After having sex with someone have you ever felt dissatisfied?

[Wendysbitterapple]

[Bricealan]

Probably one time and I was really angry also. Had been seeing a woman for a long time as simply 'friends', because we worked together. One weekend, we started necking, French kissing and me feeling her up. She then said "we need to get together, you are a 'great kisser"... One weekend, she stayed over, and I saw her naked for the first time, and I immediately went down on her an she had he loudest screaming orgasm, I ever heard. (I at times questioned the screaming) Afterward, I could not get a hard-on with her, because I was in shock, seeing how very small her vagina was. Her comment was: "Go in the bathroom and do whatever you need to do to get hard" I was really not only 'dissatisfied" but REALLY PISSED OFF!! As you might imagine.

P. S. she did kiss me on the lips right after I ate her out.

[kellytheman]

Yeah there been times I had sex with a very sexy girl but her sex skills was not very good. For a long time through my highschool years I never had sex and the girl would always let me eat her out or finger but wouldn’t return the favor or just give me a handjob.

[Julie_TS]

Lol, yep... it happens. Sometimes it's a chemistry thing where you just don't connect quite as well as you first thought and sometimes it's a simple matter that they're just bad at sex. Typically though disappointment or dissatisfaction is often a result of lofty expectations of the other person.

#badsexisbetterthannosex (usually, lol)

[Julie_TS]

Thanks for the MHO!!!

[electromagnetic]

I have. I won’t go into details but I used to have high hopes with this one dude that I dated wayy back when and when it was over, I just went home and never went back.

[Guardian45]

That's sad

[chrissykerdock]

when you give a 20+ minute blowjob and get a little drop of cum.

[Samantha36]

Yes. All that effort for not much back 🤣. I once had a guy who promised me a big facial and when we met up it was the smallest trickle.

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 i know you'd think they'd be excited about it and you get a trickle... i feel unattractive when that happens

[Samantha36]

Yes me too. I have abit of a cum fetish also so it's a big disappointment.

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 fetish as you like the taste or you like a guy to cum good for you... i'm used to getting a good mouthful and when i don't i take it personally.

[Samantha36]

Not so much the taste... more the texture. This may be tmi but I just love it all over me. If he cums inside me... I'll use it to masturbate strait after. I have asked my boyfriend to collect it in a jar everytime he masturbates.

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 you really like cum... that's a fetish ok that you have... i like texture too and cum in general... swallowing it is important to me as it takes me out of my depression for sure

[Samantha36]

That's good. A natural remedy

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 yes and it really works... if i don't get to give someone a blowjob for a month i'm pretty depressed... when i can give it at least 2-3 times a week a feel a lot better

[Samantha36]

That's good. I try to give my boyfriend a bj once a day. Doesn't always happen but at least 4 times a week. Good for the soul

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 i have a friends with benefits lives 10 minutes away so i get to give him blowjobs 3-5 times a week and he loves it when i swallow his cum... you got it right it's so good for the soul... once a day is hard even if you want to i lived with a guy 10 years and we never really managed at least 1 a day and not because we didn't want to.

[Samantha36]

Yes I know. Its not always easy. If I don't I end up dreaming about it haha.

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 really you love it that much... i like blowjob time it's very relaxing and i like the intimacy i burn candles while giving it.

[Samantha36]

Yes I really love it. Wow candles.. I'll have to try that. I love telling him I'm gonna suck his dick later, then he's horny all day

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 that's great that he loves it that he gets horny... does he prefer getting his dick sucked or does he like intercourse better

[Samantha36]

Sometimes when we are not working ill tell him that I want all my holes filled with his cum today. So we will have vaginal sex in the morning... then he knows he's getting anal later and a good bj before bed... he is hard all day 🤣

[Samantha36]

He loves a bj. He says it something I do for him that's selfless. But it's not, I love it

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 so you give him all 3 holes everyman's dream

[Samantha36]

Apparently it is. I had only tried anal once with a guy with a tiny penis. It was good but painful. My boyfriend is a lot bigger but he took his time with me, used lots of lube and over the last 2 years iv got used to it and it makes me cum so much

[chrissykerdock]

@Samantha36 it can be intense and you feel everything nicely

[katiesmuff]

Yes a few times that I can remember

[nolabels]

Lol.

Yep.

[Anemone978]

Yes it just happens sometimes but if he doesn't satisfy me I make him go for another round..

[ArrowheadSW]

That is why it is important to build the intimacy ahead of heading to the bedroom. It makes it more satisfying.

[Laura_fo2208]

Yes, several times

[Guardian45]

How come?

[Laura_fo2208]

Selfishness of the man or he was just not good 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Apple1996]

Yeah lots of times but that's basically how sex is for a woman

[mandyfire98]

Oh yeah a few times lol

[Guardian45]

Really? Why?

[mandyfire98]

Because it wasn't good sex

[Guardian45]

Ohhhh! I didn't know you suffered from that! My sympathies!

[mandyfire98]

Oh I've had bad sex a time or two in my life. Not currently thank god but in the past.

[SnowedIn]

Nope

[Samantha36]

Hell yea. Too many times.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Damn that's not good! 😋

[Samantha36]

@Bklynbadboy12 it's what happens when you are on tinder hooking up with different guys all the time. A few guys blew their load before they even got near mu vagina.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You know why that is right

[Samantha36]

@Bklynbadboy12 no idea

[Bklynbadboy12]

That because your the shit they couldn't handle it

[BoopBoopBeep]

A number of times. Sometimes you just didn't mesh well, sometimes she was a lot more... timid... i guess? than i expected. sometimes you're just too sore to really get into it

[AviatorTom]

It has happened, occasionally. Like anything else, not everything is perfect... every time.

[Simslover92]

Yeah definitely.

[Dargil]

Nope. Usually just grateful.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Yes my ex once burst his load after about 30 seconds, I was properly pissed as I was dying for a good seeing to and it was over in a blink

[sheikalana]

I've experienced this in the past.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah. Hookup sex has left me pretty unsatisfied.

[exitseven]

Never.

[Nikki1989]

I have only been with one guy that left me 100% satisfied, and that is the guy I married. The rest were always hit or miss. The women I have been with though have always been very satisfying.

[Sparkie460]

I did with one woman I dated for a short period of time

[elontesler3]

@Sparkie460 bill clinton would agree