Aftercare for male soreness after rough activity?

[Anonymous]

So me and my Husband are very sexually active and don't usually have any issues with him experiencing pain.

But! We've had a 48hr marathon with a lot of extremely rough sessions over the past few days in which no accidents happened, but he is swollen and has swelling in the center of his shaft and on the glans (maybe in part because he was edging with PIV and maybe partially because I had a LOT of orgasms lengthy orgasms which he told me he got a good squeezing and may have restricted his blood flow a bit )

I've given him ice packs, anti inflammatory pills and told him he might have to have a break until his erection isn't painful anymore. But he doesn't want to take a break lol

Is there anything else we can do to speed up his healing process? Or anything gentler we could do that won't cause further injury/slow down healing? I'm worried that if he keeps going he's going to over exhert himself and end up in even more pain.

P. s

If it helps, I'm feeling pretty bruised on my cervical wall and have had some blood too. So could that depth impact be responsible for the glans bruising?

[Levin]

I think err, quality over quantity, and a bit of tantra will do the trick!

Some hobbies too won't hurt, ha.

[Asker]

LOL! Oh we do practice tantra usually. And it was definitely quality. It's the first time we've had any extended leisure time together and we've never done anything like this before. It was just over excitement I guess, wasn't exactly planned.

[Levin]

Just take a few chill pills then, man. Day or two and you'll be shagging like rabbits again.

[Asker]

Haha, yeah! I think I'll have to ask him to take it easy and just distract him with other things for now. Try and let him recover a bit. I mean, I'm sore too but I don't want to make him feel bad about it, so I'll just feed him or something instead 😅

[Levin]

Cuddling is all good, too.

[Asker]

That, we have been doing. But the horny hubby gets aroused even cuddling and those boners were painful. So I took your advice and distracted him with a hobby we both enjoy instead and some good food. He's feeling a lot better today haha

[Levin]

Yeah, that's the thing, sometimes sex can be a distraction for the emotions or feelings we don't want to deal with.

[Asker]

Oh definitely! That's been the case before, like a form of therapy/closing off. But in this case, we've just gotten over a very turbulent life situation where neither of us had spent much time together on good terms. So it was kind of the opposite? Feeling especially close and loved up recently and it has sparked emotions up like when we first got together. Refreshed and revitalised. We just have to re-learn a few things I think and take it a bit easier lol

[Levin]

So a new bit of bonding, sounds nice. I need the same thing!

[Dargil]

Intensive Care Lotion on his penis.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've heard that if you stick your dick into a bottle of milk and soak it for a while, that helps a lot. One guy tried that but, when he girlfriend walked in on him doing it, she said, "Oh, THAT'S how you refill those things!"

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[hbg84]

Just put ice on it

[Iron_Man]

So you have 48 hour marathon you don’t eat sleep or drink water just going at it for 48 hours nonstop lol

[Asker]

No we did! Of course. We had some power naps here and there, like an hour or two and ordered food. But we've never done a session this long before. It's been a while since either of us have had time off to spend like this, so we both got a bit over excited lol

[Anonymous]

Apply some ice.

[Asker]

We did! I gave him ice packs throughout the day yesterday and some anti inflammatory pills. He's feeling a lot better today!

[Opinion Owner]

Nice, heating pads can help too.

[Anonymous]

48 hours?

Don't you sleep?

[Asker]

We have time off atm and we did have some power naps. It's not a regular thing, this is the first time this has happened lol!