After a while, would you feel like you’re no longer “enough” to sexually satisfy someone whos slept with a lot of people in the past?

Call it insecurity if you will, but I just feel like people who need to sleep with a lot in life aren't sexually satisfied for long. I’d feel like theyre always looking for something new. I remember my first ex said no matter what we do or try sexually, there would always end up being someone else because he can't be with only one pssy in life. He continuosly cheated on everyone he dated. He even told me once “Hey you’re gonna be wifey but a man’s gotta have girlfriends too.” GOSH, first boyfriends are the worst 🤣 So glad i stepped up and stopped taking him back. At the same time, I dont feel sexually satisfied for long, but i dont allow myself to be with many. I rather watch porn if need be or if im dating, keep learning some new tricks (though i’m not open to most). Personally, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if i surpassed a certain number of partners in life. But at the end of the day, we’re all different. #FeelFreeToList #AnEasyScore #NeverSatisfied
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  • No I wouldn't feel that as when I'm witj someone it's more then sex that satisfies me though sex is still apart of it , every time I would do it would always satisfy me if they are regardless of how many sexual partners we've had before

    • Oh okay

  • You can always keep learning new tricks

    • I agree

  • My wife and I both have a body count of around 70 each. We've been married for over 17 years. Yes, sex is a huge part of our life but it's not the only part.
    She's the best lover I've ever had. She says I'm the best she's ever had.
    She's the only one I've made squirt. I'm the only one that made her squirt... after 10 years of marriage.
    Chemistry.. that's huge.
    Trust... so important. Knowing that you can be so completely vulnerable to each other... that's fucking HUGE!
    Find yourself first and love yourself with a healthy protective love. Then get to know people within your circle of trust. Then be patient and see what happens.

    • Ahhh thats some serious chemistry. I do love myself but i just wouldn't have guessed anyone would truly love after so many. I see youve proved otherwise

    • We both realized that we're a special case. What we've found with each other is so good that we joke about how noone would ever believe it could be this good. Trust me, we very much appreciate what we have.

    • I think that part of it is that we've both fucked so many other people that when we found each other we both realized that we never thought it could be this good. And we clung to each other with a desperation...

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  • These kind of people are just trying to fill a void inside them. The moment they fall in love they change.

    • I’d hope so but i won't stick around to find our

    • Yeah, better not! LOL However I have a theory about these kind of men.. they suck in bed. (And not in the good way hahaha)

    • Lol thats prob why they run from woman to woman... lookin for an ego boost

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  • No, I wouldn't

    • Okay

  • Yes. Duh. That's why I only want to marry a virgin.

    • I used to wanna marry a virgin but i learned from my virgin exes that they want to experiment at least once more. So nah, i prefer someone whos slept with at least one but not many (no more than 3)

  • It's more than being satisfied sexually. There has to be chemistry between both partners. You can be satisfied sexually but if there's no chemistry you're not fully satisfied. Then you can have chemistry but the sex is not satisfying. These are the reasons relationships don't work.

    • I don't know. I had chemistry with the ones who didn't do enough

    • So you had chemistry but you weren't sexually satisfied. Thats one reason relationships don't work

    • My way of being satisfied is different i think

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  • Exactly why I wouldn't date someone like that.

    • 😂🤣 i hear ya

  • I think most people need to be with a certain number of partners to be sexually satisfied as just being with one partner isn't enough to satisfy their sexual urges and desires.

    • Thats nuts

  • Just because they have had lot of partners doesn't mean they were satisfied..

    • You mean “weren’t”? But either way i wouldn't stick around to find out

    • No , people can have a lot of sexual partners , does not mean they were happy or satisfied with the sex. Maybe that's why they have so many partners

    • Thats the point i made. I said theyre never satisfied and thats why they sleep around

  • No that would not matter.

    • Okay

  • Not if i had the sex manual on there body 🤣🤣

  • Yes it’s true,

    • Thought so

  • Thats definitely not true some people just love sex but don't sleep around their loyal to that person there with

    • Yea well the ones i know are exactly like what i said so i had to ask

  • I can't imagine feeling like that; while I don't feel like I'm anything special, it's one thing I have confidence in.

    • I have confidence if they haven't been with many. But I don't know after so many, the competition starts to mess with your head

    • I guess I've never really given it any thought

  • I guess that is one reason I have FWBs instead of a single girl. I don’t have to be concerned about cheating. I fuck who I want, when I want.

    • Ahhh okay

  • If you think like that, you could talk yourself out of that.
    I think you have to look at each person and what you have going on with them.
    Make the best of it and if it works great, if not... move on.

    • Oh believe me i’ve moved so much that I don't know wherr else to move 😂

    • Yikes!

  • Agree

    • Thank you

  • I will be concerned with STDs... never though i may not satisfy someone. never happened to me.

    • Yea stds and morals is what keeps me from hoeing lmao

    • you are not the only one...

  • Sometimes if the sex starts getting drab

    • Hmmm

    • But, that's when you gotta change it. up

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