Am I asexual.. ?

ct1243 Xper 6

I don’t care about sex with every guy I see and just because I’m attracted to you doesn’t mean we’re going to have sex especially if there’s no connection. Love doesn’t always equal sex. I’ve gone 2 years without sex.

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I’m also bi sexual / sex doesn’t phase me

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It’s so werid when guys show me their privates 😬

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Dougzy Xper 5
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It`s an emotion don`t worry about it if someone doesn`t do it for you then they don`t , Most people who i have met that have had a lot of sexual partners also so come a lot of issues as wel. There is always something a little off with them as well and generally not that good as they lack the key elements
"one great meal is better than 100 bad ones"
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Snowman666 Xper 6
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You might have a chemical inbalance. your sex drive is a chemical reaction. See doctor if you are concerned. Estrogen levels. Otherwise it is possible you have desires you haven't properly address. Knew of a man who was 46 before he found out he liked lady boys. Was married twice to women. He was missing out on his enjoyment untill he was 46.
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- ct1243
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  I already checked with the doctor I’m healthy
- Snowman666
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  i would suggest exploring different kinks untill you find that zing. Do you think that is possible?
- ct1243
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  I’m apart if the LGTBQ community an I find having gay friends work better than straight friends
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- Snowman666
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  As long as you have happy you are good. If it ain't broke don't fix it. But if you don't have happy, then it is worth searching for. The one man i knew was the same way. Then he found his chick with a dick and he became extremly happy and his life was much better for it.
- ct1243
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  Snowman ⛄️ ( had to find a cute emoji) sex doesn’t phase me unless it’s with the right person. I don’t sleep around with multiple men. I’ve been this way all my life. Just because I’m attracted to you doesn’t mean we’re going to have sex. I haven’t had sex in over a year. I get tired of men throwing themselves at me for sex

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Flower7 Master
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That sounds like you're probably a demi-sexual, which is on the asexual spectrum. People who are demi-sexual have to have an emotional connection with a person before they're able to feel sexual attraction.
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- ct1243
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  Makes sense to this / I’m Joy going to have sex unless something is there
- ct1243
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  You nailed it flower 🌺/ I knew I was on the wave length

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GiventoFly01 Xper 6
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I am the same way
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- ct1243
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  Team #demisexial #asexual
colelydiason Xper 5
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Do you enjoy sex with the right person though? Probably demisexual then.
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- ct1243
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  I do enjoy sex with the right person
Gwenhwyfar Master
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You are NOT asexual
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- Gwenhwyfar
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  That can be weird lol
- ct1243
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  I’m actually demisexual
- Gwenhwyfar
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  Awesome!!!
COMMODOREII Master
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I don't think so. Maybe you are just being cautious.
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- ct1243
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  Cautious about what lol
- COMMODOREII
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  About anyone hurting you again.
- ct1243
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  Nah even prior to relationships where I had connections with them ; it took 6 months before we had sex
Not-karen Xper 6
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That’s great. Ummm ya thanks for sharing. I think I give zero fucks to your post. ✌️
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- ct1243
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  You felt the needed to post
- Not-karen
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  As did you?
- ct1243
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  Not - Karen here you are under my post whinning and bitching
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- Not-karen
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  Not at all. Just curious as to your statement. Rather odd and really just out there in left field.
- ct1243
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  It was a LGTBQ question pertaining to sexuality
- ct1243
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  Of course you wouldn’t understand it
- Not-karen
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  Perhaps.
- ct1243
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  😆 🤣🤣🤣
- ct1243
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  Sorry if I sound like a bitch lol 😆 God you men
H8INCHES Xper 7
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maybe you like women and just haven't experienced it yet
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- ct1243
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  I’m bisexual and I date mostly women
- H8INCHES
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  Me too... But I'm scared of men. Screwy huh
Anonymous
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I guess you are
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Anonymous
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Majority of the girls are asexual, so chill.
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- ct1243
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  What do I have to chill about
- ct1243
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  This is who I am
- ct1243
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  In that spectrum
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- Opinion Owner
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  Chill and relax because you are the majority of female type
- ct1243
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  No ideal what you’re talking about
- Opinion Owner
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  I mean majority of females are asexual you are no exception
- ct1243
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  I’m not asexual I’m demisexual
- Opinion Owner
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  Now what's this
- ct1243
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  I highly recommend you research
- Opinion Owner
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  No plans
- ct1243
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  So why are you attacking me about my sexuality
- ct1243
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  I’m apart of the LGTBQ COMMUNITY 🌈
- Opinion Owner
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  What's wrong with being asexual by the way you seem quite sexy. Got big boobs I guess!
- ct1243
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  People who are asexual have little sexual attraction to people and requires a lot of sexually attraction
- Opinion Owner
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  That's cool and most ladies are this way
- ct1243
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  I’m not asexual though
- Opinion Owner
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  That's nice. Still virgin?
- ct1243
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  No I’m not I gave my body to men who I had connections with
- Opinion Owner
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  But you didn't enjoy their body especially penis?
- ct1243
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  No not really lol - it feels weird sexually with a man
- ct1243
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  The only way I’ll have sex with a man if there’s a connection
- Opinion Owner
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  Ever been naked and sexual with a woman?
- ct1243
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  Yes I have
- Opinion Owner
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  What's your opinion on male body?
- Opinion Owner
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  You enjoy vagina and female body much more?
- ct1243
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  What about a mans body it’s a cock and a man - wtf 😬🤨🥴
- ct1243
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  Women are beautiful 😍
- Opinion Owner
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  Women are beautiful and the only nice thing about male body is cock?
- ct1243
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  You’re making it seem important because he’s a man with a cock - I personally prefer women
- Opinion Owner
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  So cocks are creepy?
- ct1243
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  Idc for cocks
- Opinion Owner
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  Pussy arouses you more?
- ct1243
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  Yes it does 🍑
- Opinion Owner
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  Ever licked a woman?