After I told boyfriend I want more sex we’re doing it three times in 24 h?

Question

We’ve been together for 9 months, and have been having sex a few times per week. He’s told me he doesn’t want me to think he wants me just for sex, and that’s the reason he hasn’t tried to get it more often. After I told him I’m almost always up for it, he increased the frequency significantly. We’re now having sex up to three times in 24 hours. He also got more kinky in bed. He told me he’s usually too tired in a weekday because of work. How do I know if he really appreciates it or if I’m too much and should tag down with the sex? He is older than me.

dutch69lover · Accepted Answer

If he is willing to do it 3 times a day then he enjoys it. My wife is 10 years younger than me but this isn't a problem for me.(that's where working out comes in handy) There are times that I'm tired too from work and we will 69 and pleasure each other or she will blow me off... but most of the time even if I'm tired I still have enough juice to do it with her.

As a side note we been married 11 years and still are intimate a majority of the week.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Tell him that you're happy to have as much sex as he likes, but that it's perfectly fine if he's too tired after work. Let him know that you love it, but he shouldn't feel like he needs to kill himself either. In other words, just be honest.

RemoErdosain · Answer

The fact that he wants it three times a day already shows he really likes it

summiter · Answer

He will tell you if he wants to slow down the frequency. How old is he? Young guys can certainly have sex 2-3 times a day. Maybe get a vibrator and teach him how to use it on you if he needs a break?

Berethor · Answer

Technically you told him that you almost always up for it, you didn't told him that he need to do three times in 24 hours. I think that he appreciate you being always available, but if you ask him for four times in 24 hours then it might be too much for him.

Apope16 · Answer

Congrats. Thats beautiful. Rare for girls to ask

JoyGirl · Answer

You are overthink.

bowenw · Answer

Just be open and honest and ask him if he's feeling satisfied. Tell him if you would like more or less sex. I don't really buy the part about him being too tired on weekday. I think most guys like some sex during the week and will make it work.

ashish804 · Answer

let him fuck the times u want and enjoy it babes

Caunsos · Answer

Talk to him

Wise4myage · Answer

He appreciates it or he wouldn't have agreed to have more sex in the first place, and the fact that he's gotten more kinky is a sure sign of that. But you could always ask?

Cellestial · Answer

No guy will be able to have sex only because his partner wants it. If he's having sex frequently with you it only means he's enjoying it!

Trooper205 · Answer

I know where you're coming from! I try to tone down my Sexuality with my Fiance for fear She'd take it as I'm after Her body... I'm still quite Sexual, but I try to practice control. What You can do is ask for Feedback! Ask for His opinions on the Activities You two do during it, and if there's anything He wants more or less of. Of course, let Him know You really Love it, and frequently look forward to your Romps together!

Bang5luts · Answer

Ask him to be honest with you. Bit don't say, "Just be honest. I won't get mad." Because we all know what that means lol. No seriously though, just say babe, ever since we talked about sex. We've been doing it more. Tell him your honest opinion about the increase in frequency. Then tell him you want to make sure that it's not wearing him out. I can imagine if you present this in a way that is ok for him to express himself openly and honestly without recourse that he most likely do just that.

Valnac · Answer

Fuck, girl... why overthink that, fuck his brains out!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

You're thinking about this way to much

billluc69 · Answer

keep it up

Stephanaoff · Answer

If we could have as much as possible we would but that doesn't mean it's good for the relationship... A little mistery and teasing it's better sometimes