All my friends have had sex and I’m still a virgin:(?
It’s making me feel really upset and depressed and I’m not really sure how to get over it.
I was kind of in a similar position when I was 15/16 a lot of people were saying they've had sex and a lot of them thought they were better people for it, but honestly not sure all of them are saying the truth and honestly doubt all of them had as good a time as they might want their mates to believe. In hind sight I think Im probably getting far more sex than a lot of my friends who did stuff before me, so just because you didn't throw yourself in front of the first dick that came along I wouldn't worry about it. Honestly Id be pretty happy if I was you because having sex for the sake of having sex although right now might seem like a great thing, its really not that big of a deal. Try and find the right guy and have a good time with him when it seems right and enjoy it
Probably one of the worst reasons to lose your virginity is due to peer pressure or so you can fit in. Be sure you are really ready and with the right person.
Well that depends on the kind of friends you hang out with and whether their stories about their sex lives are even true. When I was in high school I hung out with the conservative and religious hindus and sikhs and 98% of my friends were virgins. We were the social misfits but we preserved our virginities and most of us are married now - I'm not.
First of all I feel your pain because you feel alone but let me tell you that you are not alone. I waited until I was ready and 18 and don’t regret it. Most of my friends at the time had already done it but it’s so important that you have the right partner that you love not just fling. I think you should be proud. Trust your instincts
Please stay like that for someone who worths it. The chances are that your friend are mostly cheap and easy for doing it that quickly and soon.
Please sweetie stay like that and don't ever do it because of pressure /: it'll show in the future your good morals as well.
I agree with this girl
It's really not that big of a deal. If anything it's better you're still a virgin because you seem less whorish. Not fitting into a conversation is way better than trying to deal with a teenage pregnancy. It doesn't hurt to wait.
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Chill out. Most of your friends are probably lying, and even if they're not who gives a fuck?
You should have sex with someone because YOU want to, not because your friends are supposedly having sex with people.
"Would you jump in front of a train if your friends were doing it?"
YOU'RE 16!! Dont act like you will never again find a guy you can sleep with.
My fkn car is older than you.
It happens when it happens. But I suspect most of your friends might not have been all the way either. But find it hard to admit it. Don't get any hang ups about it. Everyone matures differently.
Im still a virgin, and my friends do the same thing! I see it as a good thing because i have learn many “tips” and “tricks” to sex. So just try to pick up pointers from their conversations.
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No problem at all.
You don't need to worry about it. I have this article. It is old but can help you to think positively about yourself.
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...-16--twice-mothers.html
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I think you know there is always going to be another opportunity for sex, guys just never gave girls a break, the only thing is will it be a guy of worth or some asshole that just wants to stick his dick in anything. Hopefully the ones you turned down was those types and you held out for a good one. So don’t feel bad you probably did the best thing.
Don't rush into it just because you want something to add to the conversation. But if you are so ready for it, and have a guy in mind, then go for it! It is a whole new level of awesome... just make sure to use protection!
There's nothing wrong about waiting.
dude you're 16... life is not about getting fucked as soon as possible xD quality over quantity.
Oh. My. Fucking. God. You are fucking 16 brugh. You don't need to have goddamn sex. Just, hold off. HOLD OFF!
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin I stayed a virgin up in to my twenty's you don't want to be pregnant at sixteen year's old.
Wait until you are with someone you are totally comfortable with. There is no time pressure, just ignore the others, everyone goes through this. There is pretty much always someone in your groupof friends who will brag about doing something first
I still haven't had sex yet. It'll happen when it happens
I m a virgin and all my friends are not virgin... I don't have any problem..
Stay a virgin until you find someone you really like, than have fun. No big deal don't rush
You shouldn't feel upset about not being able to fit in. Just use their conversations like a review to something you should look forward to. That way, your first sex would feel that much better.
If you really can't hold it then maybe ask the guy that you have done 'everything else' with to take away your virginity?
But if anything else, sex should be done with the person you are really in love with or at least that person you are lusting over to enjoy it to the fullest.
Must be a hard life
I lost my virginity at 18. Don't sweat it, just do it whenever you feel ready. And don't rush it, you'll likely remember your first time for your entire life.
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