In my day and age, fuck boys are a problem for us teenage girls. (There are even fuck boys over the age of 18!)
If you don't know what it is, Imma tell you all about it.
Urban Dictionary Definition:
Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for "pics" once the girl has welcomed him back into her trust. Boys like this will pretend to genuinely care about the girl but always fail to prove the supposed affection. He almost never makes plans because he has to hangout on his terms which could be the most whimsical of times, and if the girl rejects those plans because she has a legitimate reason for not being able to hang out, he will get pissed. However, if plans are made he will bail on them without a second thought. If a girl tries to stand up to this asshole he will most likely deny everything and turn it all around on the girl making it seem as though the conflict at stake is her fault and he has done nothing wrong and hates when girls bitch at him for "no reason." He will always come crawling back because he is a horny prick and can not withstand the dispossession of one of his baes, because he has more than one that's for sure. Texting such a boy will consist of the girl carrying the conversation and the guy responding with short answers 10 or more minutes after the girl's response, but when she asks why he takes so long to answer it will be because he is "busy" but he promises he likes her. Boys like this are egotistical assholes who can not be trusted and are hard to get rid of because they say all the right things to get the girl back.
Examples:
Exhibit A:
Exhibit B:
How to spot a fuckboy:
1. Usually has great hair + an 8 pack, lifts shirt up in all of his selfies
2. Flirts with every girl
3. Tells every girl he flirts with "No I only like you"
4. Says "What would we be doing if I was there?" and "Haha then what? ;) "
5. Will ask to play 21 questions, adds a winky face. DO NOT ENGAGE
6. Talks a strong game, is actually a weak ass bitch.
7. Will brag about all the puss he's gettin', when he's blueballed watching porno
8. Will insult his object of horniness when rejected because he's butthurt
9. Careful. WILL SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PIC.
10. WIll ask for nudes, garunteed!
11. You're not the only girl he's asking nudes from, do NOT SEND THEM.
12. He will show his friends these girls's nudes. DO NOT SEND HIM THEM.
13. They usually wear the same type of tank top + khaki combination of clothing.
14. Will do whatever it takes to get what they want.
15. They don't care who they hurt as long as they bust a nut.
Examples of what they look like:
Example of #8
Usually around the ages of 15-18, sometimes older such as above.
Girls my age already have self esteem issues, fuckboys don't help at all. "Oh I love you." He says to five different girls, when he really means "I love how well you can please me."
Fuck boys are a problem.
For young girls.
For young women.
Don't send a fuck boy nudes.
Do not engage in contact with them.
When a fuckboy is spotted, keep a distance of 15 feet MINIMUM.
Do not send him nudes.
Girls, just a tip. If a fuckboy sends an unwanted dick pic, either A. Insult it in any way possible or B. Send a picture back of a bigger dick.
Guys, please don't be any of the above.
Keep in mind though, no offense is meant so if you fall into 50% + of the above, change your ways, cause if you're not like this then you shouldn't get offended. "But wait not all guys are like that!" No shit, I know that, that's why they're specifically called FuckBoys/Fuck Bois/ Fucc bois.
Ladies remember, not all guys are like this. Fuck boys are not to be engaged with, sadness will occur.
What Girls & Guys Said
14 57Fuckboys must be the happiest and most fufilled men on the planet. so jealous lol. I would be happy to die a fuckboy
Too bad you ain't got the looks for it.
@ShaeNielson. You don't need looks to be a fuckboy, you do though if you going to be a fuckgirl... hope you are blessed with the looks and you use it well for the 10 years you look young, unless you have crappy jeans then it could be way less than that :)
@ShaeNielson. genes#
If you only believe I have 10 years left to look young then that really says more about how you've aged than how I will.
@ShaeNielson. I said nothing about ageing quicker, we all age the same but the way people age can differ. For example; A pale white woman who gets a lot of sunlight is going to get wrinkles way quicker than a dark skinned woman. Henze why i said it depends on your genes. Ofcourse there are some white women who are lucky to not age as quickly too... i know some. Why are you getting angry, you are only 18, enjoy the attention you will be getting from men because trust me, that will go down the drain once you hit 30. Good luck. Lastly, i don't give a crap how i age... i am a guy, why you think wrinkle creams are aimed at women to make your skin look younger... jeeez.
