Am I a cheater if I have sex with another girl after she told me she doesn't want me twice?

A girl that i was with her for a month but now she left to another city for work and studies and she will come back but she said she doesn't want a relationship with me because she isn't fully healed of her ex and also the distance.. i asked her she said if it wasn't for the distance i would try it with u for sure. Then after 2 weeks when she was leaving i asked again and she said i am not fully healed of my ex yet.. i should had told u that and if it wasn't for that i would try it with u.. soo she said 2 times now but she wants me like crazy and we talk all day everyday like we are in a relationship but without the table of boyfriend girlfriend
Anyway.. if i have sex with other girls am i the bad guy? or cheater or something? I mean i asked her for a relationship twicr and she said no.. i dont think its my fault if she push me away.. what do you think guys?
Updates:
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The girl is coming back next months for 2 weeks but i already slept with another girl.. how i drop the new girl now without hurting her because i really wanna stay those 2 weeks with this long distance girl.. i would leave any girl for her..
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  • Your okay. She said no, she doesn’t want a relationship, so you are free to be with who you want. Liking someone doesn’t equate to being in a relationship with them.

  • I'd forget her. She's not ready for a relationship, and you can get other girls anyway. Cut her off, because LDR are not worth it anyway. I say stay out of committed relationships. Feel free to keep dating, but until you've got your life together, don't even consider a relationship.

  • I think u are not

  • That’s kind of rape sir

    • Hahaha 😁😁 better learn reading 😉

  • She sounds like a neurotic entitled cunt.

    And no it's not cheating if she refuses to have sex with you.

    • She refuse to be with me in relationship.

  • You can not cheat on her since you two are not in a relationship with each other, engaged to each other or married to each other.

    • Has this wonan you have been wanting to be with said she wants to be in a relationship with you and is ready emotionally and mentally? You are confusing because you sleep around in hopes to forget about her but want her when she comes into town.

  • Of course not since men can't cheat. Men can have sex, but they can't cheat. Only women can cheat. A woman does the ultimate cheat when she lets her partner believe the baby she had with another man is his baby. No man has ever convinced his partner that a baby he sired with another woman is her baby.

    • This is some seriously sexist shi*, if i didn't know any better id say you were an incel

    • @SherryBomb It the truth annoys you, that is your problem, not mine. You cannot point to a single example of a woman that though another woman's baby was her baby. However, that happens to men 7 to 30 percent depending on the surveys or data that was used.

    • What annoys me isn't that, but where you say men can't cheat, they do equally as much as women

  • Since you aren't official or exclusive, it's not technically cheating.

  • Not only are you a cheater you are a rapist as well, if a girl tell you she doesn't want you that means no and you had sex with anyway that is rape

    • No, thats not what happened, the girl he likes turned down a relationship with him twice, and so he slept with someone else

    • Thats not what he wrote

    • "Anyway.. if i have sex with OTHER girls am i the bad guy? or cheater or something? I mean i asked her for a relationship twicr and she said no.." You sure that you read the post carefully, lol

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  • Are you in a relationship?

    You cannot be a cheater if you are not in one

  • No it's called be moving on

  • She’s wasting your time man so you should just move on and you wouldn’t be cheating since you’re not in a relationship

  • Mesh you are not shouldn't even take this in consideration be free she anyways seems like a very undecided person

  • She's attached to another guy
    No harm if you do stuff with other girls

  • She probably only likes the company you provide, therefore, she's not necessarily looking to be with you or she probably feels like she can't commit to you. She sounds like she's playing games a bit. It's not cheating if you two have not established a romantic relationship of some sort.

  • no it's not cheating but I can understand why you felt bad about it

    • Because we talk everyday like we are couple... and we will meet again when she comes

  • There’s no commitment (a relationship) and she has refused twice that she isn’t interested in a relationship because she is still healing.
    So, to answer your question. No, that isn’t cheating in any shape or form.

    • Why i feel bad tho?

    • Maybe you really like this girl and that's why you feel bad?