Sexual Relationships 
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Aphorism to boost your game: “Every girl is a slut.”
It’s a truism among players, and it’s one I struggled with. Yet girls aren’t all the same. Some will have sex with you at a moment’s notice, and others will tell you they’re saving it for marriage.
Properly understood however, “every girl is a slut” is valuable because it makes your game better. It’s a tactical assumption, something that you assume to be true to improve your strategy, even if you think it will be false most of the time.
Over the past month, I slept with several new girls – girls I saw once or twice. That was it, I doubt I’ll ever get to sleep with any of them again. We had met for a date in each case, and then proceeded to have sex on the first date, or in one case, a second date. When I tried to push it beyond a second date, only a couple were interested.
One girl claimed she ‘could not commit to anything right now’ when I never claimed to want anything more than sex. Another girl was casually dating another man, and chose to stick with him. One worked too much and lived with her parents to make it a regular deal.
One was interested in something more serious, but I wasn’t. One said we were going different ways. These girls were like cold beads of water coursing through my fingers – refreshing, but I’d be a fool to try and hold on to them. Better to enjoy them for the brief moment I have them laid away in my lair.
Even if a girl likes you
there’s no guarantee that she will see you again. Maybe she’ll end up fucking some guy on her next night out. Or her workload doubles and decides she doesn’t have time for any ‘commitments’ right now. It sounds like she is only temporarily rejecting you – after all, you had a good time together. From experience though, know you will never see her again. In the mind of a woman, sex should be effortless – if she has to overcome what she calls ‘fate,’ aka that loss of momentum and time apart, her pussy will dry up and she will lazily opt out. Especially if she’s a slut.
As a man, dating is an investment whose minimum return is sex. Other things matter, but they’re meaningless without sex – and then you’re just platonic friends. Some ‘investments’ won’t pan out – you go on a date or two with the girl yet you never fuck. And others, you’ll have sex with nothing more than a round of beers and a floor mattress. By pushing for sex early and often, your returns come in quicker, and you invest less on girls that never pan out.
When you act as if every girl is a slut, she may assume you ‘do this with every girl.’ While that sounds counter-productive, in her mind she ‘won’t be a slut’ for sleeping with you, because so many girls have done so before her. Sheep see safety in the herd.
You will take every step to maximize the likelihood of having sex quickly. You toss out all those dating conventions – all that matters is if they help you get laid or not. Maybe you even like the girl – no matter.
SO ONTO THE MAIN EVENT. STEPS TO PUT IN PLACE TO GET YOU LAID:
1. Always structure dates so that you can get laid.
Set the date near her house or yours, preferably yours – girls can be skittish about letting you in to their house on a first date. Do not meet in the middle.
2.Assume she’s already fucking other men
No attractive girl is ever truly single or alone. There are always men just a text away, and sometimes less. When you assume that she is already fucking other men, or is about to, you realize time is of the essence – as the tacky infomercials go, “You must act now!” Dawdle, and you’ll end up in the friend zone or as a dead phone number. When a girl is sleeping with someone, she becomes markedly less attentive to other men.
This dynamic is even obvious among female coworkers – when girls are openly distant in greeting me, I know it’s because she’s already fucking someone and she feels little need to talk up other eligible men. Even though she’d never consider fucking me anyway, her steady dose of dick imbues her everyday behavior and makes her distant with other men. If a girl is already sleeping with someone, you’ll have to leverage all of your pull on her to get anywhere. Even if this assumption were false, the end result is you get sex or rejection quicker – more return or less investment, a win in either case.
3.If she’s being flaky, she’s already fucking someone.
Women crave sex. Once they start having it, they will not want to go without it for long. If she isn’t getting it from a boyfriend, she’s getting it from someone else, even as she’s going on dates with you.
4. Don't be too agressive
Be aware that you could turn her off if you’re too aggressive. If you proceed carefully enough, this shouldn’t be an issue. Even so, you have to ask yourself if this girl is so special that you’d be willing to put in time to get with her – if you can’t say yes to that, her rejection is a blessing – she’s keeping you from wasting more of your time and money in a failed prospect. Even so-called nice girls, who are not sluts, can be very forgiving of an aggressive man, provided you show some enduring interest in her as a person. They secretly respect men who pursue boldly.
