'All Men will cheat...'

'All Men will cheat...'

I am a man, I have never cheated.

The majority question this, struggling to accept the concept of a man being faithful.

The scutterbug ruminating through 21-century circles underpins the cynicism, portraying man as having an egocentric, have our cake while eating it mindset. Loving having a woman dedicated to us 24/7 while we still sow our wild oats. Justifying our actions by embracing the cliche 'variety is the spice of life' as a means to maintain the interest in our relationships.

Faithfulness always an ideal, never a reality meaning monogamy is found in the mystery section of every males library. Superficial reasoning leading to convenient pigeonholing with this inevitable label:

'All men are cheats...'

The sense of 'right' or 'wrong' as part of a males makeup never entering new age considerations with the moniker omitting a full understanding of the males mindset.

To a large degree we are governed by our 'other head', but only a few allows it to lead to an act of self-betrayal. One where you could just choose to be single and bed as many women you want, rather than be attached and run the risk of the stress that goes with the act.

The other side is what commitment truly means to us. Using my example; I lived a youth of promiscuity followed by getting married at 19 and only having eyes for one. I can barely remember many of the women I slept with, but I toss and turn every night craving my ex-wife near. There is a pleasure in promiscuity but also a seeming loneliness that behind closed doors strips you bare leaving a gnawing legacy.

When you are with a woman in a relationship that you adore, the sense of completeness is palpable. On an intimate level, it is all about her and the yearn for the oneness of the body to compliment the feeling you worship in the union of heart, mind, and being.

There is never any need, or desire for 'extracurricular activities.'

If the feeling dims and the sands of time run out on what you were sharing, cheating never enters the equation. With respect for self, as well as your partner occupying front row, and centre in communicating and trying to bridge differences or thanking for the memories, and leaving.

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  • I never cheated and I never will. I don't care enough about some bitter women's bitching to emphasize my point. If they think every man is a cheater, hooray, good for them. They are entitled to their opinion, after all. I, also, need nothing to do with them. Everyone wins :)

  • Yeah, you can say that, but "these hoes ain't loyal."

    The bullshit flows both ways.

    • Sure, I am just responding to the vibe through circles over our instincts to cheat

  • To say that all men cheat is like saying all women are bitches. Neither statement is true.

    • Or are they? The second one HAHA. :D

  • After 30 years with my wife is haven't cheated because I committed to that, but I will say we are animals when it comes down to it. The males in our species are responsible to maintain the species so it does not die. Where do you think the male sex drive comes from its simple survival of the species if the drive to procreate went away so would we same as the female instinct to nurture.

  • Of the couples I know who have had infidelity more women have cheated than men.

    • we always get the 'rep' though

  • Nice take. Nice message. Nice writing skills. Have a " nice " day my nice friend...

    • thank you bhai ji

    • Wow... bhai huh? That means brother if you know...

  • I'm loling at the dumb white girl in that pic. Also, women cheat more than men. They always have orbiters trying to score with them. They know exactly who in their contacts list is thirsty and wants to sleep with them. Women are taught that affairs are fun and exciting. Never trust a woman farther than you can throw her.

    • I think it is equal between the sexes.

  • women cheat more than men

    • I think it is equal

    • nah its about 10% more for women which honestly isn't much a lot of women don't know how to be alone I see all the time, the bible says they are searching for the precious life and they will not find it and it's the truth they will not find it

  • I'll never cheat and never will, have no interest in doing so, if my SO cheats, fine, she can have fun, all her stuff is gone, donated, and locks are switched, HELL YEA!

  • Write a book dude. That vocabulary is spectacular. But now is not the time to confuse me with big words I just want to know do all dudes cheat or not? No offence I really did enjoy reading your post it was just too vague.

    • No, not all guys

  • I have never cheated, and I never would... nice Mytake.

    • all power to you :)

    • Thanks :)

  • All women treat men like shit and mostly deny sex a few years into marriage...

    What do you expect?

    • Do they? i was married 22 years, never found this

    • Unfortunately I can't kick your ass with statistics this time... Mr 44 year old feminist... But most married couples have admitted to being unhappy, and most women have a backup husband. Married, divorced, widowed and remarried men are much less likely to have a heart disease. Women cheat equally and it's just a FEMINAZI myth that men are the cheaters... just like many other myths in feminist society... 50% of marriages end in divorce and it has been shown that women nag husbands to death. Couples argue an average of SEVEN TIMES a day... what do you expect? It's NO SECRET that women are denying men sex left and right, unless they are paying money or doing something else like being cucks.

    • You cheat your own reality, it seems yours is skewed by some disturbing cynicism delving into bitterness

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  • See women throw good men by the wayside I have never had a girl but if I was in a relationship my heart would only be for her.

    • Your time will come