I am very much a non-fuckboy. ✌
@Prof_Don very good
@luvstoned4him you're not a fuck-girl, are you? :-P
@Prof_Don hell no!!
@luvstoned4him I didn't think so. I love your passion :)
@Prof_Don thanks, you too
I know, you're adorable
" B. Send a picture back of a bigger dick." hahaha best part in my opinion.
also what if women like fuck boys, you know it's not like fuckboys don't get their dick wet...
If a woman likes fuckboys then that's cool for her
Sadly I never knew what fuckboy meant. I feel old now.
They grow up to be manwhores.
Anything wrong about being a manwhore?
@AleDeEurope Not my preference, but unless you lie and misrepresent yourself, no judgement.
Exactly, a manwhore is just like a slut, they have lots of random sex, but not necessarily lie to get it. Liars would be called players, in my opinion.
@AleDeEurope Why they gotta be "man" whore bro? Why can't they simply be WHORES/SLUTS? What's the need for the gender qualifier ya know? ;) This is me trying to make a point, not that I have high hopes for it.
@CheerGirl38139 I don't know, I guess it's because the "whoring" profession has always been dominated by women. I call guys sluts too, it's not just a term I use with promiscuous women. If they sleep around, they're sluts, no matter the gender. Is it bad? No, unless they're not being safe about it.
@AleDeEurope If that's true, then kudos to you man. The use of slurs like slut and whore are doubly offensive to me, because most people assign them exclusively to females, and add a gender qualifier when referring to males.
@CheerGirl38139 Well, we there's no "fuckgirl", and if there is, I've never heard of it. I don't think adding a gender qualifier is an issue, I mean, in the end, they both mean the same, which is what matters.
@AleDeEurope Once again, we shall agree to disagree. Might as well call it now. FTR, I think "fuckboy" is an ugly thing to say as well. I don't use that term either. I just believe calling people names (slurs) is rude and pointless and something I try not to do.
@AleDeEurope yes there are a such thing of fuckgirls n they are far waste then fuck boys.
@skykidx1 What is a fuckgirl and hw are they worse?
@skykidx1 yes. Please do tell how they are worse?
@skykidx1 Yes, tell us xD
Being a shitty person is independent of gender, age, (non-) religious belief, sexuality and whatnot.
True but this is a specific type of a shitty person
well they're a fuckboy only if they let them fuck you really... there are decent guys who even though they are after sex will not desrespect you or make life hard for you, these "Fuckboys" are hot thats why women get with them then they critisize them... it doesn't work like that
I talked to you before and you said you were into girls. Why do you care? The way I see it young guys haven't got any emotional development or tact or charm or anything. Especially little fairys that show off their six packs at the drop of a hat. That's gay not manly. They play to their looks coz that's all they have. Stupid girls should be able to spot a clown like that a mile away. They always tell you how they're a great judge of character. If they want to fall into bed with a boy like that then it's their problem if he turns out to be shallow and rude.
I like guys + girls
Completely just described most of my friends and exs.
This post is great! I've dealt with this before and this is all true. Except for the clothes part... but this was a great read.
From that description, i've been speaking to a lot of FuckBoys lol. but I dont give them nothing.. im tired of them.
Also how to spot a fuckboy: they're commenting how stupid this is, how it's not true, and how there are "fuckgirls" too.
Lets be real, there are wayyyyy wayyyyyyy more fuck girls than fuck boys, guys just don't complain about them. The very large majority of my female friends have had about 3 times the amount of sexual partners that most of my guy friends have. I know a lot more women that consistantly go out on dates just to have one night stands than I do guys. I've seen it first hand plenty of times and numbers don't lie. I only have two close guy friends that have as many sexual partners as the average of my average attractive female friends have (~35, in our mid 20's. Numbers don't lie sweety. Sincerely, a guy who's only been with one girl (his current gf) and seriously doesn't give a shit about how many people someone has been with because it's frankly none of my business.
also, I have only met 2 people that have more than 100 sexual partners , both are women
you know the purpose of a word is to describe a certain "thing" accurately to make a clear line between the word and another word.
now "Player" has exaclty the same meaning and the word already exist, making the expression "Fuck boy" not only sound stupid but it also takes away it´s purpose.
don´t use and promote stupid words, that have no proper definition that is clearly distinguishing from other words.
