Am I acting strangely?

[PilotWhoPlays]

So I've known this girl for 2 months now and I'm 16, we've been having casual sex there and then and she is my first time and she's really sweet and caring and loving and I really love her.

She's had 3 exes whom she's had sex with and 2 of them were somewhat abusive and I wanted to ask what are your guys' opinions on it. She says I'm the first person that has made her cum and that she does the sex out of love and she enjoys it. She also recently asked if I could cum in her for the first time ( on birth control ).

The thing I wanted to ask is, should I just ignore what she did with her exes and what should I do about the cumming situation? I have a contraceptive pill. I think because I care a lot about her and that she's my first time I'm acting a bit weird/overprotective or jealous but I just want some opinions.

[kmg9150]

Dude dont worry about the exs, women often fake the O's as well. If she is having them then A. Your doing something at least half right, B. She is super comfortable and relaxed around you, her guard is down. As for busting, my first "love"(or so I thought) I was with for like 10 years and either wore a rubber or pulled out. You do it if thats what you want, not cuz she asked... Birth C, day after Pill, never use as a plan. What ever your doing you should be prepared to accept the consequences and take responsibility if the outcome. Just like if your not planning on taking care of a baby if it arises, regardless of prevention measures, then you should be having sex... But once you start looking for ways to avoid that responsibility when jt comes. You will continue to do in all areas of your life.

[PilotWhoPlays]

Yeah I see it's just her most recent ex wasn't like an ex the dude was like a manwh*re and like took advantage of her n stuff so yeah I've heard a a lot bout him. She says she would let me because she wants to have kids with me when she's older and she trusts me and stuff like that. I see her very often and we do a lot together and Im very comfortable so maybe I'm just acting weirdly it's just that it's always at the back of my head. (I have a day after pill)

[kmg9150]

Yeah get all that. Im not trying to bust your romance or anything, unless you have met her ex and been able to talk to him and see his behavior you shouldn't take judgement on him by what she relays. Im not saying she is lying, because our truths are determined by our state of mind which influence our thoughts to any particular situation. If she's pushes that she was abused and using that along with trust and wanting kids... My personal opinion is take it slow. How old are you? Like I said if your not in a place to create a baby, then you shouldn't be doing anything to increase the chances of that happening on top of what your doing... Think about this she says she wants kids, but you got a next pillio... You going to force her to take it if she says no? It seems like a lot of work she's doing to get you buried in an emotional gravitation to her. My suggestion is pull back a little and tell her your not ready for that currently because you gotta get your path in order before you can take that path. It she respects it then cool if she dont (may take a month or longer or be sooner) respect that then she's out to use you. Im not trying make you do something you dont want to, but think about where im going with your this, and step out of the situation and look into it like your reading a 📚. Love is powerful thing, especially when used to manipulate... Get your life in order and the rest will follow (find your purpose, means of financial stability, health, self love,) before you consider putting someone else want you to do's, ahead of you're what you need to do's...

[Icybread]

It's fine since you're just seeing her casually. I don't think you should be worry about her past relationships.

[PilotWhoPlays]

Yeah I probably shouldn't it's just that it's always at the back of my head so I wanted to release it yk?

[Icybread]

Well I hope talking about it helped

[PilotWhoPlays]

it did thank you :)

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You want our opinion on what? Her exes?
If you’re seeing each other casually, you shouldn’t be over protective or jealous.

[PilotWhoPlays]

I just wanted an opinion on if I was acting weird or if it was normal for me to be getting jealous over her and her exes. We see eachother almost everyday

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You shouldn’t get jealous of her and her exes.

[PilotWhoPlays]

alright yeah I probably shouldn't

[Iron_Man]

No girls will be girls

[PilotWhoPlays]

what do you mean by that?

[Iron_Man]

I’m just kidding that’s horrible how can a young teen be doing all that

[In_Trance]

Yes definitely ignore anything to do with her exes. None of that is your concern

[PilotWhoPlays]

Yeah I guess it isn't