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Guys, All of a sudden pulls out?

So I been with my boyfriend 4 months now. He always cums inside me as I have long term birth control. He FINALLY told me he loves me and I said it back. First time ever he pulls out and cums all over my stomach. I said you don't trust me anymore. He says he just wanted to try something different and see. I said that's BS and he's changed. I said I like the bond when I feel him inside so he then went and did it to make me happy. Days before we had been having sex and he didn't cum at all, I thought there's something wrong. Do you think something changed when he said he loves me? Or am I imagining it? Does he really no longer trust me now for some reason? Men LOVE not having to pull out. My ex NEVER DID. Have you ever had something happen with a girl and no longer wanted to come inside?
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  • That's a bit of an overreaction to me. If anything telling him his response is BS is going to change your relationship more than anything else.

    Did you ever communicate TO him that you like it when he finishes in you and what it means to you? Or are you just making assumptions and carrying expectations without talking to him.

    • I explained it means a special bond and it's something I only share with him and that's when he said he will never do it again. Sounds like I over reacted? Thanks for the opinion It gave me clarity with what you said!

    • Overreaction if you jumped on him without having explained what it meant to you BEFORE he'd done that. If you'd never talked with him about it before he'd pulled out, then it's kinda unreasonable to be angry with him.

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  • Maybe it has nothing to do with you and more to do with him? You are questioning him a lot and maybe that makes it harder to open up with how he feels and thinks and it can be something completely different than you think it is. Either that or you are reading too much into it. Those are my guesses but you should talk with him and let him talk without putting words into his mouth and hopefully he says the truth. Not much else to do.

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  • You need to sit him down have a heart to heart you won't get answered to satisfy you Some will say yes others will say no It won't make you or learn his truth The only way is to talk

  • No he’s more comfortable with you now and a guy like to cum different ways on stomach , your pussy , butt, and tits it’s a huge turn on to squirt cum on a women you should enjoy the fact that you made him cum like that no one else just you he wanted

    • Thanks. He hasn't done it since. He realised i don't like cum everywhere and he should have asked first, he assumed i like cum on face and everywhere and tried to shove ut in my bum and realised he needs to ask first because i don't like that stuff and im not some doll he can just do what he pleases with.

  • Not in my lifetime!

  • He wanted to try to something and you ruined it. I blame you here.

    • He never asked. Like when he tried to go anal which is more painful than giving birth. Men never seem to care what the woman wants, they just do whatever

    • You shouldn't generalise this but some men are like that. Personally, I'm not into anal. So, I never understand why a man would want anal sex. But I don't think wanting to cum on your stomach is being selfish. He has already cummed how you like a lot of times and according to you, he did it once. Let's say I like cumming on tits and if I do it first time, does it make me a selfish person? I've already made her have orgasm, fucked her in her positions and eaten her pussy and tits etc. But I cummed on her tits for a change. Am I being selfish?

  • You're imagining it. He probably saw or heard from someone else about coming on the stomach instead of inside and wanted to try it.

  • Yes, I have had something happen with a woman that made me think about things differently and raised concerns in my mind about what my future might look like if she were to get pregnant. It became a psychological barrier that made it difficult for me to cum if I was inside her. I ended up breaking up with her eventually.

  • If it was a one time occurrence, I wouldn't worry about it. He's probably telling the truth about trying something new. If there's a pattern of him pulling out, then maybe he got pregnancy anxiety or something. I agree with you though about bonding and there are studies that show that women who regularly take semen in their vaginas are happier.

  • Back in my 20's and 30's when I used to do this, I either had intercourse and came inside them every time ... or I didn't have intercourse with them at all and just did other sexual things. But nothing ever happened to cause me to have intercourse but not cum inside them.

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