4. SEX IS WHAT GETS YOU ON THE RADAR
woman who’s got several sexual partners in her past, and dozens of suitors lining up in the present, you’re not remotely in her reality until you fuck her. She will not think twice about never talking to you again until you’ve had sex, and maybe not even then. We live in a Slut Culture where sex means nothing, an amicable date even less. Every time you see a woman, you cannot be certain you will see her again… imagine every night with her is your last.
AND FOR GOD SAKES
What Girls & Guys Said
10 17Until people realize this, they don't realize it.
and at the same time make her feel totally unjudged and free to act sexually. they just adore guys like us.
you are still quite prejudiced and low level though. you think to much and have biases about them.
This alpha male shit is becoming very very annoying
I actually have to admit, this does work. I had a lot of success with it in Europe a few years ago.
That said, I'm not going to treat a woman like this if I want a relationship.
Thank you very much. I enjoy being a "beta male"... I find it better to say and act however I want rather than having to worry what's alpha and what's not.
Alpha males actually say and act what they feel like. Hence, why women are turned on by them. They aren't afraid to call a girl out on her BS, and tease her. Judging by so many males on this site they exemplify beta males behavior of being too afraid to say what they mean and try to win girls over by being sub servant to them. just look at some of these mytakes bashing men. More than 1/2 of you agree with it and apologize like little sub servant puppy dogs who got called out by your master. While when a critism made by women is meant with contempt, shaming and outright rejection.
How bout this? Fuck off you stupid jerwad with your "alpha male" bullshit. I swear this fad is like the goddamn Loch Ness monster, it's a myth, it doesn't work, no self respecting women in her right mind would ever fuck some insecure little boy acting all macho like "chyah brah I hit dat pussy er night and that's why Ima alpha yo pussy betas can't hit none." That's not attractive in the slightest. Grow up. So there I spoke my mind honestly and I told a bitch to shut up when I was tired of his bs. Makes ME the fuckin alpha you pussy😜🖕🏼
@Notreallyhere Lol. Beta males also have a tendency to lash out or act passive agressive towards alpha males. (Possibly due to their own insecurities and their view on the world being challenge) Which you just did. I'm pretty sure in a next mytake/question you'll be kissing/praising a girls ass off and won't even dare to talk to her the way you spoke to men. (Now tip your fedora).
Whatever, at least your entertaining me. So "alpha" you gitcha some cunt today? You fuck enough bitches to satisfy all those manly urges. Oh yeah I bet your just so sexy and they couldnt resist your huge cock you big stud muffin;) lmao who are you trying to fool? Do you think the Internet gives a fuck about your "alpha male advice"? No, because it's the fastest road to loneliness there is. You think guys who repeatedly treat women like sluts and objects are happy? You think they're lives are made whole by the sheer amount of sex they get? There's no love, there's no loyalty. And there's no responsibility. If you're stupid enough to follow this idiots advice, you are cheapening what sex could really be if you bothered to build a relationship with someone, deeper than seeing them as just a piece of meat. I feel sorry for ignorant pricks like you trolling up the Internet.
@Notreallyhere This advice was to help guys who apparently on this site are clueless. So many of them are +1 takes that bash male, pan up to girls and lash out at other. All the while adhering to some philosophy that being a girl's bitch will get them laid.
@Notreallyhere Hey who once to remain in the dark can.
If you want to continue being the guy who sends girls dozen of flowers and write takes like this for positive validation from female.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a26269-all-ladies-are-naturally-attractive-provided-they-abide-by-natures
https://youtu.be/eRCNeBjrFuc
While she's off fucking the guy who doesn't pander up to her and actual has balls. Then that's fine too.
https://i.imgur.com/S50cQgn.png
You are delusional. just because some women want a man to be in charge does not mean that she wants to be treated like a slut. Sure, confidence is attractive, but I know that it also applies to girls. Guys like a guy who is confident too. It shows they are stable, and comfortable in their own skin. If you want sex, sure you'll find that all day long with girls who just wanna fuck. But if you want a girl to think of you as any more than just a dick, then you have to be (you guessed it) MORE THAN JUST A DICK