from it, but it's a wonderful feeling to make someone you care about feel so good that they can't contain themselves any longer, and abandon all pretense of seemly modesty and self-control as their brains start burning down the neighborhood.

integrale77 · Accepted Answer

I'd say most guys are going to enjoy it and have no objection to or opinion on how you look after all your letting the guy play with your pussy. All women are different and any guy who has an opinion on the way you look is a dick and should feel honoured to be given access to your most intimate parts.

There will be some guys who have no interest in giving you oral the same some women are not willing to suck dick. You just want to make sure it's not all one sided it's only fair to get oral if they also request it.

Whatever your first experience I hope it goes well

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My 1st boyfriend didn't look like he knew what he was doing. He really didn't know how to please me down there with his tongue. He eventually learned to master the art of cunnilingus.

FeelingGroovy · Accepted Answer

Terrified. And not just because it happened in a canoe.

tinydiva1991 · Answer

Just look as attractive as you can ! Guarantee he will offer to do it !

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I enjoy going down on my girl because if she climaxes, it makes me feel good knowing I did that for her I don't typically just use the tongue, you have to get your fingers in the pie too.

Get him to go slow at first and then build, much like you would do it yourself if you were playing on your own.

Let him explore a bit to see what you like. When you do feel good make sure you tell him so he can keep doing it.

helva · Answer

Was nervous the first times but enjoyed and was addicted to it after a few times. Did orgasm the third or fourth time.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

What's to be afraid f? Just lie back, spread your legs and enjoy yourself!! Try it!! You'll LOVE it!!
Most girls orgasm if it's done right.
He'll love the looks!
Chances are, he'll just go there on his own.
There's no smell at all, really.
I have no idea what a yolo is.
Even if you are disappointed, there's nothing to scared of and, more than likely, it'll be his fault for not making you cum. But, it's also up to YOU to TELL HIM what to do, if he's not doing it the right way for you.
We LOVE eating pussy!!
I get my pleasure from making her cum!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, it's wonderful and I like hairy pussy. I like to taste her juices.

SawerBrown · Answer

Yes, I love giving oral pleasure and if he's as good at it as I am he should be able to give you multiple orgasms with his lips and tongue

Marked_Man · Answer

Relax and enjoy it. He's enjoying himself otherwise he wouldn't be down there, and you can't orgasm unless you relax and enjoy the experience.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I enjoy it and seems like most guys enjoy it.

Nervzgrl · Answer

my first time was being eaten out by another girl and she made me feel really calm about it and i really enjoyed it. it's amazing. pretty sure a guy isn't gonna object to doing it, i hear guys really like it.

smilelots · Answer

OK first things first.. the smell is not the same from every woman I have only had in my life time one woman that had a bad smelling pussy , just keep it clean and make sure you play with it a little for your self to see if you have a bad discharge from your pussy to be sure ,, if your dont like the smell and some woman dont like there own smell ,, and dont be afraid to taste it either ,, won't mean your a Lesbo at all.. ,, second just keep her clean and no some guys will not go down on you unless you ask and some will.. and if he is good at eating pussy then you will enjoy it like no other form of play time.. looks wise woman are all different and if you need to just look online and see how many other womans flowers look like yours. some woman have large lips others have small and some are dark and some are light in colour etc.. the first time may not be the best but you can grow from that and it should get better with each time or person that goes down on you,, good luck and have fun.. you have to start somewhere right.. just relax and enjoy if you can do the same for him..

kellytheman · Answer

I honestly do love eating pussy it probably my favorite sexual act other than sexual intercourse to do. I love hearing her moans and cute noises she makes, telling how good it feels, her legs and body shaking, her eyes rolling in the back of her head or throwing her head back as she orgasms. It turns me on so much hearing her orgasm and feeling happy and pleasured. I don't think it's required to eat pussy but I think it's common curiosity and it helps get the girl warmed up and wet so it easier and pleasurable for both during sex. I hear most guys don't which puzzle's me. Why not you want her to enjoy sex you have to give her some oral sex. Do it and you will love it unless the guy is bad at it. Some girls can only orgasm from oral sex in some cases.

RebeccaSJ · Answer

I absolutely loved it. It was wonderful!

peterrezeeek · Answer

for me its a fetish.. it gives me so high feeling with her moaning and face reaction... i love it so much and i love her to cum on my face 😘

strlb · Answer

Love eating pussy. Can't remember my first experience but it was definitely positive each and every time. Don't be self conscious, relax and allow your partner do his thing while you enjoy and hopefully cum. Best of luck! DM always open