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Sexual Health All men are dirty-minded -- True or false?
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I was having a casual conversation with a man in his fifties who worked in a factory as the superintendent.He sudddenly took out his wallet and showed me a photo of his mistress(he cheated on his wife) and asked me if she's pretty. I didn't say anything and he went on to say that he wanted to have all the women in the factory,even those in his twenties but too bad he's not that young anymore.I felt disgusted and criticised him for being dirty-minded. And his reply was,''All the men in this world are dirty-minded!'' and he said he knows this because of his age and life experiences.And by men,he meant males and not just mankind in general because he used the Chinese phrase ''nan ren'' which has no other meanings in Chinese other than males.Your perspectives? Or are all women dirty-minded too?Haha.Kindly cast your vote downstairs if you can and thanks.
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He said ''dirty-minded'' in English. I just want to hear GAGers' opinions :)
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By the way,I did not downvote anybody.I just want to hear GAGers' honest answers because I am curious!
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 32Preety much.. I know I am
Maybe most, but definitely not all.
all people are dirty-minded to some degree
Sad but True.
Agree this is a generalization, but I do think we all have a dirty mind. Just have control about what we share and don't share.
sounds like he's in a midlife crisis lol
but yes, ALL guys think about absolute filth all the time
Yep pervs for sure
False. Sexually repressed men are dirty-minded.
Men are just more honest about all things sex related . Women are taught and trained to never be honest about their sex drive. I think that women have dirty minds too, they just refuse to be honest about it like men do.
its not "dirty" to talk and think about sexual things. guys can't help it from being alone for too long so cut him some slack, and just laugh it off
girls are not dirty minded cause they lack or don't have the desire for sexual innuendos etc
Part of human "wiring" is sexuality. If it is "normal" it includes sexual attraction for the opposite sex. (Don't get hot on this part; normal is a statistical term and it applies to sexual norms also.) It is how humans keep the species alive.
"Dirty-minded" is a subjective term. For most sensible people it means having thoughts that are "perverted" (another subjective term). Things like having sexual interest in children. Thoughts that turn to sex often when it is inappropriate, which includes cheating on your wife, and bringing your sexual thoughts out to others not interested.
So, no, most men, though sexual beings with sexual thoughts, are not necessarily dirty-minded. Nor are most women.
everyone is a dirtbag no matter what.
the people who say they arent, are denying themselves for some other reason.
Yes, all men are dirty-minded... but if these "dirty-thoughts" provoke infidelity, then no. To give an example; I live a happy married life with a lovely wife and I tend to be REALLY "dirty" when I fantasize about her. This is almost every day (high sex drive... heh ^ ^;;;)
The thing is, thinking dirty thoughts about my own spouse is as far as I can go, not because I know it's morally correct, but because I'm literally mentally incapable of fantasizing about anyone else. We're so sexually compatible that there is absolutely no need for me to call out someone else's name in bed. It's one reason I married her.
Point being; there are men who give, and men who don't give a ****. And I know for a fact that women are just as dirty-minded. The difference is how open we are about it. Women are often more discrete about it, or would only be open to a close friend or a special someone.
It depends on how you define dirty minded. If you define it the way your factory friend does, no. Most men are dirty minded in the sense that they think about sex constantly, but most of us don't want to cheat on our SOs.
I think it's sad that we still use the word "dirty" to describe someone who thinks about sex a lot (i.e., most males), and someone who does it more than others is "worse".
All generalisations are false
Dirty minded as in having no remorse cheating or planning to cheat ? NO.
Man invented romance to distract woman from discovering his dirty mind.
Hahaha.