After boyfriend criticized my bj technique I'm scared to give him one.

[Anonymous]

I have giving my boyfriend a few blow-jobs before, but as he said hat I could do better (not in a douchbag way, just as a tips) after that I have practice *not on him* in the past 6 months to become a great at it. I feel like I'm ready to show him what I have done this past months, but every time I come close to his penis. I freak out and can't do it. I'm scared that I will fail again :( How can I get past this?

[kaylaS91]

Next time you guys are making out and things are starting to get heated, straddle him and ask him in a really sexy way what he wants you to do to him, or what his hot spots are. Assuming he's already super into it and already hard, he'll tell you what he wants and as a few people already said, it's quite hard to give a bad bj. Lick his dick up down a few times, then put the head in your mouth and focus your tongue on the underside of the head, which is a very sensitive spot. Then shift focus to the shaft, return to the head, and repeat. I'm sure he'll enjoy it. He must've had a lot of his mind and was simply unable to finish that time he made the comment.

[Shockerr]

you are pro, all I can say haha

[kaylaS91]

:)

[Susan123]

you need to talk to him. if you can't face saying things like that to him then what's the point of having a relationship. you should be able to say your fears and you worries. talk to him. if he is still an ass you might consider that he is not right for you

[normalice]

wait, you have been practicing but not on him? what does that mean?

anyway, failure is not possible. the only thing close to failure you can accomplish is a lack of interest, and that doesn't seem to be a problem.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You communicate your fears to him before it's time for the blowjob. That will help you get over it

[Asker]

good answer, but how? should I just say it straight out?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Yup.. Start with 'remember the last time I gave you oral, you gave me some tips, and I've been practicing (not on another guy). I want to try again, but I'm really nervous I won't do it right...so please be supportive.

[1inmillion]

Who are you practicing on?

[yawst]

I can't imagine bjs being that hard I think you're overly worried. There's just a few small things and if you're already doing them then it's his problem. I've never had one so I can't say what a good one really needs.

[Anonymous]

to me it sounds very DB like... bad boyfriend.