Am I an asshole?

[Anonymous]

I met my girl when she was overweight. She had great tits and an amazing ass. She lost weight 120 pounds cause she was pre diabetic and had high blood pressure.

Her tits are saggy and it's like someone sucked the life out of them. I went to her friends place and her friend had a top on she is small but has huge boobs. I wish my girls were like hers. Why did she have to lose the weight lmao like her tits are gone. She won't take her bra off during sex.

[IveGotNoName]

What the hell is wrong with you? Do you only care about what she looks like? Does who she is mean nothing to you? You've been with this girl for what? Years? And you are judging her for not wanting to put her life at risk and choosing to work towards a healthier life?

To answer your question, yes, you absolutely are an asshole

[SnakeBoop]

She lost the weight so she would be healthier?
yes, you're absolutely the asshole.

[Asker]

She worked hard for a year. I was with her all that time, I supported her. But I'm the asshole?

[SnakeBoop]

Yeah. Why wouldn't you be? You literally asked "oh why did she lose the weight cuz now i'm affected" Yeah, affected because your partner will now potentially live longer for choosing her health? So yeah, asshole. But you already knew that and its why you asked.

[Asker]

Well I am affected. I dont find her attractive anymore.

[SnakeBoop]

then leave her so she can find someone better

[boggboss]

Yes simply put u know why she lost the weight because her health was at risk

[Asker]

But her tits are gone man

[boggboss]

So leave her but criticising her here makes u a asshole

[Asker]

I don't think it's uncommon

[boggboss]

Because many people are assholes why are u with someone you don't find attractive

[Asker]

I found her attractive when we first met.

[boggboss]

Yet u don't know and stay with her whilst criticising her

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes a very big arsehole

[booksandwonders]

Wow, you're very shallow
So the only thing you care about is her looks, breasts and ass? Not her personality or health? I hope she dumps you

[Asker]

Guys are visual, if you think men only care about personality you are dead wrong.

[booksandwonders]

Bullshit. This is mostly an excuse for dudes to be creeps. There is literally no legitimate science to back this up. It's an assumption based on decades of women being shamed for expressing any attraction in the past while simultaneously pressuring men to express their interest in fairly intrusive and exaggerated ways, because Victorians, and overly rigid gender roles, and because religions get weird sometimes. I mean, it's a bit more complicated than that, but that's the short version.

[anon1903]

Yes! The visual creature crap is going around for too long!

[anon1903]

Really? Do I really need to spell it out loud for you?

Do you expect a fucking pornostar to date you?

[bubbakong2006]

I would still enjoy them saggy or not

[mackenziestar]

I hope she leaves you. :)

[Asker]

Wow tough crowd tonight

[mackenziestar]

Tough crowd? You made a post dehumanizing her. You said in your post she doesn't take her bra off when having sex. That's God awful man, she probably feels bad about it. There's lots of guys who wouldn't think twice about her lose skin and boobs. It's sickening that you are like this.

[Asker]

Oh come on

[mackenziestar]

LEAVE HER. It will hurt her less. Problem solved, she will find someone who loves her and finds her attractive. Stop complaining and being a victim you clearly are an asshole and a pervert.

[Anonymous]

Lol poor you, but plenty of guys are in a similar position checking out other girls with big tits, wishing their girls were like that. I have big boobs and see guys with small tittie girlfriends staring at mine lol.