Am I A Loser For Not Having Had Intercourse For More Than 25 Years?

I haven't experienced any penetrative sex with a woman for more than twenty five years, but oddly, I'm happier than I've ever been. Still, I can't help but feel like a loser, and for some reason, I find it tremendously exciting when people -- especially attractive women -- laugh at me and ridicule me for being celibate for such a long period of time.

Guys And Ladies, Is Not Getting Any Pussy Sometimes Even Better Than Getting It?

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No, But I Still Think You're A Loser Anyway
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  • Well, you know where I sit on that topic alone, but even if I saw things usually, I still wouldn't count that alone as being evidence, and it still wouldn't matter that much on it's own. It starts to matter as a symptom of larger social/mental problems. Maybe you're just ugly, maybe they don't wanna fuck an ugly dude-- but socially everybody otherwise loves you-- I'd call that not an actual problem or even maybe HER problem. If you're an awkward motherfucker who doesn't smile much and has no friends, than I'd call it a symptom of a larger problem. Of course, nature works completely bass ackwards from it's own programming somehow, and those of us who need the most get the least, completely antithetically from efficiency and continuation-- the very two things literally EVERY LIVING ORGANISM SURVIVES BY! Well, for whatever reason we started doin' the exact opposite at some point, and now just look at the state of everything everywhere. We don't have long left, and the rock we crawl on won't last TOO MUCH longer than US.

    • Yes, Sir, thank you very much.

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  • If you're happy then you're winning.

    I mean think about it... plenty of men out there have ruined themselves chasing pussy. I'm not just talking about the ones that get drained financially or catch a false allegation or two. There are tons of men out there stuck and/or trapped in a 'relationship' where he's just getting hen-pecked all damn day and putting up with shit I'd never be able to deal with.

    So you basically get to do whatever the fuck you want to do without getting nagged, hen pecked, and turned into an emotional tampon. If you want to grab a few too many beers, you don't have a woman there bitching at you for not doing the dishes or making more money for her instead. Money too... you get to do what you want with it.

    Plus who is going to judge you as a loser when they're not there to judge you?

    You could literally just buy this...

    Am I A Loser For Not Having Had Intercourse For More Than 25 Years?

    ... and you'll be fucking more than some married guys!

    • Is that a blow up doll?

    • @Jennz6 Sort of. They call them "RealDolls" and I think they're made out of silicone complete with a metal skeleton. I would post a link, but I don't want this site to think I'm posting links to porn sites. I'd say to search it though and just take a gander at them... some look real depending on the model.

    • Gotcha

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  • I voted yes, but in reality that's just one of a number of factors that contributes toward your loserhood. The fact that you are content being a loser makes you more of a loser than that does.

    • Thank you so much for your astonishingly accurate assessment of my worthlessness. I appreciate your candor.

  • You are a weirdo Billy boy! Not sure what else to say 😂

    • Yes, ma'am, but what I am really doesn't matter very much -- as long as I'm successful in pleasing the woman who owns me and who dominates that ass❤️

    • What if she gives you herpes? 😂

    • I've never caught anything from any of the women whom I've served, nor from their lovers.

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  • No not a loser. It is a choice. if you really wanted to sleep with someone.. there are ways.
    But not sure why you find it exciting to be laughed at.

  • Well... Given that such incidents can lead to court battles and utter humiliation, as well as serious trouble with the law, I think You might actually be the winner.

  • Nah, your 60 years old. 25 years ago, you were 35. I am 47 now, had sex last 2 months ago... and honestly women put you through so much ass pain. I am at the point that dating is low on my priority list. Because if sex = dating that = happiness.

    I mean I am just happy not having to date, even if it means no sex. The time and effort required to achieve sex, makes it not worth it at my age. I think my hormones are slowing, and honestly it's a huge relief.

    I have had plenty of sex in my life, at this point it's about the person and the pussy. In saying that, I have to admit I am probably just and asshole, because the shit people do to other people... just makes you into an asshole.

