Am I a bad person for breaking up with my boyfriend because he was bad at sex?

yeah pretty bad too
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  • No, but that being said you could have taught him if he otherwise was good.

  • Nope not at all.. i have done it with women before. They refused to work on it so i moved on

    • Most women suck in bed.

    • @KrakenAttackin not all.. i have had some wild ones...

  • no... you can break up with someone for whatever reason you want. No reason to stay together if you aren't happy

  • You are dumb.

    "The quality of sex was in you all along".

    If the rest of the relationship was fine, gosh, I have bad news.

  • No maybe a little slutty but no not a bad person

  • was it entirely his fault or are u bad in bed too?

  • Not a bad person. But your boyfriend is lucky for getting rid of someone with fake love

  • More info is needed to answer this honestly. Did you discuss it with him and was he willing to work on it with you? (if not, and many women don't, you should have done that because everyone is different, especially women lol, so you have to let him know what you like and don't like sexually. And/or depending on his age and experience, needs to learn also, just like YOU have to learn what he likes and doesn't like, "good/great sex" doesn't just happen usually, it BECOMES that way as you get to know each other, but that requires communication, which is often lacking). But... if you tried that and he was unwilling to listen/learn (ie selfish), then that's a different thing and then yes you absolutely did the right thing because it'll be a huge issue in the relationship, and probably end it regardless eventually.

  • wow that's fucked up. did you ever use your tiny wee brain to maybe oh i don't know COMMUNICATE with him so you both enjoy the experience together more and better

  • Do you care?

  • It's not bad if he was unwilling to learn it's only bad if you expect him to automatically know everything first try but then those guys are more likely to give you an incurable disease

    If you don't want sex with someone that's more like a brother than a boyfriend so it's a good idea to let them loose and find somebody more compatible