After catching husband riding a dildo?

Been together my husband and I for 21 years. I caught him riding a dildo. First thing that came to me was he really liked guys. Well we talked he said he been doing it for about a year now I looked it all up I asked well is it better getting off that way he said well he can't get off that way. In my head then why still doing it. He swears he ant guy. I said let's spice up our love life he just ant down with all the offers like 3 some um pegging nothing. He says he loves me an love my pussy? I mean I don't understand I can't figure it out dose he wamt to be with me or his he bi or what
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  • He wants to be with you and is probably lying to avoid any kinds of drama.

    If he's done it for a year then ofcourse he gets off of it. He just doesn't want to make you feel like you arn't enough.

    He doesn't necessarily need to be bi to want somthing up his ass. Prostate stimulans gives rather powerful orgasms and quite a few men use it without having any attraction to other guys. Then again he could be bi and lie about it as well to avoid drama of inviting a third into the bed.

    The use of toys could be a nice first step for you guys to explore this... If that is what you want. Suggest he wear a buttplug next time you have sex and do it otherwise the way you usually do. That will have him explode. 😉

    • So that's how I fill I ant eaugh.

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  • Just because a guy likes to feel pleasure from his prostate doesn't mean he's bi. He might not get off on it as in orgasm, but that doesn't mean it doesn't still feel good. Why should gay and bi men be the only ones that are allowed to feel pleasure from prostate stimulation?

    • So why do it if your not getting off from it

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  • Yea it looks gay.

  • Gayyyy

  • I recommend Sexual counseling because base on what he is telling you and how you caught him, there's something he is not telling you and it's true for the most part, Men who does it & also like it, usually keeps it confidential, will deny (make excuses or lie) or feel embarrassed, uncomfortable because now you know.

  • if a woman anally stimulates a man, that's not gay or bi is it? cause that's a man and a woman being sexually engaged. so it can't be bi or gay.

  • You didn't ask him these questions?

  • It's just that men's g-spot is located there, so it's possible that he is no bi.

  • I'm sorry but your husband is gay how did you react when you caught him

    • He didn't say anything really but embarrassed. I had a quiet 3 days he he don't want to talk about it. He said I'm gay. I asked how long u been doing it he said half a year but never done what it's so post to do he can't get off he said I said why still doing it he won't answer

    • Damn message me we have to analyze this

  • tell him, wyd girl lol?