    • Well said, Sir.

  • Someone's sex life (or lack thereof) doesn't make someone a loser or not. That's just one aspect of life, and it's a relatively trivial one apart from the role in the preservation of the species. You are a loser for a host of other reasons.

    • Yes, Sir, thank you very much for your opinion about this.

  • Does it make you happy if I say you are a loser? If so, you are totally!

    • Yes, Sir, thank you very much.

  • No, I don't think you're a loser because of that. There are more important things in life.

  • No, you aren't a loser. It's going on about 10 years for me since I last had sex, but that's only because I don't do hook ups and would prefer a meaningful relationship, which I'm hoping I'm in right now with my boyfriend so we can get the deed done. lol

  • So you want to read comments about you being a loser while you jack off?

    • That's obvious

    • @Jennifer604 absolutely 💯 obvious

  • you can label yourself.

    you are losing out on life's opportunities for growth and adventure. Like the military says..."It's not just a job, it's an adventure". You grow emotionally when challenged emotionally, which is what a relationship would be.

    Those probably come with some discomfort and you'd rather feel the safety and security of what you know.

    The Sx is irrelevant...

    Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It's your life and as Sinatra sang..."I did it MY WAY!!!". He was married...

    • and that was kinda selfish answer. You also have limited the opportunities for personal discovery of your respective woman. It's life... part of life.

  • I told you to go dating! But noooooo you don’t listen.

    • Yes, ma'am, I know you did, and I appreciate your kindness more than you know. But we both know that this ongoing frustration is better, more fulfilling and soul cleansing than anything else I could ever ask for. Yes, it's torturous at times, but I wouldn't give it up for anything 🤗

    • See you in the DMs 😆😆 I will set up a dating profile for you.

  • Of course you are a loser 🫵😂🫵

    • Yes, ma'am, thank you very much. I know I'm not worthy even to kiss your luscious feet.

    • Both choices indicate that he's a loser. The question is whether the lack of intercourse is a major factor.

    • @LazyDork the only thing he doesn't lose at is being aware of being a total beta loser with a microdick

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  • There was no third option about you not being a loser, so I didn't vote.

    Having intercourse has no bearing on your happiness nor does it dictate whether the person is a loser.

    It's been awhile for me too (not 25 years) but I am quite content.

  • Of course you are not unless you want to get married and have children. Otherwise, what value is intercourse?

    • @billlewis are you going to tell her or should I?

    • Yes, ma'am, you're absolutely right. How could I even imagine being masculine enough to copulate with any woman, even for physical intimacy, much less for procreative purposes? To even fleetingly have such blasphemous fantasies would be farcical.

    • @FatNeville What would you like me to tell her, Sir?

  • You're not a loser. There's nothing wrong about being celibate. I know a few men who also are celibate. Don't fall for society's pressures

  • Yeaaaa don't mention u haven't had sex in 25 years. Try looking more assertive and attractive ( new hairstyle, fragrance, beard, clothing style) you said ur happy that's good. Don't talk all technical be simple and sweet

  • If you haven't had sex for that long would you consider a sex doll?

    • My typical sexual relationship with a woman nowadays is to masturbate while I'm performing anilingus for her or kissing her feet.

  • Well, Bill, getting pussy sometimes comes with strings attached, and being string less, sometimes is it's own reward... I ate her pussy on New Years Eve to a fricking screaming orgasm and she didn't even say thank you. Like a slap in the face, but... it WAS FUN!

  • OMG hahahaha 😂

  • No bro, I am Ahead of you at age 28, If I love my virginity will let you know..☺️👍

    • I'm sure you will love it

    • @Jennifer604 hmm.. 1) If I lose* my virginity. 2) I am gonna go a few web pages away *thinking* *OMG a girl noticed this, 🥺No!!😰I am gonna die😵 of Embarrassment 😵*

  • Absolutely old man

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