Players and Fuckboys are the same thing. Neither are good. Being a player seems to have a more positive connotation though. To some, it just means that you have game and get plenty of girls. Being a fuckboy usually has a much more negative connotation. They are those that use, reject, belittle, degrade, etc. Many of these Fuckboys are immature ( so are players but this is just meant speaking in terms of age that are usually associated with this stereotype). Maybe some find it cool to be a little man whore, showing off all the girls you've bagged or the pictures they sent you or calling them names because they rejected you. But it's not a good thing to us girls. We're calling them as we see them. If you don't want to be called a fuckboy, don't be one.
@HglitterSpanix i am aware of the fact, that neither of the terms describe a prefered behavior :D
Very true!
Hahaha. I know a fuck boy. He tries so hard to hit up girls and look all girly and shit. He also has like 2 friends that just put up with him. He also runs his mouth on people.
This... is so wrong... Fuckboys never get caught until they want to be. I have a very good friend of mine who is one.
nice for you but its not wrong. I know many many fuck boys as my entire school is full of them.
Okay... its right but not totally... becz some of the things me you mentioned above... Were the characteristics of creepy guys who watch more of porn than actually talk to a girl.
Also... teenagers can't be expected to be gentlemanly cz we are just not comfortable with the changes with our body yet.
you do realize ANY time you mention a characteristic it can apply to more than 1 type of person right? For example, person A and B both are emotionally distant. But person A is a sociopath and person B is an introvert with anxiety or depression Doesn't make them the same type of person.
It's pathetic to hate someone because they're different to you.
I HATE relationships. I hate whiney, irritating, hormonal piece of shit women. I hate the hypocrisy, the stupidity and the inequality that comes with dating a woman.
But I like sex. Therefore, fuckboy.
Maybe the solution here is for women to stop being whiney irritating hormonal pieces of shit.
Hahaha nice take :-D
I am glad I am not a fuck boy... And that guy in the pic looks super gay..
which guy?
Guy in the second pic...
that's Nash Grier, he's a piece of shit.
they don't seem so bad too me.
Don't hate the player hate the game.
spoken by a true fuckboy (x
@KRIEL55 No I have never been a fuck boy. Sorry, to disappoint you.
i dont know you well enough, but just from that outdated lame "dont hate the player hate the game" excuse, i could tell you AT LEAST have some fuckboy tendencies.
@KRIEL55 no I don't. I've only been with 4 women in my life and all were serious relationships. You simply have a bitter opinion of men.
just because you were in serious relationships, doesn't change anything. and my opinion of men is nowhere near bitter. i've also only been in serious relationships and its great. but i have been single for almost a year now but because all of a sudden, its become some kind of trend to be a fuckboy or something, its rare to meet someone decent. even the guys who want something serious and are fun to talk to, have fuckboy tendencies (like still using the word "swag" for example. just why.)
@KRIEL55 yes it does change everything about your opinion towards me. You just assumed I'm a fuckboy because of what I said. Even though I am nothing close to being a fuckboy. I've been a romantic my entire life. I've only slept with 4 woman, so how the hell can you call me a fuckboy?
can you not read? i said "i dont know you well enough" and "i could tell you AT LEAST have some fuckboy tendencies" yes i said "spoken by a true fuckboy" but after you said you weren't one, i didn't keep calling you one, i was like well i dont know you well enough. but using lame outdated lines like "hate the game" is just such a fuckboy thing to do. that is why i said fuckboy tendencies. huge difference.
@KRIEL55 you're still obviously bitter to jump to the conclusion of "fuck-boy tendencies". It could simply mean I'm the kind of guy who likes to annoy people. In fact that's probably most of the guy's reasons on this myTake for making comments like mine. They can all see you're bitter towards men and they think it's funny to antagonize you even more; which it is totally funny.
wow. the most hilarious thing ever. assuming someone is bitter for calling you out on something lame that you said is what makes you laugh? really. what a sad life you lead.
@KRIEL55 it's always funny to see a woman get all riled up because she's in rampage mode. What happened to make you write this myTake anyway? Get dumped, lied to, cheated on or did you simply have a bad day?
ones again, what a sad life you lead. and now i know for sure that your nothing but a fuckboy. only a fuckboy would say something that ignorant. and what made ME write this take? are you blind or just stupid? this take isn't by me. and ha cheated or dumped? none of that. im single and choosing between a few guys right now. the only problem i have in my love life right now is that i can't make up my mind yet
It's not physically possibel to have an 8-pack...