My guy and I use our hands, sometimes we don't.
If you want to be a good lover, erase everything you know about sex from porn. Let it go. Get it out of here. Don't need it.
Instead, tell the girl what you like, tell her when she's doing something right, and use your imagination and talk about what it comes up with. Vice versa for her.
It depends on how I'm positioned. If I'm laying completely flat and we start in missionary. he can usually get it in without having to use his hands. Sometimes it's a bit of poking around though, so really hit and miss.
Don't wanna hear a girl say... umm wrong hole lol
@Green_Hef haha well if he does get around the wrong one, I'll move away and/or give him a small slap. I'm pretty sure it can't just 'slip in' the wrong one all that easily.
Yeah mines too big. to slip in... I. would never do, that unless she asked
My boyfriend has to use his hands also. I think you need to forget what you see in porn because most of its fake d:
Usually to start yeah. If she receives enough foreplay and is aroused and lubricated, it will slip in a lot easier. If she's an older woman, you may need to use a lubricant, or she might need medication. (Some older women need medication for sexual activity just like some older men do.) Also, ensure your fully aroused as well.
Movies = no realism
What you just described = reality
For everyone's enjoyment or horror your pick lol
Realistic Hollywood sex scene lol (hilarious none the less )
Omg... thank you for that, i laughed so hard.
Hehe no problem.
It is so true.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!In the movies they're not actually having sex though so can you really rely on them for an accurate representation of how to stick it in?
I wish I had your innocent mind. He doesn't mean that kind of movies.
@Whoooooooooo Actually he does: "Nah, i dont watch porn. But like in the hollywood movies, where they just start making out, then fall on the bed, and you can see both guys arms on her, but he still thrusts like he is having sex with her."
Yeah... my mind is not so innocent. But porn is gross. So fuck off.
Most men grab and aim. Movies are not real.
Why would you care about that? If you need your hand to put it in, then use your hand. Why do you need to emulate movies?
mostly all couples have to do some rearranging to penetrate
Sometimes, but usually I don't have to. If you don't have a full erection it might flop around a bit making it more difficult for you. Or you might just not have a feel for where it is yet
I don't mess around, I use my hand to glide that dick in the pussy! :-D
It's easier to let her do it and sexier in my mind. I found that if both her legs are up and slightly pushed back it's also easier to aim with out a hand.
Dicks are clumsy, hands are nimble. Don't worry about it
Thats why it's a movie.
my penis too small to even stay in so i can't help you.
bruhhh I have the same problem!!! #OurStrugglesAreReal
I usually get the girl to put it in...
some positions i gota aim it. sometimes i can kinda just grind it out arount till i get the spot
Done it more times than I can count
Sometimes I guide it in with my hands, often she'll do it (especially if she's going on top) and I prefer to do it without using hands.
Anyway I have seen the guys in plenty of porn films use their hands to stick it in.
If it's hard enough, it usually slides in really nicely. You have to be in the right position too, like missionary. Most of the time though, you will need to just use your hand.
My boyfriend also aimed to put it in. I figured that was more common... if by movies you mean porn, those guys are trained. Porn is a fantasy and not applicable most of the time to every day couples.
Nah, i dont watch porn. But like in the hollywood movies, where they just start making out, then fall on the bed, and you can see both guys arms on her, but he still thrusts like he is having sex with her. Like... I can't just insert it without looking or anything. You know?
Well, with Hollywood they have their member and such adjusted. They don't want to slip up, because things can get awkward. Like Henry said:
www.usmagazine.com/.../henry-cavill-admits-he-got-an-erection-during-a-sex-scene-details-201578
It would be more realistic if they at least alluded to adjusting themselves for entry in film, but I guess it's not a top priority lol.
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