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Am I a slut for wanting DP?

So I’ve always fantasised about DP (double penetration) and having it with two guys. Does this make me a slut or is this a more common fantasy than I realise?
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  • I would never say it makes you a slut... but there is a large percentage of men that would never be interested in threesomes. So you are setting a higher bar as far as it goes for finding a truly faithful man. But if your are not interested in monogamous relationships then there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are upfront and honest with any man you get involved with from the start.

    Your not slut as long as you tell the guy at the very beginning that you enjoy and want threesomes. If he okay with that then your not a slut. Its when a women or man gets seriously involved with a person in a long term relationship then after a few weeks or months or years... finally comes out with their desire for a three some. Well under those circumstances then I would think you were a slut. Because you basically misrepresented yourself or lied to me by omission. Which is never good.

    I would never have a threesome with someone I was emotionally involved with, because honestly you never think or view the other person the same after.

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  • No that’s not sweetty at all it’s called being human in what you want if it’s what you want then you get it done. I have done that for my girlfriend before I was married she’s she said I have like like the you know kind of things she would never come out and say it but I got to her to open her mind and after that we did all kinds of things that you can imagine and you can’t ever forget it and you were always want so why would you ever want something like that and go without only hurting your own self do you

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  • Am I a slut for wanting DP?

    I watched an interview with Carol Cox. She was asked a lot of questions, and the dp thing came up. She said that it's the most amazing sex she's ever had, and recommended that all women try it at least once.

    I think this is a very common fantasy for women who can do anal. (some of us can't)

    But the "slut" thing is a completely different thing. It's a useless term, because everyone gets to make up their own definition. I know a woman who's own husband called her a slut and whore, just because she wanted to try oral sex with him.

  • It's not even just a fantasy.

    I wrote about my first time to do it on the largest erotic website with over 45,000 views to date and 4.57 out of 5 stars with a viewer rating of "HOT"!

    It was a great experience I will never forget!

    You might love it Ms SM.

    • You really posted it online for people to read?

    • @tom_the_dating_snob Yes, why not? It's an erotic true story

    • Can anyone read it?

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  • Slut or not is unimportant, I've kind of wanted to try that myself and I don't like Anal, how's that for freaking weird?

    • Would you still count it as DP if you had one vaginally and one orally? Some women can even do two vaginally if you wanted to try either of those.

    • @Godsvengeance
      A cock in one woman’s pussy and another cock in her mouth at the same time would be “spit roasting.”

      www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spit+roast

      2 cocks (or cock & object, or 2 objects) in a pussy would be “dvp” (double vaginal penetration).

    • @Gagname you are getting more specific. They are all double penetration but different types of doing it. There's spit roasting as you pointed out, "traditional" which would be one in pussy one in ass, dvp which is both in pussy, dap which is double anal, and also two in the mouth and one mouth one ass (not sure of their names)

  • If you didn't somewhat think that you might be a slut, why are you asking the question? You and Mr. Spock would get along great.

    OR ONE DOUBLE PENETRATION
    OR ONE DOUBLE PENETRATION

    • Gee, double eyelids AND two dicks. Vulcans have it made in the shade.

    • @exitseven Good one.

  • It's a very common fantasy. I thunk actually doing it, not just fantasizing about it, would be considered slutty. But... Who really cares? I've done it a lot and I'm happy to say I'm a "slut" and feel zero guilt lol. Being a slut isn't such a bad thing nowadays anyways. MANY men prefer to date girls that are sluts anyways.

  • You want one in your mouth and one in your pussy, or one in your ass and one in your pussy? Have you ever had DP with one guy and a vibrator?

  • No you aren't! In porn it always looks so much fun. Just be ready lol I was also curious about DP I gave it a few tries and realized that it wasn't for me. But I can say I gave it an honest chance.

    • I'm hoping this gets MHO. I really appreciate the "you don't know until you try it" mentality. I hate it when people say they don't like things that they haven't tried, instead of just saying that they aren't interested in it.

    • @livandlearn Why is this not for you? What did you think?

  • Everyone has different fantasies and kinks, nothing wrong with them.

    some only ever have them as a fantasy, some actually go for it and live them out,

    it really depends if you want to go for it?

  • I think this is a common thing.

  • Hot hot hot! no not slutty, nothing wrong with wanting to try that.
    its one of the main reasons my girlfriend wanted to try a threesome.
    i was part of the dp and have to say it’s just as fun for the guy as it is pleasurable for the girl

  • Absolutely not... only people that cheat on their partners are sluts.

  • Well, it is just a thought so it doesn’t make you a slut. Even if you did it, everyone has their own kinks and definition of the word slut. You do you. I want to have two guys with me too. One in my mouth and another one in my pussy while riding him in cowgirl position.

    • Awesome opinion, every bit of it!

    • @stormmistress I wanted to expound upon my compliment about @desidoll’s opinion—see my analysis of her opinion below.. 1. Fantasizing is just about thoughts, and it isn’t DOING anything sexual—so like desidoll said: “[fantasizing about DP] doesn’t make you a slut.” 2. I totally agree with desidoll saying “everyone has their own kinks and definition of the word slut.”…So you asking “Am I a slut for wanting DP?” is going to give you many different opinions, about what being a “slut” means to each different person. 3. “You do you.”…This is good advice from desidoll — don’t worry about what everyone else thinks, and what you should “call” what you like and do; but instead, you should be comfortable in what you like and do when it comes to sexual thoughts & actions. 4. desidoll saying she “want[s] to have two guys with me too. One in my mouth and another one in my pussy while riding him in cowgirl position” is very naughty & “mmm” to me—I like eager naughty women, and cowgirl is so sexy to me & is my favorite position. Am I a “slut” for just “saying” that?…maybe, but not just because of that; plus I think that “all guy’s are sluts” (my definition: someone who loves sex and wants as much of the kind they like as they can get and their consciences can deal with). Lol

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  • Sounds more like you're an individual with your own wants, desires and fantasies. You do you (or whomever you like) and to hell with what others think. If it makes you happy and hurts no others, then what you and other consenting persons do is no-one else's business.

  • Yea it makes you a slut, no way around that.

  • Fantasies are fine, fucking 2 guys at once don't make you a slut

  • It is something I do frequently when I'm single, if I find adequate and openminded sex partners, but I don't use to talk about it to my boyfriends. I told it once and he freaked out, he dumped me with no reason other than having that kind of experience in my life. I'm not a cheater, I've never cheated while in a relationship, and I think men reaction to slut shaming us for enjoying our sexuality when we don't harm nobody is very unfair. I don't regret about getting doubly penetrated, on the contrary I'm proud of that, but I'm also frustrated that I've experimented such pleasure and I can't shout it loud.

  • everyone has different fantasies, doesn't make you anything

  • well it could be seen as slutty but nothing wrong in that... its your life and you only get one go at it so do what pleases you

  • Neither.

    Most girls can't do anal, let alone a DP. Having a fantasy is not a dirty thing.

    As a guy with a body count, DP's and gang bangs are not nearly as fun as they seem on screen. You really are better off letting it remain a fantasy than be traumatized/disappointed when it's not what you expected in reality.

  • Most definitely not! People are so quick to slut shame women. We are allowed to fantasise and or want to explore these things! I’ve wanted to try this too, so you’re not alone.

  • Its more common than you think. I have asked a question about this before, and girl, so many women are keen on the idea.

  • It doesn't make you a slut... unless you want it many times with different guys.

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