After 2 years why I am still hurt?

[miadee]

2 years ago, I was sleeping with a guy (we both single) I caught very strong feelings for him and I told him. Long story short, He rejected me. I couldn't say anything, bc he didn't do anything wrong. I got so heartbroken, I cut off contact with him. We never talked again.

So hurtful for a woman ( more than getting cheated on) that getting rejected by a man who sucks your tits and licks your body and gives you kisses.

I try to date other people. Sometimes I forgot but I usually remember. After 2 years I'm so broken inside. What to do?

[PositiveFlight]

I’m so very sorry. Its ok to remember the good times but much more important to look to the future with hope. Have hope that someone much better is in store. Take comfort that you learned from this too so you can better know how to avoid someone who will hurt you vs someone will commit, love, and cherish you as you deserve.

[PositiveFlight]

Intimacy is powerful. It’s more bonding than most people realize. At first it just feels good to have your body touched, held, and to make love with intercourse. But there is a mental and literal bonding that takes place in the brain. It’s hard to let go. You can only fully be free of it when you meet someone better who will overwrite those constructs with new ones. This is why sex is so special and shouldn’t be toyed around with until both people are committed and willing to give themselves fully.

[miadee]

He even didn't text me ONCE "Why did you go" "Wha did I do wrong" "If I hurt you I'm sorry" text or just "How are you" text. I didn't even a simple "How are you" text. This hurts me so much. It still makes me cry.

[miadee]

He even didn't send text ONCE "Why did you go" "What did I do wrong" "If I hurt you I'm sorry" He didn't once ask me "How are you" "How you been" This hurts me so much. It still makes me cry.

[miadee]

Didn't I deserve a "how are you" text... This crush my soul

[PositiveFlight]

@miadee It hurts my heart to read about him ghosting you and those texts. Unfortunately, we live in a modern society that does not know how to take responsibility for one’s actions. It’s easier for people to just be disposable and selfish. I’ve had my own experiences of that sort, and they really do hurt. I empathize with you greatly. It hurts to think that you really never meant anything, not even enough to give an explanation or show some concern for your emotions and crushed heart. The good news is that there are still good people out there who don’t treat each other this way. It’s important to make sure that you voice what you are looking for in the future. Be open and honest upfront. If a guy doesn’t want to take you out on a respectful date and truly get to know who you are and be vulnerable enough to let you know who he is, he’s not worth it. Love is all about giving your all and having someone give you their all. There should be absolutely nothing disposable about it. Only then does the sex and intimacy of becoming one flesh actually mean something beyond the stars. It’s the opposite of being in vain at that point

[FunkyMonkee]

Isn't there something, like a rubber, to keep you from catching that? Feelings is a TERRIBLE disease!! An even worse song!!
Find someone else that means more than he did. Chances are, you'll never forget!!

[miadee]

He didn't even once text me "Why did you go" or "How are you" This makes me so sad

[FunkyMonkee]

Some people just don't think beyond the end of their nose! Is he, usually, a very social person? If not, tat could be the reason. I rarely ever spend time with others so, when it comes time for the niceties, it's not that I don't care enough to offer/ask, it's that it just never occurred to me to offer/ask because I just have NO practice in such things! If I go to someone else's house, more often than not, they'll ask me if I want anyt6hing to drink as soon as I walk in! If someone comes over to my place (a great rarity), it just never occurs to me to ask if they want a drink! But, they ask me for one, I have no problem getting them one! It's BECAUSE I never get any visitors that I just never think to ask!!

[Gent207-2]

You ever feel like talking it out, I am always here.

My previous ex whom cheated on me and took my vCard is still on my mind even now 2 kids and a wife that treats me way better

[Alex-Snow]

You have to put it behind you and move on. Just remember the good times and the hopefully good orgasms and the right guy will enter your life soon.

[miadee]

It still breaks my heart he never even reached out me once say even a "How are you"

[Alex-Snow]

I agree with you... that was kinda sleezy of him

[Anonymous]

Forget about him
I can suck your tits all day and night,

[Opinion Owner]

He was a bad guy. You dont deserve that. U should feel lucky to get rid of him

[miadee]

Even he didn't love me, he saw me as friends with benefits... He NEVER sent a friendly text "How are you" This hurts my feelings

[Opinion Owner]

Dınt care about him Never text him, never reply if he texts

[miadee]

So shameful I miss him sometimes

[Opinion Owner]

U shouldn't miss him It should be easy for u to forget sbout him Cause he doesn't deserve u, he didn't treat u well Come on U are strong, powerful girl. Know your value

[miadee]

After everything I've done for him I didn't even deserve an "How are you" I still cry about it

[Opinion Owner]

Dont cry.. Dont give a fuck about him. Talk to me then:)

[miadee]

I wish. Once you're heartbroken it's hard

[Opinion Owner]

I hope u meet someone that will love you so much and know your value Just try to forget that guy please

[Anonymous]

Damn, who hurt you?

[miadee]

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