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Am I a bad person?

Okay so i think that's now how, i should feel, but i am feeling this and i can't help it

So i am in relationship with a guy from four years and he kinda knows everything about me and i like him a lot we were getting some drinks with friends and a guy said something sexually wrong to me that he wasn't supposed to say in result my boyfriend got angry hearing it and eventually he said some harsh words and it changed into a fight that made both of them injured

I should'nt be happy but i am feeling that he stood up for me and he values me a lot, i Just can't help, i am feeling too much good that the bruises he got only for me

I am so happy that a guy fought for me, it feels so much nice does that make me a bad person?
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  • Unfortunately this is a lot more common than it should be. The feeling of "feeling important" in many women is much more important than the physical safety of their partners.

    It can be evolutionary as such a behaviour ensured that her man is a protector. However, if you are to look at the major entertainment of today (from music videos to movies), you will see such an act is often portrayed towards love, like i can die for you and stuff.

    As for liking/hating it, you can't really deny your instincts. Even if you were to rationalise the morality of such an act, you won't be able to fool your instincts, your primal emotions

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  • It doesn't make you a bad person. There's a crazy person who lives nearby and almost attacked my girlfriend and me when we were walking my dog (I didn't know he was crazy, just antisocial). When my dog pooped near his yard (he doesn't own the street side of his lawn. The sidewalk is the property line.) He tried to attack us. I rushed my girlfriend away and made sure that if he attacked us I would be in the line of fire first. He did throw her poop at us and called the cops. The cop said he's a bit crazy, we did nothing wrong, and if possible we should try to avoid walking past his house, luckily we can.

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  • I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person, I think most people would be happy their boyfriend or husband defended their honour, as they should.

  • Wow, I can’t imagine that happening. If two people are physically fighting, one of them has assaulted the other. That won’t be me.

  • No, it doesn't. The other guy "fired the first shot" and got what he deserved.

  • A (new) neighbour said so this week.
    Who cares.

  • no..

  • It feels good if someone stands up for you like that, anyone would feel that way. But, I don't agree with violence, and I think some women almost "expect" their man or men to be this way towards them, which I don't think is right. Like in that situation, it should've never got to the point of physical violence.

    • I agree, physival violence should'nt be involved but it's just got out of my hands and the other guy also like lost his mind

  • So you're happy your boyfriend is injured. Wow! And people wonder why I choose being single. His health comes second to her happiness to her. Smh

    • It makes me sad that he is injured and i took care of his health i am just feeling happy because he stood up for me

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