Am I a bad person for masturbating to my girlfriends best friend? Am I cheating on my girlfriend by doing this?

I would never do anything with her but she is really hot to me. I can't control myself in terms of me being attracted to her. I masturbate to her and when I cum, I immediately regret doing that.
This is cheating
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It's normal
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  • Its one of those bad but pretty common things. Reality is that in many cases our nest friends are a lot like us. I could probably claim that each of my close friends are in some regards strikingly similar to me. A person being into me also being into a different version of me makes sense. It doesn't mean that I feel good about it. It is however very understandable.

    But well. If you feel it makes you bad, it does. Honestly if all it is and all you want it to be is masturbating then I don't see why you can't just keep it to yourself and everyone is fine. I don't go sharing every bad thought I have either. Sex related or otherwise.

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  • If you LOVE your girlfriend - real love that is - you'll only jack it to her.
    However, if you are not there yet, it's normal to jack it to whoever entices you including your girlfriend's BFF.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Awee that’s messed up lol masturbating on porn n all it’s fine but to her bestfriend that’s not cools. Then purposely not having sex wit ur girl to masturbate to her bestfriend. I mean it’s not physically cheating but the thought is still messed up lol

    • I know and it honestly feels better to the idea of this fantasy than any porn or anything for me.

    • Would ur girl like a three some but yea I never heard anyone being so attracted to someone but same time she would be offended or like hurt lamo

    • She is very jealous so no. We were on a date and a waitress put her hand on me and said "I'll be right back." She snapped and said "do you realize I'm here also?" It was a big scene and I wanted to leave because it was packed and people stared at us

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  • OH GOD. I feel bad for your girlfriend. She will never know about all this😕
    I hope you say her best friend's name while you f her and she takes a flower pot and hit your pee pee and destroy your babymaker😊

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Technically, It's only cheating once you get past the looking stage.

  • Thats only temptation but id consider it cheating.. how do you know that? Quit lying to yourself and her.

  • all guys do this

    and i'm sure my friends bfs do it to me

  • If you masturbated on her then it would be a problem.

    • LOL 🤣🤣🤣

  • It's weird af but not cheating. just don't say it... friendly advice haha

  • Think about how she would feel if she found out

  • Yeah..

  • Wow the gender disparity is big here

  • Honestly as a female I’d hope you fell some shame.
    You should appreciate your girlfriend more. Anytime you have someone in your life who loves you it’s a privilege.

  • Sadly a lot of people have done this..

    • I'd freek out if I found out

    • Well those people suck

    • I am quite surprised at this, I would have thought more women do it. I know some women that get turned on by the sight of their naked bfs...

  • It would be weirder if you didn't...

  • No that's terrible
    And the fact that most guys think that it's okay sucks too

  • Cheating means you're actually doing something with this person, not fantasizing.
    As long as you keep this in the fantasy realm, there is nothing to feel guilty over it. Just keep it to yourself.

  • I don't know. Everyone masturbates to porn, so it's kind of the same thing. Maybe ask her if it's OK for you to masturbate to other people.

  • Just don’t ever tell anyone you know. It’ll get out for sure and that’s it for relationship

  • I thinking a shitty thing to do

  • It's fine.